momwithbabies
Mom of Two
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I love my husband with all of my heart, and his kids adore him! In all of my years married (9 years) I never thought that I could feel so alone. My husband doesn't want me to mention when I'm fertile, so I don't tell him anymore. I hide my OPK's and never say a word (he's on a medication that affects his ability to finish, and feels pressured when it's sex during my fertile window). Okay, so all of that is fine. But what's not okay with me is that he NEVER wants me. I know I'm being whiny, but my feelings are crushed. We are lucky to BD twice a month, and we are only 30!!!! It seems like every time I'm fertile, his stomach hurts, or he's tired, or he has a headache, etc. I thought I was the one that was supposed to say those things. I know his medication doesn't help his libido, but it just seems like I'm the only one making any effort at all. I got a positive OPK (AGAIN...this is a weird cycle). I got my hopes up for a night out, kids are staying over with Grandma, saw a good movie, ate good food. It was wonderful, and I kept telling him how I couldn't wait to be "alone" with him tonight. Hint, hint....Right???? He comes home, says his stomach hurts (even though no funky smells from the bathroom...okay, sorry for the TMI. He hits the bed and goes straight to sleep!!! He slept until 10 this morning, and I got up at 7. Are you kidding me???? Help, ladies! Anybody ever feel this way or have ideas? I'm desperate and don't know how much more I can take!