Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Hi all! Sorry, been out with the girls. Just caught up but am heading to bed.

2mums so sorry for your news, thinking I'd you and your family!

Kiwi, VERY IMPORTANT, I think you need to change your chart back. You can't make changes to it just because it's different to what you expected, it isn't accurate at the moment. I think ff had it right putting you 3 dpo. I would change it back if I were you. Crosshairs are a good. Opk is just a prediction thing, the temp confirms ov, so ff put the crosshairs there based on the hard evidence, not false info. This is the part you do a happy dance cos you're in tww!!! Yay!

Smithy, welcome! How long have you been trying? How old are your kids?

Melainey, x

Angel, good work in interview

Loop, love the name!

Nana, rest up you dear old thing

Abby, you should put laxitives in that bitches coffee!!! Fuck her!

Hi everyone else! Much love to you all!!! Sweet dreams xxx

 

[Melainey]

Yay there is the squigley Meister hehehe Goodnight sweet cheeks! xxx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Mum2Q - laxatives in the coffee im glad im on your good side!!!

and i agree, staying in touch will be much easier with FB!!! Looking forward to it actually.

goodnight lovelies, thanks again for all the positive thoughts and prayers! xx

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Haha I'm all talk, just showing my support! Lol im very open about ttc, but I am very wary about asking others, cos I think it's rude to ask unless people offer info!

Sweet dreams girls!!!!! Xxxxxxxxx

 

[kiwipauagirl]

ok put the +opks back for sat and sun so hopefully that should get my little red lines back on my chart. AHHH it is all so confusing BUT I am in the TWW

 

[Lisasmith]

Hi all! Sorry, been out with the girls. Just caught up but am heading to bed.

2mums so sorry for your news, thinking I'd you and your family!

Kiwi, VERY IMPORTANT, I think you need to change your chart back. You can't make changes to it just because it's different to what you expected, it isn't accurate at the moment. I think ff had it right putting you 3 dpo. I would change it back if I were you. Crosshairs are a good. Opk is just a prediction thing, the temp confirms ov, so ff put the crosshairs there based on the hard evidence, not false info. This is the part you do a happy dance cos you're in tww!!! Yay!

Smithy, welcome! How long have you been trying? How old are your kids?

Melainey, x

Angel, good work in interview

Loop, love the name!

Nana, rest up you dear old thing

Abby, you should put laxitives in that bitches coffee!!! Fuck her!

Hi everyone else! Much love to you all!!! Sweet dreams xxx

First month of actively trying

 

[LLPM]

Morning! Well my temp is up but my crosshairs still haven't shown up! If I put a tem
In over 98.2 tomorrow they appear on CD20 making me now 6dpo!! Lol... Silly fallback rise!!

 

[Newbie32]

Morning girls!

My v temp is up too, but not o!!!

Weird really!!!

Xx just driving, more soon!!!

EDIT: i've said not o, but i mean that my o temp isnt really up...who knows, i may have o'd!!! Certainly a big spike on v...we shall see...

 

[Abby27]

Morning Ladies! thanks so much for the support re bitch at work. i think its best i stay away from her...im either pmsy, duffed, or just sensitive to this topic...either way its not a good mix. I had to fake care when the gender of her bub was announced to the world. At first i thought it was me being jealous and got quietly mad at myself (i can understand and forgive myself for being sad, but not bitchy thoughts)...but when two other ladies announced the gender of their bubs i was quite happy for them...a little sad for me, but happy for them.
Then i Had to hear all about the name ideas to....poor child...(that was bitchy, but fair)
Feeling a little tired and depressed this morning. no 2ww symptoms at all really...not that any of them have worked out for me in the past, but i just dont feel like its my month (despite a lot of BD and colourful charts)
Today i have an all day meeting (ouch...and snore) and then Tonight i have bootcamp (well its not really, but its a group fitness thing...i joined with some friends to do a run, i wanted to get fit for conception, but sort of hoped that if i got duffed id have a great excuse to pull out of the actual run...no such luck, and its in three weeks!!)
All in all i wish i could stay snuggled in bed today with my fur baby, some chocolate and a good book!
Newbie: i cycle to! love it....are you on a road on in a class?
LLPM: I know how you feel...hugs
Angel: hope you get that job, and your day off is fab
Melainy: hope you are feeling better
And everyone else have an awesome day! i know im very new to this site, but it feels very good to be in touch with such understanding and thoughtful women! Have a great day all!

