IHrtSteve
Mommy to 2, almost 3 boys
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I know my husband loves me. He is a great dad. He is a hard worker, at work and around the house (gardening etc). I guess I just feel like I need more from him emotionally. It is difficult to get out on date nights but I feel like the only reason we ever do, is because I make it happen. I arrange the babysitter, make the reservation,etc. He never says "let me take you out" and he NEVER just makes a reservation to surprise me. He just isn't romantic AT ALL. I can't remember the last time he brought me home a treat or even grabbed me and gave me a big kiss. We haven't even been married for 3 years, and he treats me like I am his wife of 40 years.
I try to make sure I give him all the wifely NEEDs he may have. I try to look good for him, take care of the house, the kids, and even while preggers...I try to keep his sexual needs met (sorry if that is tmi).
I am not really complaining but I am wondering how everyone else's hubbies treat them. Honestly, can you girls remember the last time your hubby brought you flowers or took you out for a special dinner?? (not birthday but for no reason).
Is this just how men are or am I missing something from him?
I need some romance! Waaaaaaaaaaah
I try to make sure I give him all the wifely NEEDs he may have. I try to look good for him, take care of the house, the kids, and even while preggers...I try to keep his sexual needs met (sorry if that is tmi).
I am not really complaining but I am wondering how everyone else's hubbies treat them. Honestly, can you girls remember the last time your hubby brought you flowers or took you out for a special dinner?? (not birthday but for no reason).
Is this just how men are or am I missing something from him?
I need some romance! Waaaaaaaaaaah