Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[lisamfr]

lol, yeah maybe you are right pammy!!!

Poor DH was getting a bit sad last night...he is worried that its him that is the 'problem' even though its still been less than 6 months. We're not sure if we should travel down the SA route, just to know what we're dealing with, or just leave it for a few more months... It could be really helpful, but also really hard to deal with if there is a major issue..(he is worried that years and years of rugby might have damaged his swimmers...)

Sigh.

Sigh.

Sigh.

oh newbie, I totally understand. When we were trying for Audrina it took us 5 months. DH was feeling the same way. DH started taking Menevit and we fall pregnant on the 5 month. Maybe he could try something like that. But 2nd time around DH has been using Menevit and we are only 6 cycle so this time he has stopped taking it. He was taking it longer this time around.

Its so frustrating! He's been on some cenception vitamins, not menevit, but a different sort for about 4 months now as well...he never complains lol! Just does whatever i tell him!!! Poor bugger...

I think we'll probably wait another month or two and if still no luck we might look at getting some tests done...I dont want to leave it too long just in case there is a problem because we'd like to have more than one, and neither of us wants to be in walking frames for their 18ths!!! Tho he is more worried about that than me, given he is 6 years older...

sounds like you have it worked out. Same DH never complains and does whatever I say too. FX hun

 

[Newbie32]

Thanks Lise

 

[number2woohoo]

I just wanted to say Hi ladies Melbourne mum 29 TTC. I'm going a little crazy this month
I am 7dpo and I'm dying to test already : )

Hi Bec, we're all a it test crazy here. Good luck - only a few days to go!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Welcome Bec! Hopefully you will only have to endure a few more days and then you'll get your bfp We have a lovely little group here - I'm sure you'll get all the support and humour you need to help you wait it out without going insane

 

[Newbie32]

Test crazy??? Us??? Never!!!

hahahahaha

We dont mind how often you test tho Bec

Welcome

 

[Princessbec]

Thanks everyone I just tested (told you I was crazy) I got my last bfp at 8dpo so I true crazy me form I'm going to test every morning now until I either get my bfp or the witch arrives lol

 

[Pammy31]

Hi Pammy,

sorry didnt mean too. How are you feeling today?

Hello I still love you. nipples still tender and sore, lower abdomen is hard as a rock.

Sasha if he is really worried go for it and get a SA wont hurt if you both know more about your bodies. (november or december is your month)

I am positive!! and a girl!!

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My Ovulation Chart


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TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, mrsmoomoo, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie

 

[Newbie32]

Goodluck Bec!

Pammy you make me laugh...so basically i should stop trying until then eh? hehehe

You're not the only one who thinks that if/when it happens that it will be a girl, quite funny really!

I guess you're right Pammy! Next cycle will be 'due to end with af' right around our wedding anniversay (why does this happen like this, big disappointments on special days...) so maybe if he gets the test before then we'll have more of an idea of what to expect...then again,maybe we wont!!!

OMG - I AM SENDING MYSELF AROUND THE LOONEY BEND TODAY!!!!

 

[Newbie32]

Thanks everyone I just tested (told you I was crazy) I got my last bfp at 8dpo so I true crazy me form I'm going to test every morning now until I either get my bfp or the witch arrives lol

Well good luck tomorrow Bec!

How long have you been ttc this time?

 

[Princessbec]

We tried at the tried last year and it ended in MC so we waited a bit and have now been ttc since Feb we are using at home AI so sometimes it is hard to coordinate everything but this was a good month I think for timing we had ferning on the microscope, POS IC OPK and POS digi OPK lol I pulled out all the stops this month as our donor moves OS in October so we only had this month and the next to try

 

[Newbie32]

I dont blame you for all the tests!!! FX for you hun, i hope this is your month, I can imagine that knowing your donor is leaving could put enormous pressure on you so everything crossed it doesnt matter!!!

 

[Rosie_PA]

Newbie don't quit trying, Fx'd for May twins!!!!!!

 

[Pammy31]

Goodluck Bec!

Pammy you make me laugh...so basically i should stop trying until then eh? hehehe

You're not the only one who thinks that if/when it happens that it will be a girl, quite funny really!

I guess you're right Pammy! Next cycle will be 'due to end with af' right around our wedding anniversay (why does this happen like this, big disappointments on special days...) so maybe if he gets the test before then we'll have more of an idea of what to expect...then again,maybe we wont!!!

OMG - I AM SENDING MYSELF AROUND THE LOONEY BEND TODAY!!!!

You and I are in the smae boat... My first yr together with Peter and my AF is due that day. 20/8/2012.