 

[Lisasmith]

Can someone explain the crosshairs thing to me? Yup, I'm a newbie to temping!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

nana & Kiwi - sharts looking GREAT! LLPM, looking forward to seeing those crosshairs tomorrow!

Abby.....laxatives....that's all I have to say. lol If she keep carrying on, I would steal all of the loo paper before you carry out your master plan! lol

Smithy - Crosshairs show you when you Ovulate. The vertical line shows the day you ov, this is determined by a risn in temperature & also other factors such as CM, positive OPKs etc. The horizontal line is purely a visual tool to help you identify the biphasic pattern (which is two levels of temperatures, before & after ov). if temps go above/below this line when they 'shouldn't' it's no problem, it's only there for a guide. Normally your temp will rise at Ov, stay up for your LP & go down when you get your period. If you are pregnant, your temp stays up!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Morning ladies! Shell you are wicked with your laxative idea - I can just see her now running desperately to the loo clutching herself and crossing her legs - sitting on the loo relieved then looking up to see no lol paper - look of absolute shock on her face then having to call out for help - wicked I say but a tad hilarious at the same time!

looking fwd to a nice relaxing day! Hope you're all well! Xx

 

[Newbie32]

squigley - sharts???? I dont know about kiwi but i can promise you there has been NO sharting going on here!!! bahahahaha

Abby i have a road bike, at the moment a Trek Project 1 6.9 Madone....actually cant believe dh let me get it since is worth more than some cars!!!!! But I love cycling, and since I am out on it so often i get away with it! What do you ride? Do you cycle often? Im in training mode for Around the Bay in Melbourne in October, we do the 250km ride so banking lots of kms at the moment!

Im wondering what ff is going to do with my charts this month, i got a pos OPK now today as well...but that was a pretty big spike on v chart, and no spike on o chart - id say there is good chance i could get different ovulation days on each of my charts this month!!!!

DH is going away for work tomorrow which isnt ideal....esp if v temp was just a one off and really havent o'd...ah well, it will be what it will be!!!

I hope everyone has a fab day xx

 

[Newbie32]

PS, squigles i have made a note to myself to never get on your wrong side!!!!! bahahahaha at laxatives and no loo paper!!!

 

[Abby27]

Mum 2 Quigley: too funny!

 

[Abby27]

ooh fancy bike! i just have an avanti mountain bike. I used to cycle everywhere, i didnt even have a car and i loved it, i was super fit, and there was something so wonderful about getting work on your own steam. then i changed jobs and its not really safe riding there. We are thinking of doing a city to cycle next month (cant remember what its called). Im trying to get running fitness at the moment, ive never been a great runner so figure may as well give it a shot. the ultimate aim is to do a tri! (its a lofty goal)

 

[Newbie32]

Cycling is great Abby! Ive never cycled for transport but i think those that do are very committed!!! Ive always been scared id get to me destination and then get stuck in bad weather or something lol

I am not into running so much anymore, i think im getting too old and my joints dont seem to handle the impact that well anymore!!! And cant swim to save myself, so tri's are never going to be for me!!!!

 

[Abby27]

One of the women in my running group is 75! she is training for a half marathon! and she is lapping me on the track! which at first i found depressing, but now i choose to find it inspirational!

 

[Newbie32]

75??? That is incredible....

Im not sure i'll still be out on the bike at 75!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

hahahaha.....oops.... I must have been thinking ahead with the laxatives...I'm sure there would be some sharts going on in Abby's office! hahaha

Sorry ladies, lovely CHARTS!!! haha

you fitness girls are too good! Nana, I think you will still be on the bike at 75 - if you keep doing it, you will stay young! you may cut back by then, But i'm sure you'll still be active.

I'm going to get to work now, will see you all this afternoon!! xxx