Anyone LTTTC in Australia :) ?

[Farrar_xo]

Hey girls so I got my results - the ones from the hospital were 10,000 and then 9 hours later were 3800 it happened quickly. The ultrasound tech saw 2 empty sacs and the doctor said that with the blood test results and the ultrasound it is consistent with a failed pregnancy. We are absolutely gutted.

 

[Jillie89]

Hey girls so I got my results - the ones from the hospital were 10,000 and then 9 hours later were 3800 it happened quickly. The ultrasound tech saw 2 empty sacs and the doctor said that with the blood test results and the ultrasound it is consistent with a failed pregnancy. We are absolutely gutted.

This breaks my heart to read. I am so sorry you have to go through this Farrar. Here if you need to vent. If I could, I would even jump in my car and drive down to Gladdy just to give you a huge hug

 

[MissCassie]

Oh no Farrar I am devastated for you. Life can be so cruel

 

[Farrar_xo]

Thanks girls - I have never felt this level of sadness. It hurts so much. We are trying to stay positive but I am just so incredibly sad. Andrew wants to start again as soon as possible because my body has come so far and we don't want to go backwards but I'm not even sure when we could. This really is the biggest kick in the teeth ever

 

[Farrar_xo]

Hey girls so I got my results - the ones from the hospital were 10,000 and then 9 hours later were 3800 it happened quickly. The ultrasound tech saw 2 empty sacs and the doctor said that with the blood test results and the ultrasound it is consistent with a failed pregnancy. We are absolutely gutted.

This breaks my heart to read. I am so sorry you have to go through this Farrar. Here if you need to vent. If I could, I would even jump in my car and drive down to Gladdy just to give you a huge hug

Thanks jillie - we don't really have anyone here so my mum is coming to visit. Work haven't been overly supportive and I'm not sure they are happy I'm not in this week but I just can't face all the questions and sympathies
everyone knows unfortunately because my boss felt like she needed to tell everyone - so now she told everyone we had a loss and so it's going to be awkward

 

[wantingbubba7]

Awww no I am so sorry Farrar so unfair !! Wish you didn't have to go through this

 

[Jillie89]

How rude of your workplace. People knew I was doing IVF (I was quite open about our infertility) but staff had no idea on the IVF timeline. A few weeks after I miscarried people asked me how it was going and I told them. I must have hid the pain better than I thought. I made myself go to work just to keep my mind on something else.

Hope you take the time to cry, yell, scream and do whatever you need to, to help heal and prepare for the next part of your journey. After my miscarriage was our rainbow baby. I hope so for you too.

 

[Jillie89]

Miss Cassie - how is the blood pressure going? Had the 24 hour monitor yet?

I had my 34 week check up yesterday. All good to my surprise! BP is 110/75 so in prefect range and no protein in urine. Bub is approx 2.3kg according to scan. Double chin on the scan too lol.

 

[wantingbubba7]

Jillie, glad all is coming along nicely with the bub sounds like you will go full term with this one... how exciting!!

My BP came back great as well. Turns out I just have white coat hypertension! My overall average BP is 117/75 and my average day time BP is 121/79 so pretty right on target. I bought a machine to take it at home randomly and so I can get over my stupid fear of the machine haha its so weird as soon as it goes on my arm my pulse increases so I am going to use it all the time and try get over it. Such an odd fear.

Have a gender scan on Friday woohooo cant wait I'll update as soon as I know

Oh I sneezed before and it felt like right down low ripped. It hurt soooo much. Is this normal?

 

[Jillie89]

Jillie, glad all is coming along nicely with the bub sounds like you will go full term with this one... how exciting!!

My BP came back great as well. Turns out I just have white coat hypertension! My overall average BP is 117/75 and my average day time BP is 121/79 so pretty right on target. I bought a machine to take it at home randomly and so I can get over my stupid fear of the machine haha its so weird as soon as it goes on my arm my pulse increases so I am going to use it all the time and try get over it. Such an odd fear.

Have a gender scan on Friday woohooo cant wait I'll update as soon as I know

Oh I sneezed before and it felt like right down low ripped. It hurt soooo much. Is this normal?

Glad to hear that your BP is all good! Big relief for you Very exciting about your gender scan. Can't wait for your update! I have never experienced anything like you described after sneezing. Just constant pressure down there for me...

 

[wantingbubba7]

How are you going Jillie? Not long now how exciting!!

My sister is in labor this morning ~ I'm so excited to meet my little niece. Although I must so if I wasn't expecting myself the visit this afternoon would be soooo hard

Gender scan at 2:30 eeeeeeee cant wait!!

 

[Jillie89]

Can't wait to hear your results of your gender scan!

My ob is back. Saw him today. Greeted me with a huge hug. Blood pressure is up high now 135/95 They are going to check my urine. If there is protein he will call me this arve with what to do from here. No news and it means I wait til next Friday for growth scan and check up with him again.

 

[wantingbubba7]

Wow sorry you BP has spiked . Glad your normal OB is back though Its funny how it can just go from normal and then not... Did you end up finding protein in the urine? Fingers crossed the growth scan goes well xx

Well I am having a little BOY !!! quite obviously too haha so excited!!
Meet our little man...

 

[Jillie89]

What a cute little man!!! Congrats!!!

BP spiked suddenly with Amali too. I had a tumble down the stairs yesterday arve and bub isn't moving like usual since. Called my ob who is luckily in his office doing catch up today and am sitting here waiting for him to see me. I feel like such an idiot and nuisance. Hopefully he can tell me today what is going on with my wee from yesterday.

 

[Jillie89]

Blood pressure better today. Bub is fine on scan. No protein in urine. Phew!

 

[wantingbubba7]

Glad to hear all is well xx

 

[Farrar_xo]

Congrats on your baby boy wanting!!! That's so great! Xx
Oh jillie so glad you are ok and bub is ok. Xx

Haven't been around much lately. Just working through what we are going to do. Hopefully we can do an FET before Christmas but no plans yet xx

 

[Jillie89]

Thanks Farrar. Hope you are doing ok.

A little Christmas FET miracle would be lovely for you.

2013 my hubby got a positive pregnancy test wrapped up for Christmas. We just got in on the last day the clinic was open for our transfer. We had no spare money to exchange gifts or anything that year after paying all our IVF and medical bills. Our families couldn't travel to us either. Our neighbours felt sorry for us not doing anything and insisted we go to their place for breakfast lol. To us it was the best Christmas ever!!!

 

[Farrar_xo]

Aw that's so sweet jillie!! It's the things like that that you remember for ever! Hope you are well - not long now until your little man arrives! Xx

Wanting how you feeling? Has the diabetes been managed through diet? Hope you're well too! Glen gave me the go ahead for another cycle and now I'm questioning if I'm ready!! But I think it's best to push on rather than hold onto this grief. I'll chat with them tomorrow. Xx

 

[Jillie89]

Great to hear you are going ahead with another cycle Farrar! We felt the same after our mc... do we try again so fast or wait. So glad we kept going! Let us know how you go after your chat with Glen.

I am so ready for this little man to arrive! Hopefully get his eviction date at my ob appt after my 36 week growth scan tomorrow.