Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[rensben]

Hey everyone

I'm currently 5 days late - no signs of pregnancy or AF
although have been soooo tired the last 7 days

Too scared to test so waiting until MOnday I think

Good luck everyone !

xxx

Hi Ebony Blaze,

Are you having any symptoms? I am 3 days late and my only symptoms are a late period, very slightly tender breasts, and I had a bit of cramping on 11 and 12 dpo. I have taken 3 tests so far. I got very faint lines on a 10UI test and a negative with a cb digital.

A friend of mine didn't get a bfp until a week after her period was due, even with a blood test from the doctor and she is now 4 months pregnant!!

 

[emz87]

this waiting is driving me absolute mad,well iv either got a bug or i am pregnant this sick thing is driving me mad i had really bad morning sickness with my last pregnancy maybe its a sign.but why the bfn its really getting me down now

 

[LinziLoo]

Was a bit down this morning when I got another BFN. Fast approaching CD50.

Went out for lunch and shopping with my friends though and they dunno that we are TTC so was good to escape for a while. Had a good day, kept my mind off things.

 

[NGRidley]

I have been eyeing this thread for a few days now.
I am now 4 days late for AF and no signs of AF arriving!

I may have had symptoms of being pg, but if I wasn't TTC I think I would just think nothing about them...so I am not sure.

Last HPT I took was yesterday with FMU. It was a FRER and
I even tried to see if I could imagine a line there....but really I couldnt.

Started to get frustrated. I am planning to test again saturday and if nothing then I will call my doctors on monday I think.

 

[LinziLoo]

Hi NGRidley, hope you are well!

It is a frustrating situation to be in, I have felt so many different emotions since af was due and I'm sure there are more to come.The confusion about when I ovulated and the diappointment at BFNs are the worst for me. Also symptom spotting constantly! But like you said, if I wasn't TTC would I even notice them? Who knows!

Good luck for your visit to the doctor! Hope you get sorted soon! x

 

[mylifeasis]

Hey girls!

can i join? AF was due yesterday have tested this morning and a big huge fat BFN! im refusing to look at the test after 10mins im soo sick of seeing evap lines on nearly every test. Had brownish discharge on the 11th and cramping and now have heartburn but thats about it. If the wicked witch is going to show her head i wish she would already.

 

[NGRidley]

Hey girls!

can i join? AF was due yesterday have tested this morning and a big huge fat BFN! im refusing to look at the test after 10mins im soo sick of seeing evap lines on nearly every test. Had brownish discharge on the 11th and cramping and now have heartburn but thats about it. If the wicked witch is going to show her head i wish she would already.

I wrap my tests up in toilet paper and bury them in the garbage when I am done... makes it less likely to go back and try to look.

I havent gone back to look at 1 so far

 

[mylifeasis]

ohh im going to have to try that idea. i really need to stop looking at them.

 

[LinziLoo]

Hiya! Of course you can join, but as you can imagine it's not very fun!

I do that with my tests too, wrap them up and bin them as soon as the 10mins is up. I know I would go back everytime if I didn't. I agree about af hurrying up if she is gonna show, it's horrible being stuck in limbo, not knowing what is going on!

But hopefully your levels are too low to be detected and your BFP is on it's way! x

 

[mylifeasis]

i hope thats all it is. I have watery discharge but no cramping "yet" (isnt great to be able to talk about our womenly problems out in the open like this and not feel judged lol)

 

[LizzyBeth]

Hello Everyone. I'm in the same boat it seems... I am currently on CD 33 (normal is 27) and have had 3 negative (First Response) HPTs - taken on cd 26, cd 30 and cd 33. I have a bad head cold which started on Monday, so I feel like crud anyway. My symptoms are: late period, pelvic aches and twinges, dry mouth, nose bleed (1), gums bleeding when brushing teeth, fatigue, occasional tender bb's, (TMI) watery mucus vaginal drainage (to equal out my sinus is full too! LOL) and elevated temps. With my previous pregnancies, the HPT would normally be positive on cd27 with one exception on cd 36 due to a LATE O. I don't know if I have JUMPED right into menopause, have delayed hcg, or just no hcg present in my urine. (SIGH) I guess I will wait until CD 37 to test again, if negative and no AF by CD40; Time to see the doctor.

 

[emz87]

af is 4days late another bfn this morning and im officially a poas addict i do 1 every morning lol im still feeling really sick,back ache and cramps. i really wanna go see my dr but tbh hes absolute crap and makes me feel really small and stupid.but i wanna know what is up with me.i wonder how common it is to have to wait 2weeks after af was due to get a bfp thats how long i had to wait last time so thats my time limit this time!! even af here would be better than this,this is physically and emotionally draining.Ive turned into an utter misery-kinda like when i was pregnant poor oh gets the brunt of it

 

[Carrie29]

Still here and waiting, had bad indigestion last night and that's about it.. thinking about doing another test, i have 3 left in my drawer..

 

[LinziLoo]

Hi Lizzybeth, nice to meet you! Fingers crossed you haven't jumped to the menopause! That would be awful Hopefully either low HCG levels or late ovulation for you. Hope you get your dr to do something about it.

I feel the same about my dr Emz, I know she would just tell me my cycles are still settling after the pill.

I didn't test this morning, starting to feel that it is a bit of a waste every single day especially when they are so expensive. I have buckets of ebay cheapies but don't trust them so end up doing a more expensive one anyway! Not had any cramps today but I feel very warm. I am quite sensitive to heat and end up with red itchy blotches when I am too hot, and I feel that coming on. That's normal though so can't be counted as a symptom. I did notice last night when I lay in bed that my tummy was sore, but that is it. I'm rather hungry today too.

Clutching straws? Hope you are all well x

 

[NGRidley]

I'm still here and waiting as well.
AF has still not arrived, and I am now 5 days late.

I was planning on waiting to test on Saturday, but DH and I went and bought more HPTs last night, so I am going to test tomorrow morning.

I have a 3 pk...so I think I will test Friday, then Sunday and if nothing definitely calling my doctor on monday.

 

[mylifeasis]

im still here aswell.. No AF yet... 3 days late... Hmm havnt tested again.

 

[Kentish Mama]

I am now on day 37 of my cycle and I'm usually 26-28 days but still testing BFN - I did the last one this morning with my first wee of the day. This is so unusual for me that I don't care if I'm not pregnant I'm just terrified that there is something wrong with me.

I guess that I could have conceived too early for BFP and that the foetus wasn't viable and I'm just waiting for a bleed to get things back to normal. What do you think? I feel too scared to go to the dr in case he wants to examine me do swabs and tests, etc.

 

[LinziLoo]

NGRidley, any news from your test this morning?

Kentish Mama, I'm not too sure how that would work if the foetus wasn't viable. Maybe it would be beneficial to go to the doctor to get an idea of what is going on?

I'm still hanging on too. Not tested either. I'm going to a friends wedding on Saturday and will be indulging in a few wines if I am still BFN on Saturday morning!

 

[NGRidley]

NGRidley, any news from your test this morning?

Kentish Mama, I'm not too sure how that would work if the foetus wasn't viable. Maybe it would be beneficial to go to the doctor to get an idea of what is going on?

I'm still hanging on too. Not tested either. I'm going to a friends wedding on Saturday and will be indulging in a few wines if I am still BFN on Saturday morning!

my report is......



sigh.....

 

[LinziLoo]

Sorry to hear about your BFN. It's hard to stay positive at this stage isn't it?

Boooo!