Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[emz87]

i tested again this morning and got a bfn,im having really bad lower backache had a few pains in my lower stomach and tbh with no af and having bfn's it doesnt seem normal so i will be goin to the drs on tuesday and i will want answers from him i aint gonna get fobbed off by him

 

[LinziLoo]

Good for you, don't leave until they have agreed to do something or at least do some blood tests or something. It's better to find out whats going on in there. Hopefully they'll help you as much as they can.

Hubby and I are heading out for a meal tonight and going to the cinema which we haven't done for ages. It's rare that we get time together because he works away through the week and only back at weekends (and they have the cheek to make him on call too sometimes!) and I usually work too. So yay for time together!

Pity I'm not ovulating!

 

[emz87]

i know that the dr is going to try and palm me off sayin my cycles are still messed up after coming off the depo but he would be wrong.lol.no but seriously with all these syptoms u wld expect a bfp but nothing so what if its something serious!!it probably isnt but im not taking the risk.

Oooooh i hope u have a nice time well it wouldnt hurt to bd for nothing would it lol im babysitting tonight for my niece and nephew-my niece doesnt sleep through the night yet neither does my son and i got work in the morning its gonna kill me lol no bd for me tonight lol

 

[LinziLoo]

I know thats what my doc would say too, this is only my 3rd cycle off the BCP, although the last 2 were 28/29 days...this one is getting on CD50! I have lost count.

Hope you got on okay with the rascals! Hubs and I had a good night last night, nice meal and good film. He's gone back to work though so I'm alone again! I'm going out with the girls from work tonight, wedding reception. Another BFN this morning so will be indulging in wine!

 

[Mikhaila66]

Ok....So i've read this entire thread & I am now sadly joining ;(!
I am about a week late
3 negative hpt
Lower back ache
Weird cramps
Headaches
Sore nips
& lots of discharge...
Any feedback/?
...I'll keep ya updated!

 

[NGRidley]

Ok....So i've read this entire thread & I am now sadly joining ;(!
I am about a week late
3 negative hpt
Lower back ache
Weird cramps
Headaches
Sore nips
& lots of discharge...
Any feedback/?
...I'll keep ya updated!

I wish I had feedback....since Sunday is slowly rolling in here (it's 1238am) this would be day 8 for me late.
I have like no symptoms now.\

I bought a BBT thermometer to start. I know I should start on CD1....but for all I know I didn't ovulate in september meaning I could be on CD 7 now.....*sigh*

 

[LinziLoo]

Mikhaila, sorry you are joining us! It's not very fun unfortunately! Your symptoms sound good, much more than I am getting! Hopefully the levels of HCG are just too low to show up yet, some ladies don't get their BFPs until they are 2 weeks late so there is still hope for you! When are you planning on testing again?

I have lost count of how many days late I am, it depresses me to know that I am approaching cd50. I'm gonna test again tomorrow.

Also frustrated at the fact that I dunno if I have ovulated yet. Just going by symptoms as this is just our first month but am going to chart next time (if it ever comes around). Had some funny ovary type pains this morning just after DTD so we'll see how the HPTs look in 2 weeks!

 

[scorpiodragon]

I have not read the whole thread I admit, however I have quickly scanned... I am sorry that some of you are still waiting for answers, and I hope you all get them soon! In the mean time I hope we can be one anothers support system to keep our sanity?! hehe! Can I join you? I am 5 or 6 days late and have had 3 's I have never missed a period or been late more than a few days unless I was pregnant or BF'ing so I am officially confused I took agnus castus this month and I think it messed me up even more... My symptoms are very emotional, crampy on/off and very uptight, but I think the last is because I am losing my bleeping mind over this whole cycle... My temp dropped but now it seems like it may be going back up? I am not sure... FF says I ovulated on CD 15 if I put it in research mode but every other mode says it is not detected... so this makes me wonder if I didn't ovulate then does that mean I will skip a period? Should I just count myself on CD5 and start again?

 

[NGRidley]

I am having a feeling that I either didnt ovulate, or that my cycle this month is messed up.
I bought a BBT thermometer to start temping. I know that this month won't be proper since I am starting at some point in the middle, but it gets me the practice.

Any symptoms that I thought I may have had for pregnancy are gone (except heartburn every day)...so that is why I am thinking that I am just messed up.

