Thanks for thinking of me ladies... I'm copying and pasting from my post I just did in my journal as I'm lazy....
yesterday i was so upset. We done everything counselling etc... Then my last appointment was the nurses appointment. This was when she said they don't have a match for me. I said I was advised you have mixed race recipients waiting and she said we probably did at the time. She also went on to say they could have a mixed race recipient tomorrow/next week etc she just won't know when... But it's London and they have such a big ethnical background there so someone should come forward she just doesn't know when.
In the meantime she is going to look through the Afro Caribbean recipient list she has to see if any of the ladies would like to accept a mixed race donor.
They're also going to contact the national gamete trust- they have access to all the recipients waiting at different clinics so she will put an advert with my characteristics out there as someone could be waiting at another clinic.
Also, I said about a recipient who contacted me to be her egg sharer off a site called "pride angle" she is going to speak with the consultant about that also.
They said they will contact me on Thursday to give me any updates and she will stay in contact with me frequently.
My oh was so sweet- I went there with high hopes and I jus cried all the way home :/ we got back and he went to the shop and came back with flowers, a box of chocolates and a card bless him. To me I felt like the journey was over but we spoke all night and he was saying we can't just stop over a few hurdles if we want this and that he knows this is really hard for me but if I give up then we won't get there. He's right, I need to pull myself together and get on with things and push for things to happen.
A while back I spoke with the bridge clinic who said they have matches for me and I sent all my results over via email. I've emailed them this morning incase the lister can't get me a match. I'm waiting for the egg sharing lady I spoke to for a reply. I'm not travelling anywhere though until they have me a definite match as I have all my results now which she has to hand. I will see how this contact goes today. But I'm really hoping I get good news from the lister soon....
kazza 16 is an amazing number fx'd!!! I hope you get a nice amount to share
betty brilliant news tht you can get started on this iui cycle exciting times :happydance :
4magpies and plex hope you're both well???