Jezzielin
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Don't get me wrong I am SO blessed. Great job, husband, daughter and one on the way. But I am SO exhausted at the same time. No time to do anything but work and be a mom. I understand how lucky I am to have this but I have no hobbies, no real time of my own. And even if I had time I have NO idea what to do to reward or enjoy myself.
I feel like this hasn't happened to my husband as he still does what he wants: golf, fantasy football, shooting, going out at times. He is very helpful but I just feel like he hasn't lost the life he had before and I have. What's even more bothersome to me was we went out with his work buddies, another wife was telling me that i should really let him join a poker club a day a week. Come on!!! What more hobbies could he have time to do?
Maybe I am just jealous. Dont get me wrong please, I love my baby (babies, soon!) and love being a mother but I guess I just miss my old life a bit and feel like I have lost a bit of myself. ...what's more it seems as though most people believe that this is acceptable for mothers and the natural progression of how life for women takes place. I just don't get why it can't be the same for the opposite sex.
Thanks for listening...
I feel like this hasn't happened to my husband as he still does what he wants: golf, fantasy football, shooting, going out at times. He is very helpful but I just feel like he hasn't lost the life he had before and I have. What's even more bothersome to me was we went out with his work buddies, another wife was telling me that i should really let him join a poker club a day a week. Come on!!! What more hobbies could he have time to do?
Maybe I am just jealous. Dont get me wrong please, I love my baby (babies, soon!) and love being a mother but I guess I just miss my old life a bit and feel like I have lost a bit of myself. ...what's more it seems as though most people believe that this is acceptable for mothers and the natural progression of how life for women takes place. I just don't get why it can't be the same for the opposite sex.
Thanks for listening...