Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[LinziLoo]

Kevbaby - I thought the same when I started this thread and everyone replied - thank goodness I'm not the only one! We are here if you need a chat though, we all know what we are going through.

My boobs are really itchy. And I had my chocolate, was gooood!

 

[cazball1]

AF showed her face this morning,19 day late! Just wanted to say a big thank you to all. I only posted once when I was going crazy but, reading all the posts really helped me and stoped me going BONKERS! good look to everyone hope you get your BFP or AF xxxxxxx

 

[crossroads]

OMG - I am glad I am not the only one going through this.

Af was due two days ago (I am NEVER late)!! BFN on cheapie tests - I have a clearblue but again - they are so expensive that I do't want to use it and get BFN! I have been under stress this week so it could just be that.

No symptons!? AF cramps yesterday but no AF!!!!!

Its sooooo frustrating - either want AF or positive test! ARRRGGGGHHH!
Sorry to rant - good luck to you all x x

That's exactily what's going on with me!

My AF was due on Monday. I've got cramps, sore boobs, and irritability.

Started lightly spotting today and some weird brown cm!

on cheap test yesterday with FMU. I have a First Response test but like you I don't want to use it If AF does not show herself properly by Monday morning then I will use it.

 

[MummyCat]

I dunno. But it sure if frusterating. I was just doing some reading and it said there are only two possible reasons for AF being late.

#1. You are pregnant (duh, genius)
#2. You didnt ovulate..

not sure if I'm buying this. What do you all think??

see now I think i didn't ovulate this cycle... which would explain why I'm on CD45 with no AF yet (and 4 bfn's) but my doctor said if I don't ovulate I should still bleed... so I have no clue!!

Am sorry to hear some of you have started having your AF (as I'm sure you're hoping for BFP) but it gives me hope that my AF could be around the corner!! xx

 

[scorpiodragon]

Well I am 14 days late today... no AF yet... and I am not sure if I am going to ovulate (as I predicated in my previous post), I have almost positive OPK's and CP is high, medium and well CM has been EW forever so who the hell knows... I am just keeping on telling DH I don't know honey lets just keep on hehe! I do hope that it was the case that I didn't ovulate and therefore didn't bleed (even though I have read you should bleed anyway!) and there isn't a "problem" FF isn't even sure I ovulated... I split my chart up so I don't have one long @ss one LOL I don't know I have never skipped a period or anything like this before... just a waiting game... All I know is that I better get AF or a BFP in a couple of weeks!!

 

[mossip]

Mossip - Has she shown her face? Hope so!

Nope still got really bad cramps and my boobs r really sore so hoping its gonna b soon.

Im at the docs on Fri so will let u no how i get on.

How r u feeling?
xx

 

[esm30]

You ladies crack me up! I found this thread yesterday morning & it took me until this afternoon to catch up with everyone.

Officially joining you is bitter sweet. It's nice to know that we are all pretty much in the same boat. My af was due on Sunday the 4th, it's now Wednesday the 7th. I know some of you had very long waits. I'm hoping to not be on that end of the boat. lol My cycles are usually 27 days, and pretty darn regular. I don't know what's up. I go to the dr on Tuesday. I've taken several cheapie tests & BFN still as of this morning. I took one name brand test, but like you don't want to invest too much in a twice a day POAS habit.

Baby dust to all of us.

I haven't really had many symptoms either. I think some of the ones I have had are phantom, "oh, I ate too much & now I'm nautious..but still I'm nautious.." haha Mild cramping on and off, (last week sun/mon they were bad) very small, short bouts of nausea, sore back, and very mild tingling from my breasts-- on and off & not severe. The most unusual for me is acne. I usually have a great complexion. For two weeks now, I've been breaking out quite a bit. The day AF was due, I had a very sore back, and cramps, but nada. I kept rushing off to the bathroom, but she never did show.

(wow, I like to talk a lot)

 

[DeeTTC]

16 dpo but BFN a few days ago. Tender BB on the sides...increased cm. First time charting but from what I have been told my chart looks good?! Any suggestions?

