April Mummies 2011

Gabe still isn't sleeping and is feeding about every 45 minutes or so all day and every hour and a half to two hours during the night. Add in my first AF starting last night and feeling rubbish with it, the start of a chest infection and having to pack to go away :dohh: Having to rent a car because mine is dead, again! The drains are screwed in a big way and the gas is off. Someone cart me off to the funny farm now.

On the plus side, erm... erm... I have some nice biscuits. Buttery crumbly biscuits. All I need now is a cup of tea <looks at OH hopefully>
 
Yayyyyy! He is sat beside me, read my post as it came up, rubbed my leg and said "I'll see what I can do". Fankoo my love :cloud9:
 
Ooh biscuits!!! Sorry your feeling blah! Good to hear from you though! Amelia alsonfeeds very frequently in the day buy isn't too bad at night.

Cottles- AF sounds a right pain - have u had your iron tested? Just wondering I'f you're blood loss is making u sightly anemic resulting in tiredness? Of course our babies male us tired too, but may be worth a shot. Has your OH gotten better with help at all?
 
Can I join in the urgh brigade?

As you know (I think I told you anyway) my Dad was taken into emergency care last week as his illness really got bad :(

Anyway, since then I'm just running on empty. My OH is being, well, a boy really. He's great if I have something I need help with but when I'm feeling really blue he doesn't really help at all. I'd love it if he would run me a bath, pour me a glass of wine and just take over for a bit but he never does. And when I suggest it he says yes he should do it more :dohh: but never actually do it

I'm tired of being the one everyone relies on but who has no one to rely on myself. My therapist said the best thing would just to accept it is how it is because it gets me down wishing for something that probably will never happen.

I just want to be a kid again sometimes you know? Where someone else is looking after me. Just a short time, just enough to get my energy back :(

*sits with the other urgh people*
 
Ohhh me too with the ugh. Car problems. Transmission pro lem more specifically. Hdjfjofjxbshsjdkorubfj!!
 
Hugs for all those feeling "urgh"! xx

Had a hard day with Ollie. been alone with him aaaaall day and hes done nothing but scream!
Ive tried everything and nothing works and now im covered in bruises and scratches off todays tantrums! :/
Hes settling down a bit now... more like a groan. so gonna try and get him asleep!
 
wow, you poor things! :hugs: to all of you that need it! xx
 
Sorry for all those in ugh-land! I hope things get better!

missFox, transmission issues suck!

Gem, it's hard when a normally happy baby becomes unhappy and inconsolable.

Gertrude, DH is the same way. He's really a great husband but has no idea what to do to help me - like hold the baby so I can get a couple things done.

Amethyst, what a wonderful man!

We're struggling with a moody baby that doesn't want to nap and wants to be held all the time. I think she gets frustrated because she can't see things as well from the ground. She's really trying to be mobile. She's getting up on all fours but she's still a ways from crawling (thankfully!). They told me that earlier today she was trying to get up into a sitting position. She's growing up too fast!:cry:
 
Can i join the urgh gang too.

We had an awful night with George on Tuesday night, his eczema was much better after using the steroid cream so we started using another cream the doctor gave us, George must of had an allergic reaction because the back of his head was red raw and he wouldn't stop trying to itch it :( He just kept crying in his sleep. In the end OH gave him a bath at 4am and went for a drive with him to try and settle him. We both felt like zombies yesterday.
Looks like i will have to take George back to the doctors tomorrow as he now has what looks like an eye infection, his eye is all gunky and keeps watering and looks sore :( poor boy.

Cottles i was thinking about going back to work for a couple of days as my pay drops next month, do you get full pay and still get paid maternity leave?

Gem i hope Olllie has settled now, days like that are horrible when they wont stop crying.
 
i have an appt to see a counselor on the 27th. i'm hoping for a miracle cure..
 
Dana, sorry that you weren't able to get the female dr that you wanted but hope the one that you'll be seeing turns out to be a great match for you. Honestly I think making the appointment is probably the hardest step, so now you just need to show up and go from there. Really hope this is what you need to get over this hump. :hugs:

Danielle, so glad to hear that the cloth dipes are going well at her school. I'm using mostly microfiber but do have the organic cotton Flips inserts and those work well but don't keep her skin quite as dry, when I get my fleece scraps I'll probably throw one of those on top when she wears a Flip to keep her drier. I have a few Joey Bunz hemp doublers and they work well but I find I need a thin microfiber insert on top of it since they absorb very quickly and then the hemp locks the moisture in after that. Hemp just doesn't absorb fast enough on it's own to prevent leaks in my experience. I've heard good things about the Thirsties Hemp prefolds (people use them to stuff pockets with), I think you can get them on Amazon for a good price. About Isis getting frustrated since she's not mobile, have you tried a bumbo seat or propping her up on the couch or a recliner type chair? Lizzie gets so frustrated if she's not at eye level with the rest of us. We took her out to eat today and put her in the highchair and she LOVED it. I was surprised that she sat up the entire time on her own and didn't fall forward or backward one single time. She was so happy to be sitting like the grown ups.

I used to think I wouldn't use the TV as a distraction for Lizzie, but I quickly learned whatever gives me a few free moments is worth it's weight in gold. A happy mamma makes for a happy baby!

