I suppose men don't really think about things as much as us do they, so maybe he didn't realise what a weird suggestion it was..... but still....its a very weird thing to ask. Especially with no explanation as to why he had suddenly decided he wanted to see me! What if he wasn't "house sitting" ... would he have still asked me to go down?! If he wants to talk he can get his arse up here......not saying I'd let him in mind What a f'ing idiot!!