Anyone else with late AF and BFN? Come and join me!

[Jake_1]

Sorry to hear linziloo,
walks26 - did you do your test?
Aaaarrrrgghhh - I just wish the would show or we get a at least then we would all be able to keep going.

Stay well all
x

 

[babydeabreu]

awwww sorry to hear that hun...

this is why im refusing to test untill another week cos i get so upset when disapointed. so ill cross ma arms tap ma feet and wait till the big old then after a week if still no then ing will commence i hate that i wana draw a line on the test and go hahahahaahhaahah shame its so shame but then i really will be crazy lol
well good luck having so much fun waitng lol xx

thats what happening to my mind lolol xxx

 

[LinziLoo]

My BFN will appear in the pregnancy test gallery with a big homedrawn line on it making a BFP and shall be titled "Why is my test line blue when it's a pink dye test?"...Because you drew it in yourself you silly moo! Haha.

I'm just gonna forget about it for the whole weekend. Hubby and I are spending the weekend with my inlaws so not gonna have time to think about it or test! Which also means I won't be on here either. But having a stress free weekend (If my MIL behaves herself!)

Best wishes x

 

[babydeabreu]

My BFN will appear in the pregnancy test gallery with a big homedrawn line on it making a BFP and shall be titled "Why is my test line blue when it's a pink dye test?"...Because you drew it in yourself you silly moo! Haha.

I'm just gonna forget about it for the whole weekend. Hubby and I are spending the weekend with my inlaws so not gonna have time to think about it or test! Which also means I won't be on here either. But having a stress free weekend (If my MIL behaves herself!)

Best wishes x

have a great time chilling thats the best thing you can do to your mind body and bloody emotions...chill and have a nice cosy time.

i think when we over try so much and we make our emotions more alert and sensitive to things around us like seeing pregnant women everywhere..seeing babies everwhere..finding ur self picking up baby magz when ur not even pregnant taking test when urv taken 10 in like a week..thinking its all wrong the test is wrong. im learning that relaxing is the best thing and takng it slow is the best thing cos im making my self go crazy i mean coooocooooo if im late im not goner rush to get 20test and test everyday lol im just gonner go with the flow and try keep some sanity

this forum helps alot and its great to no thatu girlies are here going through the same thing

xx

 

[cheerios]

Oh boy, reading this thread is hilarious! I love the fact that there are you girls out there who are soooo honest.

I still don´t have my AF. More than 2 months now. The last time I tested was 2 weeks ago. And I hate testing only to have BFNs all the time. Which is why I don´t wanna test until the end of this month again.

But recently I noticed that my pants are getting tighter! This is sooo ridiculous, because I haven´t been eating more. On the contrary, I´ve been trying to exercise more, now that cold weather is starting. But I don´t seem to be able to stop my pants from becoming tighter. Do you think its an early pregnancy sign?

I doubt it, but I think Í´m getting paranoid. I´m those type of girls who wear the same pants for 3-4 years at one shot, so I don´t usually put on weight significantly to the pt that I realize that my pants are tight.

 

[babydeabreu]

Oh boy, reading this thread is hilarious! I love the fact that there are you girls out there who are soooo honest.

I still don´t have my AF. More than 2 months now. The last time I tested was 2 weeks ago. And I hate testing only to have BFNs all the time. Which is why I don´t wanna test until the end of this month again.

But recently I noticed that my pants are getting tighter! This is sooo ridiculous, because I haven´t been eating more. On the contrary, I´ve been trying to exercise more, now that cold weather is starting. But I don´t seem to be able to stop my pants from becoming tighter. Do you think its an early pregnancy sign?

I doubt it, but I think Í´m getting paranoid. I´m those type of girls who wear the same pants for 3-4 years at one shot, so I don´t usually put on weight significantly to the pt that I realize that my pants are tight.

hey cheerios how you doing?

i feel like im high jacking this thread lol sowwy its just addictive haha

anywayz cheer i think its a possibility thats ur hormones are playing up..sometimes when your pms is late u have alot of blood thats stored inside u waiting to come out so ur body swels and clothes become tighter. almost like when you become bloated (which by the way is the best feeling that god made) but its also a possibility that ur HGC levels are still low so your test will come back neg..but i dont want you to get your hopes up as the big fat bang on ur emotions is a killer i would leave it down to hormones for now and take a test at the end of the month..and if still then talk to your doctor as she may refer you to have a ultrasound scan or to go see a gynecologist as over a month with no period is not normal.

let us no how u get on ok

wish u luck sweety xxxxxx

 

[Jake_1]

Well I'm pretty sure this is my last post in this thread. All signs this morning indicate the is definitely on her way, began spotting brown this morning which is my usual start of the - sorry TMI.

So I wish you all luck and will keep watching the tread to see how you all get along.

