Anyone TTC#2 and wanting to chat

[x-TyMa-x]

Ooo does it only apply to council houses......im not in a council house i privately rent so does that mean that it doesnt apply to me ????????

Oo sarah a water birth looks fab doesnt it, i would like one but the thought of not being able to have anything except gas and air puts me off

ur lucky for izzie not to of had a temp yet......tyler usually gets one nearly everytime hes poorly with a virus etc ......sometimes even if its just a cold....tho fingers crossed as hes getting older they seem to be less frequent x

 

[sjbno1]

yeah just council properties I think, if you privately rent then its up to you to move iykwim are you on the council registar?

i really wanted a water birth last time and nearly cried when they said i wasnt allowed one my friend laboured in the water and said it was so good i ended up labouring on my back which was so painful and then ended up with a c-section its defo worth a try I think

 

[x-TyMa-x]

no not on the council register hun, yer we wud move anyway i would say so they could have their own space x

Oo i laboured on my back also, tyler was lying back to back with my aswell so that was very ouchies....then when they put the epidural in that was me ...stuck on my back , strapped to the moniter and thats how i gave birth !

and then along came the dentist light hahaha stef lol!!!!! ...

howcomes u had to go for c-section sarah x

 

[sjbno1]

next time i want a active birth so I can walk around etc thats what I want though so we'll see

erm its all abit hazy really, my waters broke at 39weeks, then i was induced at 7pm (not sure why, think it was from my high blood pressure), was 10cm dilated at 10pm at the pushing stage, as i had a epidural i was higher risk and there was a emergency in theatre so I was 'put on hold' where izzie turned and i ended up with a c-section - was crazy really and i'm hoping my next MW will have these notes and can explain things better

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Ooo i see, oh nooo u got right upto the pushing stage, same thing happend with my mum ....when she was having my sister, she got upto the pushing stage and my sister turned , she had c-section too and then again with me but that was a planned section.

yer ur midwife will have all this in ur notes and she will be able to chat with u bout what u wana do this time x

im scared bout tearing again sorry for tmi....i had a 2nd degree tear inside the birthcanal and on the outside of my erm lady bits lol x ....also lost 2 pints of blood and that was very very very scary, im terrified this happens again so my midwife is gonna need to do alot of reassuring haha or shes gonna have a very stressed pregnant lady!

 

[Stef]

https://www.next.co.uk/shopping/homeware/childrensbedroom/4/

I got the bed & mattress, bedside table & wardrobe, im hoping to perhaps get chest of drawers but depends on how much room there will be in the bedroom after I have those in, dont want it to look too busy. I love the bookshelf though, may have to persuade DH to get the bookshelf. Will have to wait for payday for that.

I love it. I cant wait to do her bedroom and decorate and buy her pretty things to put in. Its still quite babyish at the moment.

I really cant decide if im honest, some days i want a vbac and others I want another c-section.

Definitely want to find out the sex though at 20 week scan. Have a feeling its a boy, though id rather have another girlie. But so long as baby is healthy who am i to pick which sex id rather. It will be loved and spoilt either way

xx

 

[sjbno1]

oh no i really want a vbac next time so dont see why I cant

fingers crossed she can give you lots of advice, maybe a active birth or water birth would help with that?

 

[sjbno1]

thats gorgeous furniture Stef bet Livvy's room is going to be lush

 

[Stef]

ohh yeah loss of blood is scary! I had to have a blood transfusion with Olivia.

I remember having to have my gown cut off me and it was dripping!!

Xx

 

[sjbno1]

oh gosh Stef! that sounds awful gah this labour business has alot to answer for lol

 

[x-TyMa-x]

scary isnt it thats my main worry this time around , they offered me the transfusion or to take iron for 6months...i chose the iron i thought the transfusion was some major operation haha till i got home and my mum told me what it was haha ....im a bit simple really

woooo i love the bedroom furniture!!!! shes gonna love that!! u will hafto post a photo of the finished room xx

oh u deffo finding out the sex....yay we could play guess the sex of stefs baby!!

 

[sjbno1]

hehe i'd have gone with the transfusion as those iron tablets do bad things to me lol

yep Stef I agree with Kerri we need to see before and after pics and we need to run a poll

will you find out next time Kerri? or do you think you'll have a surprise?

 

[x-TyMa-x]

i always said i would like a suprise.....but theres no way i could wait ....and especially now as im actually TTC , ive decided al be finding out if i can x
wat bout u x

 

[caleblake]

evening ladies, sorry im so late had such a busy weekend.

Stef- Love the furniture her room will look beautiful

Sarah- thats great news about your friend, fx'd your right behind her

M2T- Im the same as you I have no pateince, with Caleb I found out at 17 weeks

Funnily enough I ordered new furniture today too, I ordered wardrobes last week and today I ordered a new leather bed, mattress and bedside tables. Also a wall sticker design with the lyrics from our wedding song to put above the bed. I need to get paint and new flooring plus wee things like duvet covers and pillows etc and I will have a new room.

I also bought Caleb a toddler bed and duvet set etc today today, I figured Im going to start re-decorating the rooms so they are all finished by the time a new baby arrives. Our room is first, then Calebs big boy room. If we have another boy I will keep the nursery the same as it was only done last year but if its a girl I will need to re ddecorate......its handy my mil works for b&q

Anyway just realised Im rambling about my boring life

Hope your all well xxx

 

[Callalin]

Callalin, make sure you let us know please. I wonder if it's linked to her ear infection?

wow, just realized how long it's been since I've popped in here.

Well LO's doctor said it looks like just enlarged lymph nodes and it's normal. She told me the types of lumps to watch out for, but told me to come in whenever to check them out. So, everything's good! Thanks for all the support girls!

 

[Callalin]

Must be the season for new furniture! We just got Gretchen a new big girl loft bed and new sheets and pillows, and DH and I got a new king size bed so when DD comes in to snuggle with us in the middle of the night there will be room for her

 

[Stef]

Callalin Im so pleased everything is fine. What a relief.

Well I can't sleep tonight. 3:46 am and my eyes ate wide open and my head won't shut off grrrr!

Nat I love the feeling of satisfaction you get when you have finished decorating. Makes thenhouse feel new again. I also have a friend who works for b&q and quite regulary abuse their discount lmao. We are just about to start the living room. New floor down on 29th yippee!

I want a new bed. Really quite fancy a sleigh bed this time.

Today is going to be a long day with so little sleep.

Xx

 

[Callalin]

Callalin Im so pleased everything is fine. What a relief.

Well I can't sleep tonight. 3:46 am and my eyes ate wide open and my head won't shut off grrrr!

Xx

so sorry you can't sleep I haven't been sleeping well for the last few nights either. Here's to sweet dreams to you tonight.

 

[Stef]

Bless you thanks.

Still wide awake, considering taking a spare duvet downstairs making a cup of tea and watch some films or something. I think part if the reason I can't sleep is because we have Olivia in the bed tonight, her temps still up.

Poor thing.

Xx

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Morning girls,
Callain: glad everythings ok with your little one x

Stef: god isn't it horrible wen u can't sleep!!! Hope Olivia is feeling better tomorrow,
U shud deffo get a sleigh bed, we've got one they're lovely.

Well I'm shattered today too, lay awake for ages then woke at 6:45 Tyler is at nursery thismorning so al maybe try nod off for a bit lol altho I will prob end up doing housework!!!