Appointment wasn't good at all :(

[suzan]

Girls, I am devastated, again.

Sac measuread 4 weeks and 3 days where actually it should measure 6 weeks and 1 day. In addition to that, sac was empty, nothing, nada in it!!!!!

Doc said it happens, what the hell does he mean it happens! It's two weeks difference.!! He said that I might have ovulated after, but come on, I got my BFO at 10dpo so how the hell would I have ovulated later?

I think I lost my baby, I have the feeling, this will be my second time, I hate myself, It's me, something is wrong with me, I dont know how to live the next two weeks, doctor told me to wait two more weeks and recheck bec baby might appear and if not then baby is gone.

 

[chicksy]

Suzan please dont ever think that anything like that could be your fault. Im sorry with how the appointment went. Sending you lots of hugs I dont think for one minute that the next 2 weeks will be easy but please try and stay positive. You also have all the fantastic support on here. So heres hoping these 2 weeks pass quickly and its nothing but good news for you xxx

 

[jo27]

So sorry, pls don't blame yourself i know it's hard not to. I've had two MC's and it doesn't necessarily mean there is anything wrong it's surprising how many people experience them. I know that won't help how you are feeling at the moment

 

[elles28]

Dont lose all hope I was told the same as you with my first baby & when I went back his wee heart was beating away....Can you not ask for HCG blood test.....They test your level & then retest in 48 hrs & if it has doubled you will know all is well......Will keep everything crossed for you..I had this done this week & will get my results tomorrow...I had a scan on Tuesday & there was nothing there by my LMP dates I should be 6 weeks & 4 days but I am hoping it is just a mix up with the dates??!!.....Elle xx

 

[scotchbonnet]

Oh Suzan!!!! I am so sorry that's how it went!!I came looking out for your news and I am sorry it went like that....

This is certainly no fault of yours, please don't think that. I don't know what else to say but that.....

Please try and see another doctor for another opinion. If your doctor thinks that the baby is threatened he should have sent you for HCG test every two days to see how your levels are and if they are doubling! I only just found out and I have been such a menace to my doctor he had no choice but to so something with me! But we know our bodies.....so insist on getting this done.

He needs to ascertain if your little one is fighting......he should at least have sent you to do this immediately! Two weeks is just cruel to wait for this. Don't wait for two weeks honey - you will be too depressed. If he does not want to give you these tests, see someone else and ask for these tests.

i am really sorry you ave to go through this pain now...but get another doctor who is more proactive - if only for your sanity!

 

[suzan]

He said that my HCG levels might be increasing but it wont be the solution but only seeing the little one. I have gone thru some websites and saw some stories about this. Some see their sac smaller than their age and with no baby but then after a couple of weeks everything is normal. I am feeling better now that I read that, I hope everything goes okay..

 

[AquaDementia]

Dear Suzan,
try to stay positive as hard as it may be, and please don't ever blame yourself. Really, there is nothing that you can do to affect any of this.

Positive thoughts and hugs.
xoxo

 

[poppy]

Suzan, I hope things go well for you. Don't lose hope and certainly don't blame yourself. Like the doctor said, you will probably see the heart beat soon.

Follow Scotchbonnet's advice and go and get checked out again.

 

[shamrockgirl4]

hun i did a google search and there are quite a few answers on this subject some didnt see anything in sac til 7wks some later dont give up hope just yet fingers crossed for u xxx

 

[Amanda]

Hunnie, I've had no experience of this myself, but I have heard loads of times where people have the same results as you at an early scan, then everything is fine a couple of weeks later.

However, I still think you should insist on the HCG tests, just for your own piece of mind.

 

[suzan]

hun i did a google search and there are quite a few answers on this subject some didnt see anything in sac til 7wks some later dont give up hope just yet fingers crossed for u xxx

Yes, but how weird is that. I have read some info as well and got the same thing.

 

[suzan]

What if my HCG levels done double????? Then I will worry more and doc will tell me still to wait bec most imp thing is to see baby!!!!!

This is just too hard to handle..

 

[suzan]

I haven't seen any blood so how come this is happening

 

[Jenny]

Oh hon, I'm sorry your appointment didn't go well. Stay positive, theres always a chance your baby is fine .Your in my thoughts, please keep us updated. Will be thinking of you.

 

[suzan]

OMG I cant believe everyone we know knows Im preg. My mom was so happy knowing I got preg again after the misacarriage we had in July 1st. She will be devastated if she knows.
Hope this 2 weeks pass by quick!

 

[AquaDementia]

Suzan,
you might find this site helpful. This is just one story that started out similar to yours but ended all well.

https://www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage...p?t=8502&sid=d3ca519e6e5c2fb4be09d8e2699df50c

Since you haven't had any bleeding, it is probably good to assume that the baby's heart will be beating soon.

 

[scotchbonnet]

Sonce you've had no pain or bleeding....eep your hopes up. Very hard I know but hang in there and tell your little munchkin how much you really want to see him or her

 

[suzan]

I really want to see him or her

Thanks for the link I am reading more and more stories like that!

 

[Serene123]

I didn't measure my dates untill my 12wk scan and they couldn't find anything at my 5WK scan, which was actually my 7WK one the measurements just didn't work out. Now everything's fine. I know it's hard but you just have to try and stay strong

 

[Serene123]

In my scan 2wks later I saw the heartbeat, so, I have my fingers crossed for you!