I had an argument with a cousin ages ago basically because she is very stuck up, interferes, slags you off ect and just not a very nice person, i deceided not to make up with her this time we just dont get along. Anyway i lent her my baby things for her baby over a year ago including a baby changer mamas and papas one £130, i text her today to ask for it back. I said If you have finished with the changer, can you get it ready for me to collect as i need it back or leave it in A.n.other's house for me to get it from there. She basically replied calling me an arrognat cow and i wont be getting anything back from her as i didnt use my manors. I just said fine i will get new, ive got so much going on at the mo i havnt got time to argue. What would you do now, would you buy new or contact her again, i really dont want to contact her again and just want to leave it but its anoying that she has the changer and other things of mine i just want them back.