Anyone starting to set up the process of EGG SHARING? If so come join me 8 BFP's

[scerena]

Good luck with your appointment tomorrow
Be sure to check back in and let us know how it went

How come if you had a natural bfp it would be 99% eptopic?

 

[bettybee1]

Good luck tmro !!!

Yeah how come 99% ??


Screna - have they said how long it will for treatment too start at lister ?? Xxx

 

[scerena]

betty well they said that if I take my blood results with me then they will start matching me after the appointment so hoping to be matched in march sometime and get started by feb if everything goes smoothly fx'd!!! I have to take the pill though at the lister a few ladies have said so not sure on the time scale etc...

Wat about you??? Has anyone gave you a timescale???

kazza is it really just the £75 hfea fee for standard IVF at lister???

 

[4magpies]

Because my remaining tube is so damaged, the chance of an egg getting down, a sperm getting up and then them both getting back down without getting stuck is miniscule!

I will do dont worry

xxx

 

[scerena]

4magpies so sorry to hear that Hun how did you get on today???

afm Well I got my results
Except for cystic fibrosis as its not back yet so got told to call in the next couple weeks and see if they're back...

I called the lister clinic- told them I managed to get my results they were happy with that, they're so different to my clinic she knew who I was without me saying my name and was happy.
She said she tried to get my results from my clinic and said- "I tried getting your results and they I'm were not very helpful" I said that's them all over that's why I'm glad to be done with them now...
She also said if they mess me around with my cystic fibrosis test they will do it no probs as takes two weeks...

I then also said about the pill and she said it depends what protocol they put you on as to wether you will be on the pill or not, she said I can go ahead and go and get it if I wish so my cycle won't be a long one, but she won't advice me to get it or not until they know more on the 26th...

Basically, they seem so much nicer saying not long until my appointment and that they look forward to seeing me

 

[Plex]

4magpies - how was ur appointment today?

Scerena - Gosh they sound soo much better, definatly the right move Such a difference between the two, thing is its not like its that hard to be polite and helpful to people that are paying for a service.

Hows everyone? xx

 

[bettybee1]

Most clinics are rude or awkward with me think it's my age !! People are so judgemental it's really annoying it's not like am a scruff or Anythng blahhh

Glad they are much better tho hunnie !!!!

Xxx

 

[Plex]

Anyone wud think theyve been dragged kicking and screaming off the streets and ordered to talk to the people coming in! Seriously cud a little curtesy do the any harm? (I cant spell lol)

 

[scerena]

plex its the right move for sure just walking into my old clinic I thought that plus the lister could even see how unhelpful they are when they asked for my results!!

How are you doing Hun???

betty how old are you?? How are you doing anyways??? Hope you're well?? Some staff are rude/judgemental but they don't know your journey, I hate it when people think cause it young I shouldn't be doing IVF

 

[bettybee1]

The receptionist are the worst though !! Normally are tho !! Even in gp sugaries there so moody !! Apart from the odd nice ones that bend over backwards !

 

[bettybee1]

Good thanks how r u xxx

 

[scerena]

I'm good thanks

I know what you mean at the surgeries etc they all look moody- like if u don't like your job then quit

Anyone of you ladies got any appointments/ results coming up???

 

[bettybee1]

^^ am 20 Hun !! I've got my app at Darlington on Thursday !! !! Sperm A then should get results same day ! X

 

[scerena]

Aw you're not young Hun ignore them! Hopefully this clinic will treat you better

Eeeeek thurs is only am couple of days away exciting times!!! Fx'd the SA comes back fine and they can get you started ASAP will they be doing your bloods??

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah doing my screening bloods & Luke's bloods too !! Yeah hope it's okay we have never had it checked before hoping it's excellent then that's one less thing too think about !!! Lol !!
I say my date off birth and there tone changes !! Coz it's 1992 !'

It was even worse wen I was trying for my dd I was 17 when I first started then I went tol the docter when I was 18 after having mcs I found out I was ovulating late etc. low hormones nhs wiuldnt give me ought so I we tprivate then !! And they looked at me worse haha!! They have me clomid tho then when I had hyperstimmed ion and I was in hospital the nurse was like how come you want a baby so young ! And she said your doing your nursing too why would you want too get pregnant in the middle terra no rush you know !!! B arghhhhhh they made me feel like A dick !! I was just very mature for my age I did all the drinking and having fun at 14-17 !! Haha!! I lived in Spain for 8moths with luke we have being together since I was 15 and were married now and own our own house we claim nothing as I work my arse off and so does luke people just make assumptions all the time ! But that's the people who give people a bad name like getting preg for benefits going out every weekend blah blah my daughter is 17 months and she's slept out 3 times !!! And they were at my mums !!! No one ever looks after her apart from nursery some people think if your not 30 then you can't possibly b a good parent !!
Rant over !! Lol c

 

[scerena]

Love your rant you sound like a fab mum Hun, I agree age means nothing, and you prove that

I've had people tell me I didn't need to rush and have plenty of time but um no I wanted to try...

I bet you loved living in Spain sounds lovely

Fx'd everything comes back ok with the SA I have everything crossed for you

 

[bettybee1]

Thanks hunnie

Ano and if we have problems now with fertilty what would it be like in 5 years lol !!!!! Xxx

 

[kazzab25]

Scerena yes tests right about fees and 750 for icsi.

4 magpies, how did you get on?

Hi to plex, Betty

Afm down regs from tomorrow!!

 

[4magpies]

Appointment went really well.

Should have our results by Monday to know if I can share.

Bloods for screening are £500 if done by the clinic. I have booked an appointment with our GP for the end of Feb to try and get them to do the bloods, if not I have asked the clinic if they will let me just donate my eggs (they have to do all the screening then) so I can do my egg share cycle later in the year which is what I planned anyway, it just means going through most of it twice. Still waiting for a reply on that though.

So FX'd everything goes to plan for me really.

xxx

 

[4magpies]

Clinic just got back to me, I can donate my eggs if my GP wont do my testing, for the pleasure of doing so I would get £700 too. Which would be great for the wedding fund, so every cloud has a silver lining. See how we get on with the GP first as I wouldnt want to go through it twice if I didnt have to.

xxx