Appointment wasn't good at all :(

[Wobbles]

I googled so much with our first ordeal which was sadly ectopic and came up with alsortsssss.

Your hubby is a wise man Suzan. Honestly chick it will give you answers you want to hear and those you don't it really isn't a good thing

x

 

[Samantha675]

Oh Susan, I am so sorry you are having a hard time. I was having lots of pains on my left side starting about 4-5 weeks. So I went to the doctor, and she couldn't even find the sac, much less the baby. Which made me nervous, but she didn't seem concerned. I won't bother saying don't worry or stress, how can you not. My thoughts are with you!!

 

[elles28]

Thinking of you hun fingers still crossed it will be good news xx

 

[suzan]

I don't know what to do with myself. I am going nuts!!!

I dont know what to do??? Please someone help me?
This is serious I swear I am not ok at all. I think I am suffering from depression now.

 

[Wobbles]

Have you had any bleeding Suzan?

Your not going nuts sweetie your reaction & feeling depressed right now is normal and definately to be expected. Your OH seems supportive (?) which is a good thing.

 

[suzan]

No, I havent had any bleeding, nothing.

DH is great, he can try harder, and do everything right, but nothing is helping me. Nothing

 

[elles28]

I think you should go to docs & ask to have your HCG checked at least then you will know what is going on. When are you due to go for scan? No Bleeding is such a good sign

 

[suzan]

I think you should go to docs & ask to have your HCG checked at least then you will know what is going on. When are you due to go for scan? No Bleeding is such a good sign

To tell u the truth, I wanted to draw blood today. DH knew and he wouldnt allow me do that. He says that it will only make me more worried and depressed bec if results come ok, i will be worried on why then the sac was empty and if it results were bad, i still would have to wait for the u/s next week. I understand what he is trying to do, but things are harder when u wana do something and u cant, i hope u know what i mean.

As for another doc, i called him, and no need to make appointment, just go early and when my turn comes i see him. We are planning to see him this Thursday. I called DH and told him to take me today, but still didnt accept. Ok DH is great and supportive, and I know he is right, but he can make things even harder for me. He has been amazing I swear, but its so hard when u think i wana do something and then someone says the opposite and is right.

Had anyone heard of this situation? the one i am going thru? I have read some storied, ones with good outcome, others with no good outcomes. You can call me crazy, I even did 2 HPTs, one yesterday with a cheapie one and it came strong positive in less than 3 seconds and today got a Clearblue one and got the plus sign so dark in less than 3 seconds too. HCG should be high but still i am going nuts here.

 

[Wobbles]

Want me to be honest - I'd lie to try and get an US quicker. I know some may not agree but I would so ...... I think 2 weeks is too much even if it was just a check that sac was still there a week later.

Rquesting hCG levels may be a good idea if they gave you one on Monday then again Wednesday it would give you an idea if they are rising as normal. Go and speak to your doc Suzan and demand to have something done. Its awful feeling it really is

 

[elles28]

I totally agree with Wobbles........you should not have to go through this....as for you dh he is doing what he thinks is best for you but as he is not in your shoes it's easy for him to just wait & see but not that easy for you....as I told you before I had an empty sac and an U/S 6 days later showed a heartbeat.......this was 10 years ago!! (Tell Lies ....If I was in your position I am in a way but I got bloods done & they asked ME when I wanted to come back for U/S I would) You need to know whats happening........!!

 

[suzan]

So yep, I took a pic of the two tests I took.. Would it still be possible to get rapid dark lines?? I saw in almost 3 seconds..


I took this one today
https://img409.imageshack.us/img409/9785/25112007327so7.jpg

This one was done yesterday
https://img441.imageshack.us/img441/2071/95263550uz8.jpg

Ok, I am praying!

 

[AquaDementia]

those two are definitely positive.
it was probably just too early to see anything on the scan.

 

[suzan]

those two are definitely positive.
it was probably just too early to see anything on the scan.

I have been praying that what u r saying is true!!

 

[AquaDementia]

so when are they giving you another scan again?

 

[Novietaaa]

those two are definitely positive.
it was probably just too early to see anything on the scan.

Yeah I agree..

Try not to worry too much Suzan.. Stress ain't good for the baby either I know it's easier said than done, but try to do so anyway.

 

[suzan]

so when are they giving you another scan again?

Well, it's still the same day.. In two weeks, but we are going to see another doc this Thursday so it will be a week after the previous one. I will see what is happening, I hope we can get our fears disappear this Thursday and I wont be needing to be depressed for another week.

I think it will be useless to do one before this Thursday.

 

[AquaDementia]

Well keep us updated. Will be thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed

 

[shimmyshimmy]

Hiya, I was just reading your post, and thinking how similar this was to my situation. Last week I had a scan, but I was only 4 weeks pregnant, so there was nothing to see. Then the doctor had to put me in the bracket of poss ectopic. I had bloods taken straight away,and was told to return Saturday just gone to have another test. Last week my hcg levels were 600, and at four weeks they worried me and said this was quite low, but I thought it was ok. Then after a very depressing friday and Saturday they rang me in the afternoon and said that my levels had doubled, that everything should be fine and to arrange another scan for a couple of weeks.
This has put my mind at ease now, and I cannot understand why the same thing hasnt been done for you. The worry for 2 days was enough to bear, but for you it seems you still have a long while to wait before you get the reassurance you need.
I feel for you, you must be going out of your mind. Please try not to worry, I am sure everything will be fine. I think like me it was just too early to see anything.
xxx

 

[suzan]

Hiya, I was just reading your post, and thinking how similar this was to my situation. Last week I had a scan, but I was only 4 weeks pregnant, so there was nothing to see. Then the doctor had to put me in the bracket of poss ectopic. I had bloods taken straight away,and was told to return Saturday just gone to have another test. Last week my hcg levels were 600, and at four weeks they worried me and said this was quite low, but I thought it was ok. Then after a very depressing friday and Saturday they rang me in the afternoon and said that my levels had doubled, that everything should be fine and to arrange another scan for a couple of weeks.
This has put my mind at ease now, and I cannot understand why the same thing hasnt been done for you. The worry for 2 days was enough to bear, but for you it seems you still have a long while to wait before you get the reassurance you need.
I feel for you, you must be going out of your mind. Please try not to worry, I am sure everything will be fine. I think like me it was just too early to see anything.
xxx

Thanks for sharing your story.

Your situation is somehow different. At 4 weeks nothing can be seen, I understand that neither a sac was seen but a test has put ur doctor's and ur mind to ease.

I was 6 weeks! Normally people see the baby and the heartbeat by then. My sac didnt measure 6 weeks, it measuread much less.

I have driven myself like crazy these two days, but what can I do? I dont want to see another doc now and feel more disappointed!! I am depressed now, how am I gona feel when it's x2!!

I hope my case is like urs, praying all the time.

 

[Serene123]

No one measures their dates untill their dating scan that's why they don't do it early. Sizes up till then are estimates and not very good ones at that. I don't even think mine is right now. I think I've gone from measuring too small to measuring too big. I won't find out till my 20WK scan but I know my babies O.K. and I hope you get the reassurance I got