I'm being induced at 37 weeks. I was going to ask for that if the MFM hadn't mentioned it around 12 weeks. I know far too many people that had stillborns between 37 and 40 weeks and won't take the risk once they are ready to come out.
im sorry but unless you have a medical reason there is no reason to be induced because your scared..I know plenty of babies because mine are premies who where in the nicu born 36 -38 week who lungs and other stuff where not fully developed...
there is a reason these babies need to stay in more toward 40 if possible.....its safer and less chance of a still birth and other problems....
I can see if there is a medical reason but other then that....why put your baby at risk for having medical problems or even being still born because for this baby it was just to early??
many a mother in nicu who wished they just went to 39 weeks and did not press for an induction.
this is seen with my own eyes because i was in the nicu because my own premies..
i dont know about Ivf but I would push to go a bit further if able too and medically able too....
that sounds weird...:/
I think having had one baby die late in pregnancy is reason enough beyond other risk factors! At 37 weeks the babies are mature enough to rarely have issues. If you've had a stillborn you would absolutely understand wanting to get them out when they are considered "full term".
i have had TWO stillborns, so I know!
I have two premies and one micro premie!
I have one made it to full term with alot of medical intervention and i will still opt for making it the longest I could to make sure the baby has the most viability and less health risks...
not all babies are ready at 37 weeks some are not even breathing on there own yet....some heart whole still need to close that extra bit and loads of other reasons to keep cooking..
having had all this I still opt to keep them cooking as long as possible for the best outcome possible for my baby.....
telling someone hey if you had stillborns, I HAVE SO THANKS FOR ASKING AND PRESUMING
I just think after all i seen and been through the healthiest place for a baby is in mom as long as possible.....again being scared is no reason to induce that in itself can be not healthy or a death sentance for a baby...yes even 37 weeks
but medically nessary is a whole other thing......
....like i said, being in the nicu there where moms in there who induced for no medical reasons. The ones in there felt horrible for making that descion as it landed there babies in the nicu with problems they would not have had if let cook a bit longer...
*it doesnt happen to everyone but the chance is there*
this isnt a contest, this is people sharing what they know for the person to make an informative descion about her baby....
im not telling her not to do it, i can only tell her what i been through and seen and I done just that.....all i can do is wish her the best of luck whatever descion she does come to with her doctor....and that is all we can all do really
I am a mom of premies and stillborn angels and I would still opt to keep baking as long as medically allowed....as long as my uterus is healthy to carry my baby and its healthy to stay in, its the healthiest place for it....as long as everything is healthy your baby has the best chance in, no matter what is around to simulate you...there is nothing healthier then in you as long as you and the baby are well enough for it...
that is me though.......everyone has a right to there own descions..