louise1302
mum to FIVE boys :)
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with my 12 year old, he has zero respect for me my house or anyone in it, or school for tyhat matter
he doesnt come home from school until he feels like it anything up to midnight when im going frantic and calling the police
hes naughty in school and has no respect for the teachers. he gets s4ent to short stay(isolation) at least once a week and has been suspended 5 times this year already
he hits my oh(his step dad) and i mean punches him in the face if he dares tell him off
when he does finally come home(he always does) hes so blase about it "oh ive been with my mates so what"
and it gets even better tonight ive discovered over the week almost 20pounds has gone missing from my purse and my other sons medal he earned in a tournament has been stolen(it definitely cant have been the pther 2 older lads as theyve not left my sight when theyve played out its been on the green in front of the house
i dont know what to do with him for the best no punishment works i dont want to hit him, i cant ground him except for weekends as he just wont come home. he denys stealing and i cant actually prove it even though i know its him
i did hear something about the family intervention service who deal with naughty kids but apparently all they do is tell them to behave and then take them out and i dont want him rewarded for doing things the other kids do automatically and get nothing for iykwim
its not like he wants for anything his bedroom has everything from an xbox 360 psp and stereo to his own hamster
im so sad hes turning out this way my 10 and 11 yr olds are so much more mature and sensible and theyve all been raised the same way
his father is a waste of space he looks after him 3 weeks a year and lets him do whatever he wants whenever he wants from eating to sleeping and going to bed and gettingb up(obviously he doesnt have school there)
i really am at a loss
he doesnt come home from school until he feels like it anything up to midnight when im going frantic and calling the police
hes naughty in school and has no respect for the teachers. he gets s4ent to short stay(isolation) at least once a week and has been suspended 5 times this year already
he hits my oh(his step dad) and i mean punches him in the face if he dares tell him off
when he does finally come home(he always does) hes so blase about it "oh ive been with my mates so what"
and it gets even better tonight ive discovered over the week almost 20pounds has gone missing from my purse and my other sons medal he earned in a tournament has been stolen(it definitely cant have been the pther 2 older lads as theyve not left my sight when theyve played out its been on the green in front of the house
i dont know what to do with him for the best no punishment works i dont want to hit him, i cant ground him except for weekends as he just wont come home. he denys stealing and i cant actually prove it even though i know its him
i did hear something about the family intervention service who deal with naughty kids but apparently all they do is tell them to behave and then take them out and i dont want him rewarded for doing things the other kids do automatically and get nothing for iykwim
its not like he wants for anything his bedroom has everything from an xbox 360 psp and stereo to his own hamster
im so sad hes turning out this way my 10 and 11 yr olds are so much more mature and sensible and theyve all been raised the same way
his father is a waste of space he looks after him 3 weeks a year and lets him do whatever he wants whenever he wants from eating to sleeping and going to bed and gettingb up(obviously he doesnt have school there)
i really am at a loss