Thank u so much for ur thorough explaination that's so helpful, and ur right, it really does help to know what will happen.
Do u mind keeping me up to date on ur IUI progress - as I really hope it works out for u!!! Do u think u'll have more than one IUI!! (Although I pray u get pregnant with one try!!) I didn't realise IUI were not funded by nhs, is that the case throughout the uk??
Do u mind me asking how old u are please? Sorry - I just feel like we're going down such a similar path way!!
Anyway, I wish u all a very very happy New Year's Eve!! Let's pray that 2014 is that year we get our little beans
Xxx
Oh, no problem.
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I can keep you up to date. I'm 29, but I'll be 30 in a few months.
Yeah, IUIs aren't funded anywhere as of January 2013, which really kind of sucks because they used to fund unexplained infertility IUIs. The NHS will only fund IUIs if you're in a same sex relationship or have a disability/ disease that makes it hard to have sex.
Well, I'm trying to be positive and hope that it will only take one try, but I'm also being pretty realistic after TTC so long...so I'm fully prepared to do more than one. One working in three IUIs seems like good odds, so we're prepared to do at least three.
But, truthfully, I think the first one could be the lucky one for us. I've been questioning a few things, like if my CM is too acidic for DH's sperm or if I have mild endometriosis (though it's unlikely) and both of those problems can be overcome by the IUI. Plus if there is some problem with DH's swimmers (I think either his morphology or motility was on the low side, but not enough to be a problem), the sperm washing will select the best sperm and get them closer to the eggs, so that won't be a problem anymore. There should be more than one egg, so more chances of pregnancy. And I think we're going to do injectables, which have a better success rate (compared to clomid) as far as I can tell.
Put all that together and I'm feeling pretty positive about our IUI. DH just told me our FS said his success rate is 25%, which is much higher than the national average. Although, I'm not sure what he does differently to make such a difference.
But, try not to feel like there's no hope if you get an unexplained diagnosis. I mean, if there was something clearly wrong, maybe the path forward would be clearer...but there are so many women on BnB who have had to have surgery after surgery to remove polyps and things and have had to wait until they get the all clear, only to find out they need more surgery. And there are DH's with sperm issues that takes months to resolve and sometimes, even then, they still have sperm issues, so they end up doing IUI anyway or IUI with donor sperm.
With an unexplained diagnosis, it means that there's no real reason for you not to be able to get pregnant, and I'm hoping that means it will be easier to get pregnant with a little intervention. Maybe there's something underlying, but there are things that can help. Plus, you can move right to the IUI without having to wait for anything, if that's what you decide. So be positive! You're moving in the right direction!
Here's hoping 2014 will be it for all of us!
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