I knew there was next to no chance I was pregnant but it still sucks when you know it for sure

Oh well onwards and upwards and into the next cycle - I've decided the next cycle has to be the one for me!

to you all

x

 

[babydeabreu]

sorry jake it always sucks when we try so hard

keep trying and doing your thang

all for you wish you luck. speak soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[cheerios]

Hey Babydeabreu,
THanks for your reply! How are you? I´m fine. Well, thing with me is that my periods tend to be irregular anyway. So one month of no period is actually "normal"...that makes 2 mths "not normal". That´s why I wasn´t that concerned when I first missed it.
Yeah, I´m heading off to Nice, France next week so that would take my mind off all this stuff. What do you do? I can´t access public profiles yet, since I´m less than 1 mth on this forum - so access has been denied to me.

 

[LinziLoo]

Hello ladies.

My weekend was cut short as my MILs mum is ill and she had to go to make sure she was ok. At least I have hubby here to stop me from testing! But still no AF

Jake - sorry you are leaving us. Actually, thats a bit selfish of me isn't it? You are moving onto your next cycle, that calls for a congratulations! Wish you all the best and buckets of for next cycle!

Hope you are all well! x

 

[RedRose19]

hi ladies.. still no sign of AF and still a ... its so unfair

 

[Joe&Emily]

Im with you girls...limbo, limbo, limbo! 2days late and getting BFN, cant KEEP doing tests Im gonna go broke but it's driving me mad. Symptoms so similar to being due on, IE: Sore breasts but am feeling sick quite a lot (though Ive had a bad chest too)

Tryn keep sane and not get OCD over it like me

Good Luck, baby dust to all xxxx

 

[lisabutterfly]

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[RedRose19]

11 months late?? wow that must be hard.. im just missing my 3rd cycle.. ive got noy AF since june.. and right now in sooo much pain.. like bad AF pains...

 

[LinziLoo]

11 months?! Wow hun, that sounds like torture Sorry you're having to go through this. Have you been to your dr or anything?

Now I feel daft for feeling like I do and I'm only 2 weeks late. Sure puts it into perspective. Still having these on and off cramps.

Not testing ANY MORE!

 

[lisabutterfly]

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[belladonna]

I'm still in limbo too, now 11 days late and have pee'd on numberous sticks and all bfn's.

My fiance is telling everyone that I'm pg and I really don't think I am he just can't hold it in as hes getting excited and I'm not looking forward to telling people I'm not when arrives (whenever that may be)

When should I think about going to the doctors?

 

[cheerios]

My AF is late too....last AF was end of June 2009. I can´t believe that exactly when we decide to TTC, my AF decides to stop coming. All the pregnancy tests are BFN. My gynae is so busy that I only have an appointment mid-Oct.... so yeah whatever. I have absolutely no idea if I´m even still ovulating. Going on holiday next week to France... shall just not think about it anymore.

yeh i understand how you feel hun. just try go and have a great holiday..u prob just need to chill out and enjoy a nice break. fingers crossed it will help you out and magic will kick in for you.

wish you all the best and have a nice holiday

Thanks babydeabreu! We´ll do lots of sightseeing. Funnily enough, most people have more BD during holidays but for me and my hubby its just the opposite. Our last holiday to Rome was sooo stressful, 4 cities in 5 days that we hardly had time to BD! Hopefully this time it would be different.

 

[cheerios]

I haven't been to doctor as we don't have insurance at the moment (on waiting list...must be a long list lol). 11 months is a lot....My last period was September 2008. I have had spotting about 3 or so times during the past 11 months but nothing close to AF. Unfortunately pregnancy isn't the cause for any of this I guess. Only thing good about no AF is no major mood swings (although I think I still get them at times) and ....husband doesn't have to 'be alone' for a week each month....lol

Hey lisabutterfly.
That´s tough, 11 months. The longest I went without AF was 7 mths when I first relocated from Singapore to Germany. Was so stressed, missed home, missed everything familiar that my hormones went crazy. But at least I wasn´t TTCing at that time, so I didn´t care about pregancy test kits. Ever since then, my AF would come more or less regularly (9 out of 12 mths for example). But yeah, missing 2 months in one go is very rare for me. But its all still BFNs. So perhaps this might be another 7 mths thing for me. Good thing that In germany, social insurance is mandatory for both employees and employers. I get to go to the gynae without additional cost - but long waiting list too, for the good ones.

I would suggest going to the gynae and just paying more if you have to. A friend of mine didn´t have her AF for one yr and realized after a simple blood test that it was a lack of oestrogen in her blood. Now she´s on hormone oestrogen pills and her AF is regular again. I´m hoping mine is as simple as that.

 

[cheerios]

I'm still in limbo too, now 11 days late and have pee'd on numberous sticks and all bfn's.

My fiance is telling everyone that I'm pg and I really don't think I am he just can't hold it in as hes getting excited and I'm not looking forward to telling people I'm not when arrives (whenever that may be)

When should I think about going to the doctors?

Is your AF normally as regular as clockwork? Hmmm, I wouldn´t necessarily want my hubby telling others I´m pg when I´m not, or at least when its not confirmed yet.

I would wait a bit longer and try a test again maybe in a week or 2.