Thats the golden rule in my house, i'm always right, and the other important rule is i know the best way to do everything 
Lucky for me she's easy going and puts up with my non-sense. I'll wait to be proven wrong, but I guarantee I'll be right one of these days 
I have a lesbian friend ( has been one of my best friends since I was like 7 ) (also she was so homophobic and I also had a lesbian kiss with her when we were young.. Hmmmm maybe I changed her 
hehehehehe ) but her mother pretty much disowned her when she came out and it was devastating to see!! I mean I loved her no less!! Probably more actually haha And I kinda always knew she was hehehe Her mother finally came around I think a long time after but at the start it was just horrible to see!!
I hope she changes her mind when she see's us with our own children, but i hope more than anything we dont ever run into those circumstances! I love my sister no matter what she says, and i would die if something happened to her. But, its hard to foresee what peoples, esp your families reactions would be to coming out, can be so hurtful. I've been quite lucky overall.
Hopefully your sister willcome around! Like I don't understand most people as you are still the same person! Who should care what you do in the bedroom!! It's your business if you are gay or straight so shouldn't matter! I reckon she will come around and it is more to do with shock! When she sees how great you are with your own kids she will change her mind xx
Melainey- it happens so often, and some of the time the parents, friends and family do come around, it may take awhile, but its sad, bc you are the same person you were yesterday before you told them, its just amazing how much their view can change in 3 seconds. The hardest thing for me, still, is my sister, we were super close, and we lost that for about a year, it was a combination of the shock i think and she was upset i was moving across the world, we're much better now, and close and she accepts OH and is actually beginning to love her too, but the thing that just kills me and breaks my heart, is when I came out, she said I was no longer capable of raising her 2 boys, if something happened to her and her husband I was going to get custody, but now I am not, bc she claims, they need a male role model! It is just devastating, bc i know plenty of children who have male role models and they are worse off, and plenty of children who are perfect without a male model, I mean what if her husband passed, heaven forbid, and she was alone, would she not be capable!?! I mean, its her kids, her choice, but it hurts nonetheless.
Thanks girls, it is painful, but I know in my heart what is right, and hopefully she'll see us with our kids and realize the number and gender of the parents don't matter in the end. Esp these days, families take on so many different structures!
Mum2q- i agree with you about PDA, there's a line to be drawn at some point in public, no matter what
Imean you should hide in a bush but I love it heheheh not that DH is into it much!!
Oh I see her there too
Hellllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooooo Angel
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Thanks girls, it is painful, but I know in my heart what is right, and hopefully she'll see us with our kids and realize the number and gender of the parents don't matter in the end. Esp these days, families take on so many different structures!
Mum2q- i agree with you about PDA, there's a line to be drawn at some point in public, no matter what