Jakes that sounds like great fun at the gymnasium, that's so nice they do that for the little ones. Lizzie has done that before when I accidentally hold her in the feeding position or get her too close to my boobs, they know what they want!!

Cottleston, so sorry to hear how tired you've been. I had a few months where I was totally drained, brain constantly in a fog and a constant dull headache. Went to the dr and had all kinds of blood tests and of course everything came back normal. What helped for me was to take a small iron supplement daily in addition to what's in my prenatals (I'm still nursing). Even if you're not nursing it would probably help to take a multi vitamin that has some iron in it and make sure you're drinking and eating enough. It will get better though :hugs: I just looked at your weightloss blog and your'e doing great, you're well on your way to hitting your Christmas goal early!!

Amethyst, sorry that Gabe isn't sleeping so well. Lizzie definitely has nights like that but I couldn't imagine every night like that, you poor thing!! Where are you headed, I hope on a nice vacation! What a great DH you have, if I type that I'd like a cup of coffee maybe my husband will surprise me (ha!)

Big :hug: gertrude. Any update on your Dad, what are the next steps for him? It's so frustrating when the men can't be a bit more proactive about things, but I really think very few of them are wired that way. Doesn't make it fair though.

Hope those with car issues are able to get them sorted soon (and for not too dear of a price!)

Gem, hope that Ollie has settled for you and is a much more smiley and happy baby for you tomorrow. Never easy to see them like that and just drains all the energy from you.

Crazy, I'm sorry to hear about his reaction to the other cream, really hope they're able to clear it up for you soon. Poor George.

Lizzie woke up a bunch of times last night so I'm pretty drained as well. Luckily have tomorrow off so I hope she lets us sleep in a bit. I think she's getting hungry more often and my milk isn't keeping up with her. I've been drinking the nursing tea and it helps but it brings back my headaches and foggy feeling and I sooo don't want to go there again. I think it's partially hormonal (the other part the iron seemed to fix) so when I ramp up milk production it must ramp up the same hormones that cause my problems. Urgh!!
 
Havent had time for a proper catch up yet . Super busy just lately. Love my new pram. Ill take a photo on the school run later so you can see it. Im moving house too. Closer to the school so should be much easier. The walk to school should take 15 mins instead of 45. Dreading moving all our stuff though! xxx
 
My baby is an actual giant! We've not got any plans today & it's pouring down outside so I just put Rex in a babygro today. His 3-6 ones, which he's worn about 3 times, were too small! So had to put him in a 6-9 one and it fits perfectly! How is he so big!!! It's a Next one too & their sizes aren't small!

We have a bit of progress of the cot napping front too. He did 45 mins this morning! An improvement on 30 mins!

As I was cuddling him to sleep for his nap I had a big wave of sadness come over me :cry: All because of the thought of leaving him to go back to work. I don't want someone else to look after him :-( I want to cuddle him to sleep ever single day :cry: So wish I could be a SAHM.
 
Oh sazzle! I can understand you not wanting anyone but yourself staying with Lo. I love being a sahm. It can be draining and very hard work at times, but I do feel lucky. I'm hoping to stay at home til Amelia goes to school. I fear I may go mad though lol
 
The last 2 nights Rosie has woken up crying. And she has been waking up 2x a night!!

I also wish I could be a sahm but I would also be happy working only part time. Not gonna happen any time soon. Oh well at least I loooooove my sitter who is 2.50/hr lol

Yay on moving Tasha.

I put Hess pants on Rosie yesterday and they were 6-9 but they had the shortest legs and the biggest waist! I've got 2 more packs of size 3 diapers and then I think were gonna try size 4. I've bought 3 packs of diapers since Rosie has been born (I got 2/$10-36pk) and I'm going into the last one from my baby shower. Sad to see the free diaper days passing lol.

Alright its only 6am and Rosie is just about back to sleep. Hope ykjgirls have a good day!!

Dana- glad to hear you got an appointment and I hope it helps!!!
 
Amelia fills out her 6-9 month clothes too which was strange as I've just started buying her winter wardrobe and most were that size, damn it! Looks like we have a bunch of long kids LOL!!
 
Isis' outfit today consisted of 6-9 month pants (just a little long), 6 month onesie and a 3-6 month shirt. She is so long that her pants have to be 6 month or 6-9 month but anything else can be in 3-6 or 6 month. All her 6 month sleepers are a little snugger than I would like considering they are all new.

I have had quite the morning! I forgot my pump parts this morning so I had to run home. At home I found a stray dog. I drove all around the neighborhood trying to see whose dog it is and found out that it is a stray that no one would claim. I left it at my neighbor's who is a softie when it comes to dogs and I'm going to call the local shelter to see if anyone is missing a dog like that. And now I'm 30 minutes late for a meeting because I still had to pump when I get to work!

I'll catch up more later!
 
Aleena is in 3-6 / 6 month stuff.
6-9 month clothes fit her from Gerber cause they run way small!
 
Gerber runs tiny!!!! I laugh at them bc they're so small. I had some hand me arounds that were Gerber and I put them all in with the newborn stuff
 

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