My cycles usually fall 32-35ish days, but my last two were 40 and 50. Felt like they'd never end!!
Thankfully I have a pretty predictable 14-day LP, so if I know when I ovulate, I know when I'll bleed. Sometimes it just takes a really long time for that egg to drop!
Starry, when you said you got cramps and spotting a week and a half before ovulating, was this separate from AF? I've had mid-cycle spotting a week after AF and a week before ovulation many times. I've had all my hormone levels checked and they've come back normal. What has your experience been?