Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[mossip]

Thats true, MummyCat, never thought of it that way.

Thanks for your hugs etc, really appreciate it. Hoping tomorrows test is a BFP then I won't need to think about the alternative.

Hopefully we will both have some good developments tomorrow Mossip! Let us know how it goes x

Will do hunny.

If u need to talk u no im always here
xx

 

[LinziLoo]

Thanks chick, you too x

 

[MummyCat]

Bless you both...

for the results you want!!!!!

 

[workaholic]

Update: I'm still here waiting for my AF or BFP!!

What's going on??!! I'm on cd55. I hate this feeling of being in limbo!

Going to test (again!) tomorrow, so fx'd for a bfp, although i just don't feel pg, so fully expecting a bfn.

 

[LinziLoo]

Was BFN this morning.

 

[mossip]

Morning ladies,

Well i've been to the docs and she said it highly unlikely im prego coz of my problems and has give me the withdrawl meds whooooooooooooooo hoooooooooooo. So hopefully by the end of my holidays i will have a period and my cd2 meds taken yey meeee.

Hope every 1 is ok and u all get your possitive results soon

xx

 

[LinziLoo]

Great news Mossip! Glad they done something to help you. You'll be onto the next cyc;e before you know it!

x

 

[MummyCat]

Update: I'm still here waiting for my AF or BFP!!

What's going on??!! I'm on cd55. I hate this feeling of being in limbo!

Going to test (again!) tomorrow, so fx'd for a bfp, although i just don't feel pg, so fully expecting a bfn.

Ah hun... I'm on CD51... so understand your annoyance... I hope all goes well for you tomorrow!

Linz hun.... sorry about your bfn... don't let it worry you too much, see what happens at docs... clearly there is some amount of HCG!

 

[esm30]

BFN, You ladies are all stronger than I am. I am not dealing with this well. Not well at all. I was an absolute mess this morning. I honestly do not want to spend my entire weekend a sobbing mess. I just think that's exactly how it's going to be.

I'm sorry LinziLoo!! I hope that they find out what is causing the hcg levels to be above a 5. It would be nice if it were a babe. My heart aches for you.

I have no spirit this morning. Telling myself not to give up hope is like chasing after a man, 'that's just not into you.' I feel like I'm doing more emotional damage to myself by saying well, if the witch isn't here then there is hope.. *sigh* I'm just broken this morning.
Coffee, I need more coffee..

DH and I got into a fight too. Seriously, that doesn't help.

 

[mossip]

BFN, You ladies are all stronger than I am. I am not dealing with this well. Not well at all. I was an absolute mess this morning. I honestly do not want to spend my entire weekend a sobbing mess. I just think that's exactly how it's going to be.

I'm sorry LinziLoo!! I hope that they find out what is causing the hcg levels to be above a 5. It would be nice if it were a babe. My heart aches for you.

I have no spirit this morning. Telling myself not to give up hope is like chasing after a man, 'that's just not into you.' I feel like I'm doing more emotional damage to myself by saying well, if the witch isn't here then there is hope.. *sigh* I'm just broken this morning.
Coffee, I need more coffee..

DH and I got into a fight too. Seriously, that doesn't help.

Aww hunny hope u feel beta soon,
U need chocolate, chocolate and more chocolate .
U'll get there 1 day u just need to keep your chin up and think about all the good things u have going on in your life. I no it seems hard now but it WILL all b worth it in the end.

xx

 

[esm30]

I do need chocolate.
I don't think I understand all the science behind not ovulating and not shedding the uterine lining. I mean why, whether there was an egg or not, your body should still have to get rid of that, to start anew...
Stupid mother nature. (and bless her all at the same time)
I didn't think this was my month at all.. then af was late.. but then all the bfn..
Emotional rollercoaster/wreck is what I am.

 

[MummyCat]

Aww hun....

I know it's heartbreaking, because it's not something that you can forget about... it's always on your mind and if you forget for the briefest moment, you then need to pee and are then once again reminded that AF hasn't shown up!

It'll be worth it in the end when you get your sticky bean... you'll appreciate every moment of the miracle of pregnancy and child birth!

(We had a miscarriage before we fell pregnant with Lottie... and as hard as it was to deal with, I feel like I was meant to have Lottie, who we wouldn't have had if the first pregnancy didn't miscarry... so it makes dealing with it all a lot easier!) Does that make any sense? it did in my head

 

[esm30]

Thanks Mummycat.
I know in my head that this just happens sometimes. My head and my heart are just not always on the same page. j
Do you think I should start doing opks next week anyway? I don't necessarily need one more stick to pee on twice a day, but I don't know.
What's sad is that any other time in my life if AF hadn't shown up (and she always does) I woulda been like whoo hoo cramp free week!! Now, it's just devistating.

 

[MummyCat]

Awww... bless ya! I completely understand, as will most of the ladies here!!

If you feel like you should be ovulating soon, then I would say go for it. It may give you something else to focus on and get to grips with the charting stuff. If you feel like you need a break from it all... ask DH to hide all the sticks so you can't pee on them xx

 

[LinziLoo]

How is everyone doing? x

 

[MummyCat]

ello... been leaking badly today (tmi...sorry) going to test in the morning... just in case!

Will be on CD53 tomorrow! *sigh* last test and bfn was on Tuesday, so five days ago!

How you doing hun? when you expecting to hear from the docs? xx

 

[DeeTTC]

Hey everyone. Looks like af is on her way. Starting to spot today and temps are going down. Thought my chart was looking good but maybe I ovulated a few days later than I thought. At least a new cycle is coming and can try again. Hope everyone is doing great.

 

[scorpiodragon]

Linziloo - Poor you... the same thing happened to me a couple of months ago Hcg was 11.6 took about a week to finally get out of my system then AF showed up unfortunately... it was a chemical pregnancy... I hope your levels rise!! Sounds like the same thing though sorry to say...
Mossip - I am glad you've got some answers!
Esm30 - eat chocolate! It'll make you feel better, keep your head high!!
DeeTTC - sorry the witch got you!
Cath - FX'd for you hun!
As for me I am technically now 17 days late, BUT... I separated my charts and I have been temping and using OPK's and guess what I am pretty sure I ovulated, I am praying my temp stays high and I get my crosshairs tomorrow! I guess I just skipped a period for the first time in my life??!! Who the hell knows!! I seriously hope that I get AF or a BFP in a couple of weeks or off to the Dr.'s I go! Our bodies are so messed up no matter how you look at it, regular or irregular, our bodies go through some strange things with out the added stress of every day BS...
Keep smiling and hang in there, I hope we all get our answers soon so we can stop being in limbo!
xxx

 

[LinziLoo]

Got an appointment tomorrow at the docs for the results. I think it is a chemical pregnancy, I just don't feel pregnant. Plus that HPT was BFN when I took it 4 days after the positive bloods. I know myself that it hasn't progressed :sad:

Hope everyones testing goes well! C'mon some BFPs! x

 

[mossip]

Got an appointment tomorrow at the docs for the results. I think it is a chemical pregnancy, I just don't feel pregnant. Plus that HPT was BFN when I took it 4 days after the positive bloods. I know myself that it hasn't progressed :sad:

Hope everyones testing goes well! C'mon some BFPs! x

Aww hunny ive got my fingers crossed 4 u.
XX