Anyone TTC#2 and wanting to chat

[Sambles]

I am desperate, to labour....feel so cheated..... I apparently had the contractins I should have been pushing with, but only got to 1.5 cms, s technically wasn't even in labour....I am not scared, just excited!!! Am I strange???

I think it's natural to feel like that. I know I would do if I was in your situation. Almost like your body didn't do what it was supposed to do even you know that it was capable of it

 

[sun]

Not strange!! I want to do it again actually - my labour was really really intense but so amazing!! I felt like superwoman afterwards!! xxx

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Evening all

Lol at the white top panic sambles hehe funny the things we come out with

I hallucinated badly lol still to this day remember these 2 old women at the bottom of my bed wearing these lilac shawls....They both stared at me and held out thier hands and thier hands were covered in all these pills, allorts of tablets covered thier hands....craaaazy!

i asked my OH & my mum to get rid of them.....they were like huh?? u ok lol

how is everyone x

 

[Sambles]

In a strange way I'm looking forward to it again. It was the most painful thing ever but the sense of achievement was amazing. I just couldn't believe that I'd actually done it. Even now I sometimes look at Sam and wonder how the hell he got here

 

[Sambles]

Kerri, that actually sounds quite scary. Had you had gas and air?x

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Not strange!! I want to do it again actually - my labour was really really intense but so amazing!! I felt like superwoman afterwards!! xxx

This is true, u do feel really amazing afterwards...like you could tackle anything now....i always take pain now and refer it to labour lol
like when i went for my wrist tattoo and my tragus piercing ...i was like i gave birth....i can handle this haha

Altho it is possibly the most painful thing you will ever do, It is pretty amazing .... and exciting too

so nope Cherie.....your deffo not strange x

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Kerri, that actually sounds quite scary. Had you had gas and air?x

HaHa i had everything going!! Gas & Air, Pethadine, Morphine & Epidural

My labour was sooo slow as i got induced, i was soo fed up with the pain i couldnt take it no more,
Yes ..very scary lol considering no1 else could see them!! ...strange thing is tho....i can still picture them today x

 

[Stef]

Evening ladies.

Hope you are all having a batter evening than me!! That child of mine will not go to sleep and ive now had enough! She can cry it out now!

I like hearing about peoples birth stories.

I have no idea whether to choose VBAC or C-Section so im going to wait until ive spoken to the consultant.

Today I have been to the retail park not far from us and couldnt resist a venture into mamas and Papas. Ive seen a gorgeous nursery furniture set that I want which DH has said once we have had 12 week scan we can put the 25% deposit down and then it just has to be paid 28 days before the delivery date. Cant wait!

Im baby mad at the moment!

Xx

 

[Sambles]

What tattoo have you got? I really want one on my wrist but not sure what I want x

 

[sun]

Wow mummy2T - that's so weird!!! I would have been freaking out completely!

I feel like this time around I will be more in control since I know what the pain is like and I kind of know what to expect. Though I know every labour/birth is different. If I'm lucky enough to do it a second time, I hope it is similar to the first!

Weird though - I didn't want OH in the room at all. I felt like he was too distracting - I just wanted my MW and that's it. Anyone else like this??

 

[Sambles]

Evening Stef :wave:

Yay for the nursery furniture!!

What have they given you as your due date?xx

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Its 5 stars , 1 for my mum, dad, sister, OH & Tyler , and theyre connected with like a trail of little dots....its nice...needs re-done tho as the stars are slightly off shape for my likings and it annoys me lol, i also have a butterfly on my lower back x

Stef: for the furniture .... i LOVE baby shopping!!!

 

[sun]

Stef - I know a few people now who have had amazing VBACs that went sooo well. It is hard here though - generally if you had a section, they will push for you to get one the next time. So you have to fight to get a VBAC which is really lame!!

Hope whatever you choose goes really well though

 

[Sambles]

Wow mummy2T - that's so weird!!! I would have been freaking out completely!

I feel like this time around I will be more in control since I know what the pain is like and I kind of know what to expect. Though I know every labour/birth is different. If I'm lucky enough to do it a second time, I hope it is similar to the first!

Weird though - I didn't want OH in the room at all. I felt like he was too distracting - I just wanted my MW and that's it. Anyone else like this??

I didn't really notice OH was there. He just sat cowering in the corner and every time I bellowed 'drink' he would pass me the carton of apple juice so he was quite useful

 

[sun]

I didn't really notice OH was there. He just sat cowering in the corner and every time I bellowed 'drink' he would pass me the carton of apple juice so he was quite useful

 

[Sambles]

Its 5 stars , 1 for my mum, dad, sister, OH & Tyler , and theyre connected with like a trail of little dots....its nice...needs re-done tho as the stars are slightly off shape for my likings and it annoys me lol, i also have a butterfly on my lower back x

Stef: for the furniture .... i LOVE baby shopping!!!

I really like the star ones but my friend has got a star and is really funny about anyone else 'copying' her so don't want to piss her off. I think I will have to google tattoo designs and see what comes up x

 

[x-TyMa-x]

I wanted my OH there, & He Wanted to be there too, He was good tho as he stayed quiet, he was under strict instructions......"IF YOU PANT OR SAY PUUUUSSSSHHHH ONCE.......YOUR SINGLE" i could not put up with a man panting beside me while i was trying to push...why do they pant....theyre not doing anything!!! irritates me so bad lol

he helped me hold my floppy leg up haha, my epidural only worked on my left side....the whole left side of my lower body was numb...i could feel nearly everything in the right side..so my left leg needed held up while i pushed lol!! .....ATTRACTIVE!

 

[Stef]

Going by their scan 30th August but that means it would have been an immaculate conception and im bloody mother Mary!!!

Im sure its going to change at my next scan and if dosent i will be extremely surprised, I cant understand how they think its normal that i would get positive tests only a few days after conception. My MW wasn't at all interested but im just going to have to wait until im 12+6 (by their dates)for my next scan.

I also twisted DH's arm that we are getting the Rubix pram from M&P too. It was between MP Rubix and MC Spin and i decided on the Rubix. I cant wait until im at the stage where i can start buying things instead of thinking eeek too early!

I actually quite fancied a Vbac but then i kept changing my mind. I think theer they try and get you to have a vbac these days unless theirs good reason not too.

xx

 

[Sambles]

he helped me hold my floppy leg up haha, my epidural only worked on my left side....the whole left side of my lower body was numb...i could feel nearly everything in the right side..so my left leg needed held up while i pushed lol!! .....ATTRACTIVE!

Omg the way you put that is so funny. I take it you didn't have much dignity left lol!!

 

[Sambles]

Good choice on the pram Stef, I wouldn't recommend the spin

I hope you get some answers at your next scan, it's not been the easiest start to a pregnancy for you x