Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Pauls_angel]

Hi girls am finally awake again have slept most of the day away! My temp got up to 39 and I couldnt do anything but sleep! Just caught up on the past few pages - feeling the love! Saw dr again this arvo he still thinks I could be Pg as no AF but has decided I needed to take steroids to get over this illness - benefits out way the risks even if I am pg- he said they are still a category a drug so if I am pg the baby will be ok - I personally think I'm not duffers though.

Sasha I totally think you are and am waiting eagerly to see your bfp!

Shell I laughed so hard at your story!

LLPM bummer bout Internet - hopefully you'll be back online soon we miss you!

Pammy sorry to hear about you DH giving you grief! Hopefully you'll work things out soon!

Hi Jayne - lOoking fwd to having you in our time zone - would be great if you get you bfp this month and dont have to worry about a job!

Melainey - loved your story about your wedding day - my wedding was the happiest day of my life too - never thought I could love someone as mch as I love my paul

2mums tough gig with your sister - I'm sure she'll come round.

2woohoo that woman at your work sounds like a tool - very uncool - I think the sooner you get out the better!

Hi Ginny - so happy to hear your spotting has stopped!

Hi Maddy I hope your day at work was less crazy today!

Hi Lisa - I hope audrina is in better health today!

Morning kiwi and Rosie I'm sure you'll be up soon if you're not already - hope your days are great!

Bec - I am looking fwd to getting to know you better!

Hoping I haven't forgotten anyone - although I have this awful feeling that I have!!! Love you all xx

 

[SJayne22]

Jayne, thats terrible, sorry to hear that. Its hurtful. I'm glad you stick it out and followed your heart, bc in the end thats who is with you day to day, you cant live your life for what your sister wants. Hopefully she see's you happy and thats enough for her to get over it!

He is 14 years older than me so he is 36. I know it sounds a lot but it works great for us! I used to be really close to my sister but right now I don't seem to have anything in common with her. She is older than me but just works to get drunk and go out with her friends. We are only half sisters and it's never shown as much as now!

 

[Melainey]

Jayne I am sorry about your sister My brother disowned me at one stage in my life I was devastated! (Never let your friends date your family) but he got over it when he called me (Mid disown) angrily shouting down the phone to me saying " ARE YOU ON A PORN SITE" I obviously said no! And he was sure that I was on this site that he made me log on and check (made me panic incase someone secretly filmed me hahaha) it was just another girl with pink hair! Way to know your sister haha but he showed my whole family before he told me hahaha Funnily enough my friends also thought I was on another porn site ! (again wasn't me hahahah ) Some other chick had the leopard print tattoo on her arm! All of my local pub thought that his was me!! NO wonder I was getting chatted up so much hahahahah! Hmmmm I've swayed a little I cant remember where I was hahahah!! Jayne she will come around

 

[Pauls_angel]

Jayne sorry to hear about your sis too! Sux when family makes life hard! One of DHs sisters refuses to talk to DH because he married me - I have no idea what I did wrong - have only ever been nice to her. Figure it is not worth arguing though I just keeping being myself if she chooses to hate me it is her loss!

 

[Melainey]

Jayne my Dh is almost 10 years older than me but it doesn't matter! Once you are over 18 who cares x

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Jayne, thats terrible, sorry to hear that. Its hurtful. I'm glad you stick it out and followed your heart, bc in the end thats who is with you day to day, you cant live your life for what your sister wants. Hopefully she see's you happy and thats enough for her to get over it!

He is 14 years older than me so he is 36. I know it sounds a lot but it works great for us! I used to be really close to my sister but right now I don't seem to have anything in common with her. She is older than me but just works to get drunk and go out with her friends. We are only half sisters and it's never shown as much as now!

Jayne, im sorry!! Hopefully once she comes right in her life, she'll be able to fix things with you. Sounds like she is unhappy, as I fear my sister is as well, and its probably easier for her to try and make you unhappy as well in order to make herself feel better. Age doesnt matter!!! Your happy with your DH thats all that matters. My sister is also a half, but she was there when i was born, she was 3, we were raised all our lives together, so i've never thought of her as anything but a real sister, but sometimes its harder than others to think that. can't wait til your over here full time, you'll love it!!!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

angel!!!! fx the dr is right!!!! i hope these new drugs help you feel better quickly!!!

 

[SJayne22]

Angel sorry you are still feeling I'll! I hope do much that you feel better really soon!

Thanks everyone, I figured im not going to put my life on hold until she is ok with things! I just wish her all the best and hopes she can find direction in life. I love her and will always be there if she needs me!

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Melainey- it happens so often, and some of the time the parents, friends and family do come around, it may take awhile, but its sad, bc you are the same person you were yesterday before you told them, its just amazing how much their view can change in 3 seconds. The hardest thing for me, still, is my sister, we were super close, and we lost that for about a year, it was a combination of the shock i think and she was upset i was moving across the world, we're much better now, and close and she accepts OH and is actually beginning to love her too, but the thing that just kills me and breaks my heart, is when I came out, she said I was no longer capable of raising her 2 boys, if something happened to her and her husband I was going to get custody, but now I am not, bc she claims, they need a male role model! It is just devastating, bc i know plenty of children who have male role models and they are worse off, and plenty of children who are perfect without a male model, I mean what if her husband passed, heaven forbid, and she was alone, would she not be capable!?! I mean, its her kids, her choice, but it hurts nonetheless. I hope she changes her mind when she see's us with our own children, but i hope more than anything we dont ever run into those circumstances! I love my sister no matter what she says, and i would die if something happened to her. But, its hard to foresee what peoples, esp your families reactions would be to coming out, can be so hurtful. I've been quite lucky overall.