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My Ovulation Chart


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TTC Buddies with SBinRI, Pauls_angel, mrsmoomoo, Katherine1209, Melainey, Newbie32, Lisamfr and Commie

 

[ginny83]

Number2 - don't worry about maternity leave and apply for a new job. Worse case is that you'll fall pregnant in the next 3 months and then won't get maternity leave, but you'll still get the baby bonus and plus I bet you'll be so happy that you got a BFP. On the other hand if you don't fall pregnant in the next 3 months, it might make it easier to deal with for the fact that you will get maternity leave when you do fall pregnant!

Rosie - that sucks with timing in September I agree with Newbie, hopefully it won't matter anyway

Lisa - I would love to have Max do modelling - mainly just to get a copy of the professional photos, but I cannot imagine him stilling still for long enough. He has the attention span of an 18month old

Newbie - After we had Max, DF confessed to me that he had always been a tiny bit worried that he had done damage to himself as a teenager. When he was a teenager he somehow twisted his testicle when playing soccer and had to have a minor op to have it put right again. Obviously they work!

Angel - I think it's a good idea to ask the doctor about your spotting and such. It never hurts to see what they say Hope you feel better soon x

Hi to everyone else! Hope you're all doing well x

My spotting has stopped! yay!! Still getting discharge, but it's just the usual white stuff now. I'm going to see what happens over the next few days and then I might visit the early pregnancy unit to see if they think I need another scan or not. Thanks for all your support everyone!

 

[Rosie_PA]

Ginny- so relieved the spotting stopped!!! Prayers for a sticky bean and H&H pregnancy!!!! ....hope you are right and come September there is a bun in this oven!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

ginny- thats great news, I still think he/she was just burrowing in for a healthy ride for the next 8 months!!
bec- fx! I can't imagine given the already huge stress and pressures of at home donor insemination brings, to then have a deadline knowing he is moving away!
rosie- happy anniversary
angel - hope you're feeling better, and get some answers maybe at the DR.

 

[Newbie32]

Morning (afternoon!!!) Ginny, SO pleased to hear that about the spotting. I reckon 2mums is right, just little bean getting a little more comfy for the long journey!

2mums - nice of you to join us today hows the tum? i like zuccini, hopefully its only a temporary thing for you!

I am quite unpleasant to be around today!!! Going to have to try to snap out of it before tennis tonight or i may injure someone.

 

[Melainey]

Morning Ladies

Angel – I hope you feel better I hope Dr can give you something stronger

2Woohoo – Sorry about the temp drop not out until that witch comes tho Also like Mum2Q said I reckon you should look for other jobs as you don’t want to be stressed and in a job you don’t like .. especially when pregnant

Nanna your temp drop was minimal… When is Af due again? Don’t cry lovely ! I will stick my in your face if you like? hehehe I know what you mean about the swimmers.. My DH ripped his nut sack open when he was younger in a motorbike accident and is a little worried that his swimmers are disabled… May have to get them little wheelchairs He did manage to get me pregnant once tho even tho it ended in m/c so I am hopeful it will happen again Yeah there is a 9 year gap between me and DH I bloody want to have them early for his sake too really old bugger hahaha

Kiwi – Very swank hehehe

Jayne – goodnight sleep well

Mum2Q – Congrats on selling your wedding dress Hopefully the pregnant belly will rub off on you

Rosie cheeks – Hello darling heheheheh yea I make him kiss me a lot hehhe He calls me a fiend hahaha Sometimes he hates it but still does it LOTS of sexy time for you in August .. Don’t give him a moments peace hehehe Oh and happy Anniversary

Ginny – So glad that the spotting has stopped xxx

Princessbec – Hello :happdance: You will certainly love it in this thread Welcome!

As for me ladies I feel soooooo much better today My mood and everything is better and I am not angry with DH anymore (for now anyway haha he is bloody hard to handle! BLOODY ADHD hahaha ) My temp is back down low today so now I can wait for O day Hopefully she won’t be too long away! I may stop taking my antibiotics in a day or two cause I hate taking meds that are not natural unless I need to ! So happy days really Sorry for the essay hehehehehehe

 

[Newbie32]

Yay Melainey!! Missed you darlin xx

Yeah...AF due today/tomorrow (last month spotting started tonight, but every month i have charted af has come one day later so far). I can feel it coming and keep going to bathroom to check, and not yet, but no doubt soon...

You are being nice!! I flat out refused to have kids earlier even tho he's much older than me and now i just feel so silly for that!! Oh well, not like we can wind the clock back now is it!!!

So glad you are feeling better, now we just need Angel to get some superdrugs (that dont hurt beans jic) and have the whole crew fit and healthy again!

 

[Rosie_PA]

Now Melainey, (in my best nurse voice) you know should take the whole course of antibiotics so you don't increase your risk of developing resistance!! I say this because I love you and don't want you to develop flesh eating bacteria one day.....





totally kidding about the possibility of flesh eating bacteria