Arguement

[hayz1981]

oh cool idea, camping is so much fun. Think we're going to go camping in Cornwall over the summer for a week as a cheap holiday. I would love a holiday bump by then!!!

xx

 

[HAYS]

I love cornwall!!!!!! and a holiday bump would be lovely!!xx

 

[Coffee]

Awww sorry you've been arguing mate.
We used to separate the sex out a bit! we'd have what we called "baby sex" and that would be the boring "right, see these 3 days on the calendar? well we've GOT to do it whether we want to or not" sex! Then before and after that we'd have what we called "us sex" (!!) and we'd get really naughty then!! I remember many a time us saying "ooohh lets get a quickie in tonight before the boring baby sex starts" or "yay, last night of baby sex tonight and then tomorrow i'm going to do X to you"!!
I guess this was just our way of dealing with it and trying to stop the TTC taking completely over our sexlife. Seemed better for us that rather than pretend we're not bd-ing for sake of ttc (when we both knew we were) just admit we were and then make bd-ing the rest of the cycle more fun and just for us!

 

[HAYS]

yeh babe,im going to make more of an effort with non baby sex!!! It might sound mean but im not very good at instigating dont no why,just never have been!!

 

[Coffee]

I used to be just the same - never really instigated things and i guess my dh noticed the difference too when we were ttc and all of a sudden i would be instigating it, just in the middle of the month! I just started making the effort and before long it wasn't making an effort anymore it was just the norm! I'm sure it will be the same for you hun!

 

[HAYS]

i hope so chick
xx

 

[hollee]

hi hunny

have you spoken to DH again about it??? i think you should use your bonus and treat yourselves to a weekend away it really does the world of good. DH and i are the same as coffee we tend to have babymaking sex and then the rest all about the fun.....you could spice things up a bit with some naughty things (cheap naughty things) xxx

 

[HAYS]

hi hunny

have you spoken to DH again about it??? i think you should use your bonus and treat yourselves to a weekend away it really does the world of good. DH and i are the same as coffee we tend to have babymaking sex and then the rest all about the fun.....you could spice things up a bit with some naughty things (cheap naughty things) xxx

Hey hun, we are better with eachother today,didnt want to bring it up again, we kinda discussed alot of it last night.

He bought me a new toy from Ann Summers for valentines,so we have used that last cycle, so think we might give it a good bashing for non ttc sex!

 

[JASMAK]

Awww sorry you've been arguing mate.
We used to separate the sex out a bit! we'd have what we called "baby sex" and that would be the boring "right, see these 3 days on the calendar? well we've GOT to do it whether we want to or not" sex! Then before and after that we'd have what we called "us sex" (!!) and we'd get really naughty then!! I remember many a time us saying "ooohh lets get a quickie in tonight before the boring baby sex starts" or "yay, last night of baby sex tonight and then tomorrow i'm going to do X to you"!!
I guess this was just our way of dealing with it and trying to stop the TTC taking completely over our sexlife. Seemed better for us that rather than pretend we're not bd-ing for sake of ttc (when we both knew we were) just admit we were and then make bd-ing the rest of the cycle more fun and just for us!

We seperate ours too!