I can not even comprehend how painful that would be! In my opinion, it makes your better equipped to raise her children - what better role model than someone who is honest with herself & people around her, someone who can teach her children to believe in whatever they want and don't ever pretend to be something different because you're scared of something.

I lose a lot of respect for people who change their opinion of someone because they're gay... I mean, I understand the initial shock of it, but at the end of the day, i don't advertise what goes on behind closed doors with my husband, why should people have the right to be offended by what goes on behind closed doors at your house.... I'm not into public displays of affection, but I am the same with gay & straight couples... I mean, I don't mind a kiss or cuddle or holding hands and that, but if someone was having a full on make out session in the seat next to me on the bus... i would feel uncomfortable, no matter what gender....

I think it's great that you are living your life with your partner the way you want regardelss of possible negative opinions out there!

Totally agree with all that has been said.
What I don't get is (and god forbid it ever happens) but what if you were in a boy/girl marriage and the husband passed away? Where would the "male role model" be then?? There is still brothers, friends, uncles... to give a male role model. ISn't it better for the child to have two parents who love them unconditionally no matter what combination the 2 parents are then boy/girl parents who fight, argue, and in some cases abuse physically/mentally..... i know of people who the male is unemployed (not that that is a problem) and the wife goes out to work (again no problem with that) but the male is home, not actively looking for work, happy to sit watching tv, drinking beer, doesn't help aroudn the house with any of the housework..... is htat a good male role model????

it is a shame that in today's world there is still people who feel like that but
WELL DONE to you for sticking to who you are! Its a great inpiration!

 

[SJayne22]

Jayne I am sorry about your sister My brother disowned me at one stage in my life I was devastated! (Never let your friends date your family) but he got over it when he called me (Mid disown) angrily shouting down the phone to me saying " ARE YOU ON A PORN SITE" I obviously said no! And he was sure that I was on this site that he made me log on and check (made me panic incase someone secretly filmed me hahaha) it was just another girl with pink hair! Way to know your sister haha but he showed my whole family before he told me hahaha Funnily enough my friends also thought I was on another porn site ! (again wasn't me hahahah ) Some other chick had the leopard print tattoo on her arm! All of my local pub thought that his was me!! NO wonder I was getting chatted up so much hahahahah! Hmmmm I've swayed a little I cant remember where I was hahahah!! Jayne she will come around

That is unbeleivable! I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I don't know how you got through that!

 

[Melainey]

Thank you Jayne She will come around when her life is in order

Angel feel better hunny

x

 

[Trying2b2mums]

kiwi- my sentiments exactly!! With all the neglect and abuse these days, I think one if not two loving parents, makes for a lucky child, and therefore more than good enough, no matter what the situation.
Jayne- good for you!!! I feel the same, she's family and if she needed me I would be there for her and always love her. Its just sometimes hard being the bigger person, but it helps that we are happy and have found love that is real.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Jayne, age is just a number. i have friends who are 14 years apart, and you can't even tell. they click. they are happy. thats all that matters. I'd say your dad is right and shes jealous. is she older than you? if so, she might just wish she was the one settled down, planning a family...

Angel. so sorry you're so sick! would be amazig if you were preggy!!! when ff moved your ov date, does it still mean you're late if you go by the second date?

kiwi - hi!

everybody, im off to bed. have a great sleep tonight! love to you all!

xxx

 

[Pauls_angel]

Am either 6 days late if I ov'd on cd17 or 2 days late if on cd21 - I hope I'm pg too but feeling very doubtful! Convinced is pg though!

Night shell!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

g'night mum2q- sleep well

good question re angels date!!

edit :still a chance then angel!!! yay FX!!!! and i agree with you about but she's not hearing it but we are wayyy overdue in here!

 

[SJayne22]

Jayne, age is just a number. i have friends who are 14 years apart, and you can't even tell. they click. they are happy. thats all that matters. I'd say your dad is right and shes jealous. is she older than you? if so, she might just wish she was the one settled down, planning a family...

Angel. so sorry you're so sick! would be amazig if you were preggy!!! when ff moved your ov date, does it still mean you're late if you go by the second date?

kiwi - hi!

everybody, im off to bed. have a great sleep tonight! love to you all!

xxx

She is 3 years older than me but I think she still wants to be 18! But she will find her way! Everybody says they can't tell our age difference, it just means he is more mature. I doubt a lot of 22 year old guys would not be daunted by getting married and planning a family this quickly. Not any of my friends but I'm sure there are guys out there!

Nigh night : ) xxx

 

[Newbie32]

So much to catch up on now!!!!! One set and I'm down like three pages!!!

Gotta snooze now but will reply bright and early as usual, with with witch I expect!!!!!

Love you all, mwaa xxx

Ill sleep with my legs crossed to try to block her access!!!! Bahahahahaha

Xxx

 

[Pammy31]

good night lovelies.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Am heading back to bed too - night night all!

Sasha may you wake to a bfp! Xx

 

[Melainey]

Goodnight to all of yougoing to bed

xx