April Mummies 2011

[DanaBump]

Girls I'm a wreck. Me and DF had a talk about why im so stressed and cry a lot. I said I'd like some help with night shifts as it gets lonely and I get so tired. What I meant was i wanted him to help out. But instead he's sent Toby to MILs for the night. I miss my little man so so much already.

i think it might be time to sit him down again and tell him what you actually meant. i would be tempted to go get your lil man right after that talk, OR take the time to have some you and DH time, sounds like you two needs a bit of reconnection time anyway.

 

[MissFox]

UGH! My left boob is so much bigger than the right one ALL THE TIME! Gonna attempt starti ng all feeds for a few days with the right for more stimulation but that nipple hurts so bad! My boobs were always my "best" feature or whatever and now they are so lopsided and it makes me very self concious!

 

[lilgemsy]

Fucking argh.
Im so stressed and upset right now.
FOB came round my house and was shouting at me in front of the baby again today and said all his family think Im a disgrace. And then he swore on MY BABYS LIFE about something that he shouldnt have sworn on at all because I knew for a fact it was a big fat fucking lie and thats not on at all.
Not at fucking all the prick. He doesnt give a shit about Ollie and I know it but in his mums own words theyll "go to the end of the world and back in order to piss Gem off"
Not to see her grandson but just to make my life hell all because I wont get back with that ginger fucking FUCK FACE.

And now hes crossed the line. Hes hacked into my facebook AND email. Fucking major invasion of privacy and I just dont feel safe at all and I just really dont know what to do anymore.

Im all alone tonight and Ollie keeps crying really easy like he has been since knob head came round. And I just really dont know what to do anymore.

I seriously feel like packing up and fucking off away from here because Im being harrassed by FOB constantly and its making my life shit and I dont deserve it. I really dont. I always admit if Im in the wrong but here all Ive done is try to be a good mum to my son and get treated like shit for it.

I want my mum

 

[Emmy'sMommy]

Gem....Doing whats best for Ollie is all that matters!!

I think i seen someone talking about gripe water on here...somewhere...Well anyways i tried it last night with Ava b/c every time i put her down to sleep she grunts and wiggles but usually remains asleep...I'm certain its stomach discomfort that is causing her to do this so i gave her some of the gripe water last night in her bottle and it really seemed to help. She didn't grunt and wiggle as much and she seemed to sleep more peacefully. I will continue to use it and see if it really makes a difference or if she just had a good night lol

 

[MissFox]

I need to get some for when Rosie has bad gassy nights too

 

[CottlestonPie]

I mentioned gripe water but cant remember if it was in this thread! Please keep me updated because I want to try it soon if Toby's tummy doesnt stop causing him problems at night. Infacol didnt seem to do much (but i kinda liked the smell and he liked the taste of it!)

Toby's not going to be home til 7:30 tonight, so I'm wedding planning! I don't even know a date or budget but I'm making enquiries so thats a good start lol
Checking out venues and - my favourite part - making playlists!

 

[MissFox]

Fun Cottles. We made the decision to postpone our wedding- really bummed about it but we are officially married- I still want the big party and white dress though...
Rosie was so cute in her swing this morning- I fed her and put her there so I could eat and then she was fighting falling asleep so hard! Once she did fall asleep she kept kicking her blanket off and then crying wen it was gone- Silly girl! I put her in bed with her daddy and took this picture

oh and DH says that he is never shaving a gain because it helps him look like a dad (UGH! I called him RUG FACE this morning while I was feeding Rosie and he kept kissing my neck) AND he insists that he is going to grow a ponytail. FML! I told him he will never get laid again! I don't mind some facial hair but TRIM THAT SHIT! lol!!!

 

[CottlestonPie]

LOL... df couldnt grow a beard if he wanted to because hes losing it on top but if he did I think i'd cut it off in his sleep! He has a beard though and I totally wouldn't change it. He looks weird without it now!

I think i've gone into wedding overdrive lately. I obviously want to marry DF but also, at the moment Toby and I have different surnames and I dont like it! I originally wanted a big fancy expensive wedding but now I don't mind as long as I dont have to wait years.

That pic of Rosie and your OH is adorable

 

[CrazyBird]

Emmy's I would also like to know if the gripe water works as I'm using infacol at the moment, its kind of working but only started using it yesterday. Feel sorry for my little man as he keeps bringing his legs up so I know his tummy is hurting him. It keeps him awake so much in the night

Great picture missfox, very sweet

 

[babybefore30]

Hey ladies hope you are all ok. Just checking in, it is bloody hard being a mummy but I love it. Daniel went out in his push chair for the first time today and it has exhausted him. He is feeding well but am a little concerned that he has only fed for six mins and is now zonked out.

 

[Emmy'sMommy]

I will keep you all updated on the gripe water...lol I hope it continues to work for us!

Great pic MissFox!

 

[Tasha360]

Fab pic sam shes looks so cute.
Cottles im wedding planning too, getting married on my bday July 16th. We cant afford anything big so just getting married n the registry office. To be honest i always wanted the big wedding but im not so bothered now. As you said i want the same surname as my OH and kids it just doesnt feel right.
xx

 

[CottlestonPie]

Am i evil for this? DF thinks so. But it's sooo cute!

 

[Tasha360]

awwww so cute! x

 

[JakesMummy]

Hehe cottleston! Not at all he is adorable!!!

I nursed in public today twice. Yay! It may seem not a big thing to most, but I dud it at a packed county fair with a toddler to control and a very windy day plus blankets to cover up equals a nightmare!!! This is the best bit, I noticed an area of grass that was gated off. Most people were sitting around it eating picnics etc so I thought it. Be a good place to feed lo. However, I was wrong! This "arena" was in fact an area where they were doing friggin donkey racing! So I whipped out my boob before realizing the whole place was looking in my direction just as an insane gust of wind whipped up my blanket revealing tit to everyone !!! Nice!!
I even caught the sun today, so am currently sporting a colour that cAn only be described as lobster pink, on a Dulux colour chart.

Amelia has been sleeping all day so I know I'm in for it tonight. I left my sisters at 8.00pm and she is still asleep in carseat. It's now 10.49pm?!? I'd better feed and change her soon as shell be up all bloody night now! I am guessing it's a growth spurt, the 10 day one.

 

[MissFox]

soooo cute Cottles!!!!

UGH!!! DH wants sex so bad and I feel so bad for blue balling him but Im just not feeling it! My incision is gross but not as bad as before and im still bleeding. tmi but not to mention DH hasnt been on top since his surgery and I sure cant pull that offright now

sorry just feeling bad about it

 

[DanaBump]

sam- you shouldn't even be considering sex before your 6 weeks is up. tell him to go take a shower and leave you alone.

 

[CottlestonPie]

Agreed... I was very tempted this morning because DF and I were alone and I very nearly did but 1) its only been 4 weeks 2) havent sorted out BC yet!!

 

[DanaBump]

us too cottles but then i suddenly got hit with the reality of the fact both times i got pregnant on the first shot, what if that happened again? i'd die. literally, push me off a cliff i'd die.

 

[MissFox]

Yea- i've just researched lots of excuses- not to mention baby. That was my biggest excuse! "Ummmmm i'm still bleeding and there are no condoms"