 

[LinziLoo]

Mossip - I'm just the same hun, feeling a bit sad tonight. I am fed up waiting! Been having a few little cramps and pains in my back too. Mega itchy boobs too, but am wearing a new bra so probably just that Yay for your AF! At least you know she is on the way and that is the start of a new, fresh cycle (which hopefully won't last as long as this one!) Hope you get on ok at the dr, don't forget to let us know how you get on!

Esm - Can't believe you have read this whole thread! I was bored the other day and thought I would read it from the beginning and I got to page 10 and thought "BORED" and moved on to something else (most likely birth stories haha). Hopefully you ovulated a bit later this cycle and that little un is getting snug! Don't forget to let us know how the testing goes!

 

[LinziLoo]

Dee, I'm sorry, I don't know the first thing about charting so can't help you on that front and I wouldn't know if it looks good or not. Have you tested again since your BFN? Your symptoms sound good! Hope your BFP is on the way x

 

[DeeTTC]

Haha thanks for trying LinziLoo! I tested a few days ago and it was BFN. I think I will wait until the weekend is over and try again. So hard not to test everyday!!

 

[esm30]

Dee: Your chart looks awesome! I know it's frustrating to have such a 'good' chart, but still get a bfn! I would wait till the morning of 19 dpo to try and test again. Then again, who am I to say that when I test every morning? hahaha
I started charting last month, but not on ff. My temps are all over the place & have been. They have still been above the coverline, but otherwise they are very confusing. I wish I had your numbers!

Linziloo: I'm a fast reader & the faster I read, the faster I can stalk. lol

 

[DeeTTC]

Hahah. Thanks for taking a look and for the kind words. Really hope it is a good sign.

 

[DeeTTC]

I have also noticed for the last few days wet/eggwhiteish cm....not like during ovulation though....some days it is creamy....some days it is eggwhite like...???

 

[esm30]

I actually get that too, have it now actually. Mine isn't every day though. Just gloppy wet kinda like ewcm, but at the same time not really. So, TMI? but I'm pretty sure it's what I've been experiencing too. I'm just sorry I can't help with the 'why' part.

K, silly me, but How do you get that profile pic up? lol

 

[emz87]

just came back from the drs she was lovely said im probably not pregnant as im having bfn so shes sending me for a blood test to check if im aneamic,diabetes,thyroid and just incase pregnant.so gues af is just late i wont be able to go for my blood test til tues and wont have the results til thurs so more waiting!!!

 

[LinziLoo]

Went for my blood results today. HCG was positive but very low level (6.5 I think they said). They took more bloods and I can expect the results on Monday.

If it was a normally progressing pregnancy if I done a HPT it would be positive by now wouldn't it? I haven't tested since Monday morning so might do one tomorrow.

If it is BFN and the second lot of bloods come back lower or negative then they are going to ultrasound because there must be something there to be giving a positive HCG level.

 

[MummyCat]

esm, click on the 'UserCP' link on the top left of the screen and down the left hand side you can click on a link to edit your avatar... this is where you can add a pic!

Linz... well at least that's something hun!! It means that they'll not stop till they find an answer! hope you're okay!!

 

[mossip]

Went for my blood results today. HCG was positive but very low level (6.5 I think they said). They took more bloods and I can expect the results on Monday.

If it was a normally progressing pregnancy if I done a HPT it would be positive by now wouldn't it? I haven't tested since Monday morning so might do one tomorrow.

If it is BFN and the second lot of bloods come back lower or negative then they are going to ultrasound because there must be something there to be giving a positive HCG level.

Aww hunny hope your ok.

Well still nothing for me either. Im at the doctors in the morning so will update u all then.

Big for every1
xx

 

[LinziLoo]

Thats true, MummyCat, never thought of it that way.

Thanks for your hugs etc, really appreciate it. Hoping tomorrows test is a BFP then I won't need to think about the alternative.

Hopefully we will both have some good developments tomorrow Mossip! Let us know how it goes x