Anyone miscarry first two pregnancies and went on to have a rainbow?

[Mumtodogs]

Hey confusion,
I've had 2 mc, one was a mmc which I had to go in for medical intervention at about 15w as my body wouldn't give up!! I ha retained products which passed at 17w. 2nd mc was natural at nearly 6 weeks.

I'm now 18w with BFP #3, all appears to be going well, but I can not allow myself to relax at all!

I hope it's 3rd time lucky for both of us x

 

[confuzion]

Hey confusion,
I've had 2 mc, one was a mmc which I had to go in for medical intervention at about 15w as my body wouldn't give up!! I ha retained products which passed at 17w. 2nd mc was natural at nearly 6 weeks.

I'm now 18w with BFP #3, all appears to be going well, but I can not allow myself to relax at all!

I hope it's 3rd time lucky for both of us x

I hope so too! Glad to hear all is going well for you. Did you have any testing done after your second loss?

 

[Mumtodogs]

Hey confusion,
I've had 2 mc, one was a mmc which I had to go in for medical intervention at about 15w as my body wouldn't give up!! I ha retained products which passed at 17w. 2nd mc was natural at nearly 6 weeks.

I'm now 18w with BFP #3, all appears to be going well, but I can not allow myself to relax at all!

I hope it's 3rd time lucky for both of us x

I hope so too! Glad to hear all is going well for you. Did you have any testing done after your second loss?

No, my GP told me I had to have 3 in a row before they would. I feel that it's so cruel.

I caught this egg straight after last mc, no AF in between so there has been some sketchy moments dating the pregnancy etc!

 

[confuzion]

Hey confusion,
I've had 2 mc, one was a mmc which I had to go in for medical intervention at about 15w as my body wouldn't give up!! I ha retained products which passed at 17w. 2nd mc was natural at nearly 6 weeks.

I'm now 18w with BFP #3, all appears to be going well, but I can not allow myself to relax at all!

I hope it's 3rd time lucky for both of us x

I hope so too! Glad to hear all is going well for you. Did you have any testing done after your second loss?

No, my GP told me I had to have 3 in a row before they would. I feel that it's so cruel.

I caught this egg straight after last mc, no AF in between so there has been some sketchy moments dating the pregnancy etc!

Yeah I was worried they wouldn't do any tests as I saw the majority of doctors wait for 3 losses. But my midwife was nice enough to give me some tests. I was worrying if all come back normal where we would go from there. But if you haven't had tests at all and still you're doing well maybe I can hope that things go the same way for me!

I think I will take some baby aspirin next time around just to do something different

Even though my clotting tests came back normal :/

It's really weird how upsetting it is when they tell you nothing is wrong with you lol. My prenatal panel came back so good my midwife said she never sat with a woman who didn't have at least 1 deficiency or problem before lol. My vitamin levels all perfect. Iron levels. Thyroid. Etc. And yet, I can't keep a pregnancy. So frustrating.

 

[LastGlamourai]

Yes, I did! I had two miscarriages before I had my first child. My doctor put me on progesterone suppositories and bed rest for the first trimester. I had semi-uneventful pregnancy (I had premature labor due to stress that was stopped) but she came out beautiful and is so cherished.

Keeping you in my prayers!

 

[Junka]

Hey confusion,
I've had 2 mc, one was a mmc which I had to go in for medical intervention at about 15w as my body wouldn't give up!! I ha retained products which passed at 17w. 2nd mc was natural at nearly 6 weeks.

I'm now 18w with BFP #3, all appears to be going well, but I can not allow myself to relax at all!

I hope it's 3rd time lucky for both of us x

I hope so too! Glad to hear all is going well for you. Did you have any testing done after your second loss?

No, my GP told me I had to have 3 in a row before they would. I feel that it's so cruel.

I caught this egg straight after last mc, no AF in between so there has been some sketchy moments dating the pregnancy etc!

Yeah I was worried they wouldn't do any tests as I saw the majority of doctors wait for 3 losses. But my midwife was nice enough to give me some tests. I was worrying if all come back normal where we would go from there. But if you haven't had tests at all and still you're doing well maybe I can hope that things go the same way for me!

I think I will take some baby aspirin next time around just to do something different

Even though my clotting tests came back normal :/

It's really weird how upsetting it is when they tell you nothing is wrong with you lol. My prenatal panel came back so good my midwife said she never sat with a woman who didn't have at least 1 deficiency or problem before lol. My vitamin levels all perfect. Iron levels. Thyroid. Etc. And yet, I can't keep a pregnancy. So frustrating.

