crystal443
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Crystal, are you doing an egg share?
No, we did ask if they had an egg share program but they don't


Crystal, are you doing an egg share?
Ready, you brought up something that I am very nervous about; I've never had to share my time with more than on child.
DD is 14 and has a life of her own, but she is a teen and I hate to think that she'd feel replaced or that somehow she wasn't enough.
Is the priority really, pick which kid is bleeding the most and work your way down? LOL
You know that people who go into psych are only doing it for the required free therapy, right? lol
About 3 months ago DD found my pee stick stash and I threw my BFF under the bus and said they were hers...
DD made it clear that she loved being an only child and thanked me for not having more kids; since then I have been afraid to bring it up.
It's taken so long, I've never seen the point to open the conversation.
But, I am planning on having her talk to someone after we start pursuing adoption. I am hoping that she will be more open about it if she knows she can rant to someone and they'll keep it confidential.
Crystal, I am an only child and so is my father, lol.
The only time I would have liked to have had a sibling was when my mother passed, but to be entirely honest with you...I love being a lonely only, lol.
I haven't rethought TTC because we haven't been going at it long enough... but wondering whether to TTC in the first place... that's a different story. That's why I'm now at age 37 and only TTC#1! If I think about it logically I can't think of any reason why having a kid would be a good idea. But nature says otherwise and for some reason I just do! So we decided to let natural instinct take over and stop debating the pros and cons. (Although nature's buggering around with us now by making it harder.)
If I think about it logically I can't think of any reason why having a kid would be a good idea.
I haven't rethought TTC because we haven't been going at it long enough... but wondering whether to TTC in the first place... that's a different story. That's why I'm now at age 37 and only TTC#1! If I think about it logically I can't think of any reason why having a kid would be a good idea. But nature says otherwise and for some reason I just do! So we decided to let natural instinct take over and stop debating the pros and cons. (Although nature's buggering around with us now by making it harder.)