So right now I am at CD 37.....I think. Last month it was 29 days

 

[LinziLoo]

Hi Scorpio, happy for you to join us! Hopefully you'll not be here for long! I know that no ovulation is a reason for a missed period, but I'm not sure how that affects the next cycle and when you would ovulate, although maybe you would see that with your temps? I dunno much about that kinda stuff, so maybe I am talking rubbish! I'm emotional on and off, along with the cramps which seem worse after I eat something and when I lie down.

Yup, still clutching at those straws

NGRidley - I hope the temps get you somewhere and give you an idea what is going on! Our bodies are confusing at the best of times aren't they?

To top it all off I feel a bit thrushy.

 

[emz87]

hey im still here and af is officially 1 week late, been having really bad cramps in my stomach usually when af is due and i cramp i bleed within seconds but nothing!! its really getting to me now i just want to knw what is going on!!drs tuesday if no af is here.some of u girls are so patient waiting for af,i could never do it i want and need answers before i go insane

 

[mossip]

helloooooooooo,

Im stiilllllllllllllll waiting and im getting rather bored. I have neva in my life been this late and i just want flowage .

I hope every1 gets their's soon

xx

 

[Mikhaila66]

Mikhaila, sorry you are joining us! It's not very fun unfortunately! Your symptoms sound good, much more than I am getting! Hopefully the levels of HCG are just too low to show up yet, some ladies don't get their BFPs until they are 2 weeks late so there is still hope for you! When are you planning on testing again?

I have lost count of how many days late I am, it depresses me to know that I am approaching cd50. I'm gonna test again tomorrow.

Also frustrated at the fact that I dunno if I have ovulated yet. Just going by symptoms as this is just our first month but am going to chart next time (if it ever comes around). Had some funny ovary type pains this morning just after DTD so we'll see how the HPTs look in 2 weeks!

The last time I tested was thursday....& I don't have anymore tests in the house -so I won't be tempted to test!! I think I'll wait a full week before I test again...-I just HATE seeing negatives -just makes me less & less hopeful.

...SO most of my "symptoms" are gone....
I just wish the would come already!!!!

Good luck everybody!!!

 

[Mikhaila66]

oK...So to get a better idea on my situation hear is some more INFO :
CD1 - around August 24th
Only had ONE time this month!!!! on CD15 (September 8th)
...and my Cycle in about 29 days long.
So I guess that makes me about 7 days late...huh it seems like it's been longer.
So ya having only one time....doesn't look like my chances are too high...
& if I did ovulate at CD 14...then I could have missed the boat.
I hate waiting!!!

 

[ryder]

I am almost 6 days late. I tested 2 days after I was due and havent tested since. Im going to wait a bit though.

 

[emz87]

well hopefully im gonna go to the drs i got tonsilitus so gonna go about that coz dont want the lo catching it and whilst im there im gonna find out why im late and having really bad cramps and bfn.wish me luck!!

 

[LinziLoo]

Ooo, good luck Emz! And hope you feel better soon, tonsilitis is nasty.

Mikhaila - Just think about all those unplanned pregnancies that are a result of a one night stand! It can happen with just one time so don't rule yourself out yet!

I hate the BFNs too, I'm holding off testing cos I know it's gonna be BFN I am still having these on and off cramps, had a bit of a cry at the tv last night (not like me) and had a sore booby at bedtime. Yes, just one. The left one, if it makes any difference.

Still clutching at straws

 

[emz87]

came home from drs gotta take a urine sample up to the hospital 2moro for them to test i should have the results back on wednesday.im not hopeful tho but dr seems to think that its i am its just taking time for my hcg levels but on the other hand my dr is a knob
how is everyone today?

 

[LinziLoo]

My doctor is a knob too. At least they are doing something about it, and if it is another BFN they can take it from there. How is the tonsilitis?

I have thrush, to top everything off. Just incase I didn't have enough on my mind. But, I am well stocked up on tea tree oil and natural yoghurt so should be back to normal in the next few days. Testing tomorrow!

 

[scorpiodragon]

LOL aren't all Dr.'s knobs lately... ugh! Too funny... like buddy do you realize how many tests I have taken?! hehe~
Ok so my temp is still "technically" above my cover line but not by much... this is so damn annoying! I just want to get on with this cycle so I can start TTC again... thinking I will wait until Wednesday and try and get into the Dr.'s if she has not shown... wish my cramps would just bring her on! I swear I thought I saw some pink CM last night and I got so excited.... but maybe it was my imagination...