Appointment wasn't good at all :(

[AquaDementia]

I really want to see him or her

Thanks for the link I am reading more and more stories like that!

see, lots of women with similar experiences!

 

[Vickie]

aww hun I'm sorry you had such a crappy appointment but don't give up hope yet, things could still be fine. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers

 

[monique]

Am sorry suzan just try and stay positive

 

[Linzi]

Im sorry hun but it could be good news yet, you never know.

Dont blame yourself, I know its no consolation but lots of women have miscarriges and unfortunately its one of those things that you cant prevent.

Doctors arent very sympathetic I dont think, but just wait and see.

Take care of yourself love

xxx

 

[Lauz_1601]

hun try and stay positive Im sure everything will turn out ok, chin up hun, the next 2 weeks wont be easy but you will be ok, Iv heard of this before too and heartbeat seen at a next scan, good luck babes will be thinknig of you xxxx

 

[Wobbles]

Oh Sweetie this isn't what I wanted to see after our PMs this morning

Did you test before 10dpo? because if you didn't this quack could be right and the measurement of sac it is too small to see anything infact at 4-5 weeks you often see nothing and all is fine.

I'm very frustrated for you that you have to wait 2 weeks for another scan just for peace of mind I would have hoped that would be weekly.

I have everything crossed for you Suzan

x

 

[Serene123]

They make it two weeks incase there's still nothing after a week and it just worries you more

 

[suzan]

thank you all.

I was wondering, what do u guys think of me visiting another doctor this coming week? what if this is an ectopic pregnancy? I am freaking out here. It's morning where I live, I couldnt sleep last night, i feel something is stuck in my throat and its hurting bec of how sad I am

 

[poppy]

Definately go and see the doctor Suzan. It may put your mind at rest. Good luck Suzan, I am sure everything will go well for you.

 

[tinytoes]

I agree 2 weeks is a terribly long time to wait. All you can do is either try and see another doc - even if it's just to talk - and to try and keep healthy for the next two weeks. Eat lots of fruit and get your body super fit for the little one whose heart could get beating any second now. Maybe he/she is just smaller than you thought, a little behind schedule and is about to beat right now!

And don't worry about other people (your Mum) being devestated - they can support you in this crappy time.
All hope is not lost, try as much as you can to be hopeful. xx x ((hug))

 

[suzan]

Just to make it clear why I say I think baby is gone is bec doc said I would have ovulated later blah blah, but I got BFP at 10dpo on Nov 3 so how would I have ovulated later? I think something bad is about to happen and definetly will have to go thru d&c again. And the funny thing? Again I didnt see blood and here I am probably miscarrying!!!!! I would have prefered to see blood than sufocating and wondering if something bad is happening!! At least when I see blood I know something is happening! I hope u understand what I mean, it's just sad

 

[sophie]

Hi hun, when i got my + i would have lit only been about 10 dpo as when i went for my first scan i thought i was gonna be 6 wks but i was infact only 4, and they said to me theres a viable pregnancy but i needed to go back in 2 weeks to have another scan, so i ov'd later than i originally thought!
I know its easier said but try not to stress hun.
Hope all turns out ok.
xx

 

[skiwi]

really sorry sweetheart,

 

[Serene123]

blood doesn't mean a bad thing is happening
neither does not matching your dates

 

[Tam]

Try to stay positive babe.........

https://i110.photobucket.com/albums/n86/no1tam/Hugs/000bigblinky_ani_uneedhug.gif

 

[Jenny]

Stay positive hon. If you can't wait then I would go in to see another doctor or demand another U/S sooner. It will put your mind at rest. Good luck sweetie

 

[suzan]

blood doesn't mean a bad thing is happening
neither does not matching your dates

I agree but at least u get scared that something bad can happen right? I dont see blood and I just be relaxed right? I am not! I dont think I will ever be relaxed, I prefer seeing blood and know that something bad might be happening that just be out of the world and wondering if something bad is happening inside me IYKWIM.

 

[suzan]

So I have been researching the net, my outcome will be either:

1- Ovulated later than expected and it's early to detect baby and HB.
2- A blighted ovum:

A blighted ovum (also known as “anembryonic pregnancy&#8221 happens when a fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterine wall, but the embryo does not develop. Cells develop to form the pregnancy sac, but not the embryo itself. A blighted ovum usually occurs within the first trimester before a woman knows she is pregnant. A high level of chromosome abnormalities usually causes a woman’s body to naturally miscarry.

I have read lots of stories in https://www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com and it's 50% by 50% outcome, either baby was found later, or d&c is needed.

I dont think it's enough to wait a week, I have booked to see my doc on Nov 6th which is 2 weeks after the appointment I had. I will just see another doc I heard of being good on Nov 5th because if I go and see him in a week I will be probably (if everything is ok) 5 weeks and something and baby cannot be seen.

I am thinking of having blood test to check HCG levels, dont know if I should do it without doc knowing. I asked him to do one and he said its worthless as maybe we can have positive results but still need to wait 2 weeks bec we need to know if baby is there.

I am just hanging in there, and I even told hubby I wana do a HPT again he was so mad at me bec I am feeling depressed. I don't smile, I just can't. I don't feel like eating but do so bec maybe my baby is still there.

Time is my life now. 2 weeks need to pass. Please God give me the strength to be okay in these two weeks I am just scared to have another baby lost and do d&c again and bleed for more than a month again and then wait 3 months to get preg again

What can we do? It's God's will, and hubby and I respect that.

 

[Wobbles]

I'm half asleep Suzan but Google right now for you is a NO NO its probably sent you into a panic already. Evil google! Google is godo when you know what your looking for when you know your circumstances ...

x

 

[suzan]

I'm half asleep Suzan but Google right now for you is a NO NO its probably sent you into a panic already. Evil google! Google is godo when you know what your looking for when you know your circumstances ...

x

Google has given me a 50% by 50% outcome. I was hopeless but now have a 50% hope. I just can't, I can't stop googling.

Hubby took my out all day long yesterday, and everytime I say "I wana go home" he is like "in ur dreams!" We left home from 2pm to 12am can u believe it, from mall, to see our friends, to other places, he just didnt want to see me googling.

This morning he called my friend, and persuaded her to take me for shopping. She will be picking me up in an hour or so. He is doing whatever it takes to keep me away from googling.