Well after posting a few weeks ago about having a miscarriage and my DH and I having different feelings about TTC again for #2... I am now totally confused and possibly very excited!
I sadly had a natural miscarriage 3 weeks ago with baby number 2 and am waiting for my period to arrive so my body can get back to normal.
DH said he wanted to wait until this time next year before TTC again, I said I want to try this side of Christmas but we're both willing to compromise and start again around our 1st wedding anniversary in Feb 11.
I told him that after all my body has been through with hormones, I'm not going back on the pill so we'll have to use condoms, much as we haven't used them for years and would rather not!
Anyway, we've DTD a few times since mc, a couple of times with protection, a couple of times not but he has pulled out. The last time we DTD DH said he didn't want to put a condom and, I said I don't want you to either (of course!!) but we have to wait until at least one period has passed following doctors orders after mc.
I'm now thinking - my god you are good at changing your mind! Am I getting my wish of being able to TTC straight away (and in which case AF needs to hurry up and it will make me soooooooo happy!) or will he just change his mind again?!?
We get told women are indecisive but my goodness!
I know this is a discussion we'll have together obviously but just wanted a good blurt on here!!
I sadly had a natural miscarriage 3 weeks ago with baby number 2 and am waiting for my period to arrive so my body can get back to normal.
DH said he wanted to wait until this time next year before TTC again, I said I want to try this side of Christmas but we're both willing to compromise and start again around our 1st wedding anniversary in Feb 11.
I told him that after all my body has been through with hormones, I'm not going back on the pill so we'll have to use condoms, much as we haven't used them for years and would rather not!
Anyway, we've DTD a few times since mc, a couple of times with protection, a couple of times not but he has pulled out. The last time we DTD DH said he didn't want to put a condom and, I said I don't want you to either (of course!!) but we have to wait until at least one period has passed following doctors orders after mc.
I'm now thinking - my god you are good at changing your mind! Am I getting my wish of being able to TTC straight away (and in which case AF needs to hurry up and it will make me soooooooo happy!) or will he just change his mind again?!?
We get told women are indecisive but my goodness!
I know this is a discussion we'll have together obviously but just wanted a good blurt on here!!
