Anyone starting to set up the process of EGG SHARING? If so come join me 8 BFP's

[bettybee1]

They would off let you egg share though if your amh was low or your fsh was high ?

It's so frustrating Hun !!! I really hope your frostie give you your forever baby !!!! Xxxx

Am good thanks abit concerned as my hubby has been givjng a posting for September too Cyprus for 9months and baby will only b 2 months so lookalike he will be missing 1st year of his life just like he did with Lillah as he went too afghan 3 days after she was born ! so fed up ! About that nothing's ever easy eh !!! X

 

[Plex]

Charlie - sounds like a great scan hun why are u having the additional growth scans - if u don't mind me asking? It's great that they're listening to you with your worries about the epidural the consultation would put ur mind at ease xx

Serena - I'm wishing for that special ooops! Lol I can't believe that shanaya's a month old already! How u getting on? Xx

 

[Plex]

I saw they did test my fsh but not my amh. I was told that my fsh was in the normal range tho? I'm hoping the same about my frostie I keep telling myself that it only takes one! My consultant did say that people with pcos can be resistant to some of the stimulating drugs so I guess I'm one of them - lucky me lol

Gosh Betty, I'd be really upset about my hubby going away for a couple of days let alone 9 month's - is he gutted? He doesn't get any choice in it all poor thing. Do u have plenty of support around u from family and friends tho? Xx

 

[scerena]

The month has gone fast plex but at the same time feels she's been here forever
She's lovely though! She's starting to make noises too bless her I'm a very tired mummy though!

How is your son???

 

[bettybee1]

You got a good few eggs though didn't you ?

On my last 2 cycles I had started off on 225 and nothing happend then put me on 350 and bang after a few days they had too stop me as I had so many collected 16eggs and had a hell of a lot more follies

What doses were you on?

He doesn't get a say really no ! He was supposed too extending his posting in Catterick till next summer when his battalion come back from Cyprus but his battalion have sent his order early so he can't put his extension in gutted and it doesn't make sense as he is settled where he is and his battalion will be back july15 and there till 2017 !

He big RCMo (main man) has phoned them and emailed then asking if they can keep him in Catterick so it's a waiting game ! But I highly doughy he wil be able too :/

Luke is gutted ! He just keeps saying he's gonna go AWOL ! Just not fair !
My mums a head teacher and my dad nurse manger don't have contact with his family so it's all down too me for everything can't ask anyone too watch Lillah etc...

Also found out yesterday that childcare will be 360 a week with 2 !!! And I'll only get 100 put towards meaning I have to pull 260 put of fresh air ! Humbug ! Lol x

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[charlie00134]

I'm not entirely sure why I'm getting the extra scans. She just said to make sure everythings progressing. As my consultant was my gynae for fertility treatment I suspect it's to give me reassurance really as well as me being borderline obese bmi.

 

[bettybee1]

Charlie - most ivfers get 1 growth scan at 32-34 weeks but if you have other issues ie Pcos or gd or if you bmi is obese then you wi get extras !

Probley everything is fine but it's good too know they don't want you pushing out a 12 lber haha !

My friends bmi was 34 and she got 2 growth scans

Am
Getting 1 for ivf x

 

[charlie00134]

I genuinely think it's because my consultant knows what I've been through. I have PCOS, had a bmi at my first app of 29.5 (she had to bump it up a bit for the scan lol) and because it was IVF. I'm looking forward to my next one already.
I started feeling what could have been kicks a week ago and now I know they are. The little monkey is way more active when I'm sat down and I'm finding myself zoning out just feeling.

Is anyone else considering doing egg donation now they've done egg sharing? I really want to.

 

[bettybee1]

Charlie - I have considered it too ! I want 2 more children too !!! But I think before I have another which would be at least a year after I'll donate in the middle !

I found it easy apart from the bloating pain and the horrid pain at egg collection but before that injecting was very easy !


Am glad they monitoring you it's very reassuring !! Xxx

 

[charlie00134]

I think I'm going to donate after Munchkins been around for 3 - 6 months and then put the money they pay in compensation away to help pay for more treatment, or I'll never afford it.
I'd still donate without the financial incentive but if it can help towards a second baby then why not.

 

[bettybee1]

Well of course I thought that too !!!! We must be mad even thinking about this stuff I mentioned it too my mum last night she was like whaaaat? Haha think she thinks I just wanted 2 children like her !!!! Hehe xxx

 

[4magpies]

Hello girls. Just popping in to see how you all are.

I'm 27 weeks tomorrow. Can't believe it.

Charlie I don't get growth scans but it prob is to do with BMI. We don't get them here unless measuring small/big and I'm currently measuring spot on.

xx

 

[scerena]

Eeeek you ladies are getting so far into your pregnancies now!!! How exciting I can't wait to see your babies

 

[charlie00134]

I'm measuring spot on so it probably is bmi. I'm also getting induced early if I want because it's IVF. I really do love this consultant.

 

[4magpies]

I'm measuring spot on but I want to avoid induction at all costs if I can. Want natural as possible.

 

[4magpies]

Aslong as baby is healthy ect of course. I'll do what's best for baby but I think she's going to come at full term anyway. Just a feeling xx

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah Charlie - I would advise you too not get induced early unless your body had already started too do it's thing just too make sure you have the best chance at it been successful xx

 

[charlie00134]

I'm just going to go with what I feel is right at the time. I'm also going to have to practice walking to the hospital because the main roads going to be closed around my due date and that'll make the back road even busier so walking will probably be the only option.

 

[4magpies]

What whilst in labour? You are very brave. Haha.

x

 

[scerena]

Oh no about having to walk to the hospital charlie labour is VERY painful I was crying just being in the car

I would also avoid being induced, I would try let your body do its thing on its own if possible if baby is healthy as forcing your body into labour can sometimes make it more difficult as your body and baby are not ready, I was praying I'd have her before 12days after my due date as really didn't want to be induced, luckily she came 10days early (before my due date) so it was never an issue, I do understand though that it is personal preference but what is making you want to be induced?

Also, many ladies I know who done IVF haven't done the full 12 days over they've gone into labour on their own and some even just before their due date lately on a thread I am on... So hopefully you won't need to be induced anyway fx'd!!