HI CONFUZION,
i know exactly how you feeling, i had my first MC in June of 2012 at 8 weeks +2, natural MC , i was devastated as it was my first pregnancy, my OB said to wait at least 6 months for my body and mind to get better. Which i did, then 6 months later i got pregnant again and MC again in February 2013 ( a week before my BD), i just screamed and cried as i thought it was sooooo unfair! So i asked if they could do test but they say they dont do test till u have 3 MC, i was full of questions as iam a healthy person. SO said not to give up and to take a break for a bit, but i really wanted to try again as iam getting older (35) and we tried again and again and in NOVEMBER i got a BFP!!
Iam walking on eggs every day, and get worried at any pain or tuck downthere, But all i can do is stay calm and try to take it day by day.
Iam 8 weeks 1 day today, and haven't had a scan yet. My first Ultrasound is Monday the 16Th, Iam mortified as last MC happened right after my 7 weeks 2 days ultrasound where they didn't find a baby in the sac.
So hopefully this is our rainbow baby.
I just wanted to tell you Confuzion because i know how u feel. Don't give up, you deserve to be a MOM,
So hopefully all goes well for us

 

[confuzion]

Thank you so much for sharing Junka. I hope this is it for you

Latest update on my situation: my baby was tested and a chromosomal abnormality was found. My baby girl had turner's syndrome. So although I've miscarried twice. It seems to be a product of bad luck. All tests on my blood clotting, thyroid, possible auto-immune show no problems. So hopefully next bean will be mine to take home.

Your stories as well as the answer we've gotten make me really optimistic for the future.

 

[Junka]

Glad, they figured out something,
Next one will be your rainbow baby

 

[JillieBean]

Following this thread.... I really appreciate it and it definitely gives me hope!

 

[SusieRose]

I am holding my little rainbow right now. After 3 recurrent mc and a tumultuous pregnancy got my little baby. As my sister said god waited for perfection before he gave Susie her baby. There were times we thought we had lost her massive bleeds but nope. They don't always mean the worst. There was also nothing wrong with me when tests came back. Just really bad luck. Once you get passed your 20 week scan and feel your little baby the worrying will lessen but not go completely lol. Good luck xxxx

 

[confuzion]

I am holding my little rainbow right now. After 3 recurrent mc and a tumultuous pregnancy got my little baby. As my sister said god waited for perfection before he gave Susie her baby. There were times we thought we had lost her massive bleeds but nope. They don't always mean the worst. There was also nothing wrong with me when tests came back. Just really bad luck. Once you get passed your 20 week scan and feel your little baby the worrying will lessen but not go completely lol. Good luck xxxx

That's a beautiful story thank you. Glad you have your little baby girl.

 

[amjon]

I had a stillbirth, MMC, chemical, then went on to have healthy twins (with blood thinner shots, insulin from 8 weeks on, and very, very close monitoring) and I'm pregnant again.

 

[confuzion]

What a ride. Sorry for your losses . Seems only right you get twinsies after that. Congrats on your pregnancy. How far along are you?

 

[SusieRose]

I love hearing the positive outcomes. When I was going through my mcs and early pregnancy there weren't enough positive stories to give me hope. Xx

 

[confuzion]

I love hearing the positive outcomes. When I was going through my mcs and early pregnancy there weren't enough positive stories to give me hope. Xx

Ditto!

I hope more ladies decide to respond to this thread with their own happy outcomes.

I'm getting into that scary time of TTC again and more positive stories will just fuel more positivity for me

 

[amjon]

What a ride. Sorry for your losses . Seems only right you get twinsies after that. Congrats on your pregnancy. How far along are you?

I'm just over 5 weeks now.

 

[confuzion]

What a ride. Sorry for your losses . Seems only right you get twinsies after that. Congrats on your pregnancy. How far along are you?

I'm just over 5 weeks now.

Oh so you only found out recently. Double congrats in that case!! Happy and healthy 9 months

 

[solastyear]

I lost two pregnancies early on 5-8 weeks and now I'm 21 weeks with a lil boy. I really think the progestrone helped me this time around as my levels were 1.5 and I had started to bleed. So don't give up hope!!

 

[Claire788]

Yup my rainbow baby was my 3rd pregnancy!

 

[SCgirl]

It's very helpful to read this thread- figured I'd comment and *bump*- hopefully there are some more success stories!!