Anyone TTC#2 and wanting to chat

[Stef]

Bit of both I think.

 

[Sambles]

It doesn't sound silly at all. I don't blame you for feeling so run down and emotional, it must be so tough on you with Chris working til so late. How comes your friends are so far away? Have you moved house?

I'm sorry you have got such a difficult relationship with your mum and you've had issues with her parents. It sounds like you could do with a bit of support and a huge hug at the moment Us girlys are always here for you and you never 'bore' us! xx

 

[sjbno1]

hun, there not silly problems, I remember feeling lonely after I had izzie as Sam was at work and I didnt know anyone around here except my family, I was lucky that a neighbour took me under her wing and introduced me to baby groups - i have loads of friends around here now i hope your grandad is ok and i hope things sort themselves out what does Chris do for a living?

 

[Stef]

Just editing my posts as whilst I dont mind sharing with you girls because your all fab I would hate every tom dick and Harry to come across my problems on google lmao

 

[sjbno1]

gosh what a horrible situation hun could you take Livvy to some local groups this is what I did and now have lots of mummy friends where we've had some evenings out? might be worth looking into

 

[Sambles]

That's terrible that they forced Chris to do that shift. I thought that if he was off sick they would've had to put him back on his original shift when he went back. Has he spoken to anyone in HR about it?

Chris's ex sounds like a right cow, I definitely think you did the right thing by stopping contact or she could have caused major problems for your relationship. You've just got to think now that you need to look after yourself because you have got something very precious inside you. I don't know you personally but from some of the things you've said you sound like a very caring person with a huge heart. I know it's easier said than done but you need to try and relax a bit.

Do you feel better now that you know bubba is ok and healthy? I bet that couldn't have been helping your stress levels x

 

[Stef]

Edited for the same reason

 

[Stef]

Right im going to bed girls. Night night

xx

 

[x-TyMa-x]

heyy,

stef: .... we dont think your a whinger hun, and HUGE HUGS to you xx
I know its not quite the same but you always have us here xx

 

[sjbno1]

your not a whinger at all - hmmm on NM's I met up with a local mum who wanted some mummy friends, have you looked on there? also have you thought about doing a NCT course for baby no.2 I have 4 great mummy friends from my NCT group?

 

[Sambles]

That must have been such a hard decision for Chris to make but it sounds like he had no choice. I know people like his ex who use their children as a weapon and it's awful.

It's no wonder you feel so exhausted with all this going on + the normal early pregnany tiredness + your thyroid! Hopefully the doctor will be able to sign you off for a bit longer x

 

[Sambles]

Right im going to bed girls. Night night

xx

Hope you sleep well and get a lie in tomorrow x

 

[sjbno1]

i'm off to bed too now as fancy a early night but just wondered I cant remember with izzie but how many DPO were you when you got your first signs of being pregnant? haha SS here I come lol

 

[sjbno1]

Hehe girls, i'm so bad I just ordered a Jenny Renny reading I had one done with Izzie and I got my BFP the same month as she predicted and it was pretty spot on like that so I thought why not but inflation has made them more expensive lol

 

[x-TyMa-x]

OOo sarah let us know what she says!! .....i hope she says .... feb bfp!!

 

[sjbno1]

meee too did you have a good evening?

 

[x-TyMa-x]

i did yeh! , had lasagne to eat, was yummy!!

then had such a laugh, i dont think ive laughed like that for a while....was good fun x

im gonna watch shameless in a bit then get away to bed im tired x

 

[sjbno1]

This was my original reading

Hi Sarah,
Your reading reveals that your BFP news comes the month of November 2008. The baby shows as a boy and his EDD/birthdate is connected to the months of July and August 2009 - specific reference to around August 8th and July 27th.

I got my BFP In November 2008
I went into labour on 31st July - Had izzie on the 1st Aug
Her original due date was the 7th Aug

The only bit that was wrong was the Boy bit

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Oh wow!! ..... ha thats madness!!

Ooo am tempted to get one now haha altho.....im going to wait ...as i am determined to get this feb bfp!! and if she said something different i would depress myself lol

wow she was soo close tho ......spooky!!

 

[sjbno1]

Yeah was mental just how close! its funny as I know that if she didnt say Jan/Feb then she would give me a date and I know that she could be right iykwim - i'll let you know