Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Trying2b2mums]

Jayne - I know exactly what you mean - a girl who came to my wedding was 6 months pregnant, and she always sais she would never have kids young, she wants to live first... and she was even joking about how their 'oops' happened. I'm still thrilled for them, but so gutted at the same time - terrible, I know, but I often look at people and think 'why them & not me...especially to the people who treat their children badly, or use them to get at the men in their lives etc. still bad, but it's hard not to feel jealous when you want so badly what they have,..

Thanks! I know, I feel like a terrible human being for being jealous but I just want it so badly! Hope its us soon!!!

Dont feel bad. I had a very hard time being happy for one of my best friends that got married in June, how could I be happy for her when I am denied the same thing! As for all the other friends getting married and engaged, i just put on my happy face, but inside it kills me. The pregnancy announcements are no easier (although now i am a little excited i get to do the same soon, hopefully) But its normal, human nature to experience jealousy and all the rest!

 

[SJayne22]

Jayne- happy for you that your DH is now getting more on board and being supportive. I think Melaineys will be the same. Men are hot and cold like that, i know im not with one, but ive dealt with enough of them, and seen my friends' and my sisters hubby. They try to say the right thing, and sometimes they fail miserably and dont understand why 'we' got upset by it! Good for you guys for talking it through!! Still have my FX for you this month!!!!

Thankyou!!! Needing to wee a lot now and very 'pouchy' tummy. Usually a sign of AF so really not sure! Still got this fuzzy head and not eaten today but no interest whatsoever! Just having a coke!

 

[number2woohoo]

Sounds like some of you have had a bad day - hugs, girls xo

As far as Facebook I was actually thinking earlier today of asking who here was on it. I find it easier to chat on it.

Made some absolutely perfect cauliflower soup tonight. I have the most amazingly easy but tasty recipe for it. Soooo good! Just thinking about tidying up from dinner and heading to bed, lol! Today my cleaning lady came so I want to try to keep the house tidy for at least a day or two

Night xo

 

[Newbie32]

Hi girls, looks like a bit on tonight too!

Just in between sets here and ninja thought she would stop in and say hello and pages to read again!!!!

Melanie's I'm sorry about your little setback xx but have no fear that you will get knocked up luv, at the rate that you rabbits get at the xxx

Back on court for set three now! will be back soon!!!

XXX

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Jayne - men must all be the same, DH says the same about me, he goes along with me to a point, but when I get really excited, he just says babe...don't get your hopes up too much... and its just cos he doesn't like seeing me upset and he doesn't wanna get excited til the BFP...

2mums - I feel for you with the marriage thing, I really do! I hope so much that it's only around the corner for you!

number 2 - good work on the soup? whats the recipe? I've only had it once, and enjoyed it, but have never tried to make it. I specialise in pum[kin

 

[Newbie32]

Ps sjayne, you are so totally duffers I reckon!!! FX xx

 

[Newbie32]

Oh and that soup sounds nice! I'm making roasted red capsicum soup tomorrow night!! X

Recipe would be great! I just got a cauliflower in my veggie delivery tonight!!

 

[SJayne22]

Ps sjayne, you are so totally duffers I reckon!!! FX xx

Wouldn't it have shown up by now? I was disheartened when FF said like 60% of BFP's happen by 12dpo???? I really don't know what to think. I was so nervous to take my temp this morning!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Ps sjayne, you are so totally duffers I reckon!!! FX xx

Haha ... duffers.... i like that one!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

not a huge soup person, but all of that sounds soo good!!!

Jayne- if you preggo, just in case, get a caffeine free coke and follow it with a lot of water bc i think you just may be!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Ps sjayne, you are so totally duffers I reckon!!! FX xx

Wouldn't it have shown up by now? I was disheartened when FF said like 60% of BFP's happen by 12dpo???? I really don't know what to think. I was so nervous to take my temp this morning!

ive heard some women dont show for up til 18-19 dpo, and sometimes the urine tests dont work, but you get a bfp with a blood test. so your still not out, not until shows

 

[LLPM]

I'm off to bed g'night ladies! Looking forward to stalking those charts in the morning!
hopefully see some BFP's!!

 

[Pammy31]

argh... bloated crampy gassy and new symptom my underarms are sore and swollen. ugh!

 

[SJayne22]

Ps sjayne, you are so totally duffers I reckon!!! FX xx

Wouldn't it have shown up by now? I was disheartened when FF said like 60% of BFP's happen by 12dpo???? I really don't know what to think. I was so nervous to take my temp this morning!

ive heard some women dont show for up til 18-19 dpo, and sometimes the urine tests dont work, but you get a bfp with a blood test. so your still not out, not until shows

Thanks!!! I'll wait to see what my temp does tomorrow!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

i'm going to go to bed too lovelies! love to you all! I wil lbe on to check in tomorrow! good luck everyone, and sleep well!
xxx

 

[Newbie32]

Night lovelys!!!!

Sweet dreams to all and remember, sleep now means temping soon!!!

Ps, jayne I know a lady who didn't get her bfp until 25dpo!!! Hang in there. You are not out till ms broomstick flies in!!!!

Much love xxx

Can't wait for that angel!!! Please do it first thing because I'm up early hehehehe

Roll on duffering!!!!

XX

 

[Melainey]

Thank you all so much I actually cried reading most of the comments

The thing is I know he wants kids but he just doesn't think it's the right time now.. He is almost 34 I thought he would have thought differently! Oh well screw him... I just won't give him any for a while and see how he likes not getting what he really wants - Although i'm the one with the high sex drive not him ahhaha so I will have to think of something else to take away that will make him care! maybe the cold shoulder? Hmmm have to sleep on it haha!

I don't know what I would do without you ladies I really don't lots od love to you all xxxxx xxxxx Hope you all sleep well xxxx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

good night everyone who is going!!! have sweet baby making dreams!!!
Ive been busy planning my girls weekend (with OHs, DFs, and DHs) for Vegas this coming Januray! Super excited, although vegas is more fun if you can drink, but i wouldn't change my situation for the world! Plus my OH has never been, so gonna be fun showing her around (t'was only a 4 hr drive from UNi, so me n the girls went all the time ) Guess I'll have to go to bed soon too, so excited for those temps and tests tomorrow!!!!

Melainey- i'd like to see you try to with hold from him you couldnt do it if you tried!!! He'll come around, he's just stressed with the job interview, possible move to perth, trying so long, he'll be right!!

 

[number2woohoo]

Thank you all so much I actually cried reading most of the comments

The thing is I know he wants kids but he just doesn't think it's the right time now.. He is almost 34 I thought he would have thought differently! Oh well screw him... I just won't give him any for a while and see how he likes not getting what he really wants - Although i'm the one with the high sex drive not him ahhaha so I will have to think of something else to take away that will make him care! maybe the cold shoulder? Hmmm have to sleep on it haha!

I don't know what I would do without you ladies I really don't lots od love to you all xxxxx xxxxx Hope you all sleep well xxxx

It's a scary thing, love - he is probably just scared. Of course, he wouldn't have any idea that he is, he's just reacting! Men! xo

 

[Melainey]

Aww that sounds great 2mums I have always wanted to go to the USA maybe one day

I know It is funny that I even said that But I need to do something haha

Woohoo - I know it is scary But he was the one that suggested that we try for babies at the start? Bloody men!!

x