Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Melainey]

Aw no But at least you get to figure your cycle out this month It's great to know your body x

EDIT: No didn't see it Maddy! WOW that is a LOT of IVF and Surrogacy!! WOW

 

[Melainey]

Oh my dear god! My DH has been the grumpiest arse today he is giving me the shits hahahaaha!!!!

 

[Pauls_angel]

Lainey I'm sorry your DH is being a poo - he'd better treat you like a princess when you confirm you're duffers or else I'll be flying over there to teach him a lesson!

Maddy bummer about night shift stuffing your temping up - I think 2 charts is a great idea what do you do for work?

Morning Rosie cheeks! Xx

 

[Melainey]

Yay your still awake Angel face Ah I spuppose he is allowed one naughty day hehe but thats it!! I will warn him you'll be on the way hehehe!!

Yeah Maddy what do you do? I think you told us before but I can't remember hehe

 

[Maddy40]

Ah Melainey poor DH (insert crocodile tears). I think the reality of maybe becoming a parent is pretty confronting for some

Angel it's 1 month today until I see DH (hopefully it will be just a few days before next cycle's O-day. I have a white collar job but do swing shifts (a mix of mornings, afternoons & overnights) cause my employer has clients from all over the world.

 

[Pauls_angel]

Yeah still up poor DH is out like a light after a nice little rumpy pumpy I'll let you in on a little secret we tried the way if the dog for the first time tonight - it only took us 7+ years but we thought we'd spice it up a little before we have his parents in the room next door for a couple of months

 

[Pauls_angel]

I think you may have told us that before Maddy - I vaguely recall it - I have a memory like a sieve though so thank you for reminding me

 

[Melainey]

Hehe That is so cute Angelface I LOVE the way of the dog But DH hates it so we never get tobloody do it that often

 

[Pauls_angel]

Hehe we had fun might make it into the rotation more regularly

Anyway lovely one I'm heading to bed - big moving days tomorrow and Sunday so should try and rest even if i can't sleep - nighty night xx

 

[Melainey]

Goodnight darlin hope everything goes great with the move I'm off to bed too (to hopefully bebuilding up some HCG levels for the morning

xxx

 

[kiwipauagirl]

ANGEL: u go girl. The spice of life! My dh likes it that way. I think he prefers to look at the back if my head rather than my face Can't be a good sign lol

mELAINEY: fingers crossed for u Hun! Mega hugs from Ireland!!! if I could speak Irish I would insert something profound in here but the only thing I know besides pog mo thon is - is feidh Lin thanks to barrack Obama but I am thinking of u! I should know Ur results by the time I finish work. Woohoo brilliant way to start my holidays!

MADDY: wow lots of treatments. Was the twins then conceived naturally or by treatment? Not sure about o/seas things. I guess if u have the money u can pretty much do whatever u like. Interesting story though

 

[Maddy40]

Kiwi - don't know about the IVF but he said the 7 surro cycles were in India. I guess he's a TV personality so they probably have some $$. But it is illegal in several states in Australia to go overseas & use a paid surrogate (we looked into it - it's illegal in our state therefore we can't do it). Interesting article: www.smh.com.au/opinion/political-news/hundreds-pay-for-overseas-surrogacy-20120602-1zp1u.html

Feeling really down this evening. Reading the FS material and for a woman aged 41-42 the success rate is less than 9% over the course of treatments. So, so sad...

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Ah MADDY: I am sorry your are feeling down. The have to give you the worse case scenario in any article. I know you don't want to hear or read it though.

But I know of two success stories. My God-parents daughter couldn't get pregnant. Well she could fall pregnant but then miscarries before the 12wk mark. Broke up her first marriage. Lost count of how many MS she had. Tried IVF and the same thing happened, fell pregnant and then miscarry. Having no savings left her and her 2nd husband decided to give up. She is 46 and has 2 beautiful boys aged 6 and 4 and both conceived naturally. She was pregnant again around Xmas but miscarried. The second story is my friend who is 41. Told me at my wedding in Dec last yr that she was pregnant. Used IVF as she lost a kidney (she was a donor to her brother), first try worked and she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl a month ago.

I hear and feel your pain. I am only 36 (and a half ) and I am struggling. We have to go to Fert clinic and I might need some sort of treatment. Not sure what they can do for me yet (will know monday). DH has had his SA done and he of course is perfect so it must be me. We have been trying for 2yrs (since Oct 2010). I seem to be ovulating (well the smiley faces tell me that i do) but I can't seem to get it to stick. It sucks, its frustrating, and I wish I was a little tart and slept around at 18yr LOL. A girl I work with is 26yr and she has been trying for over a year and is having no luck either. She is just starting with blood tests and SA test etc

But we are all here for you should you need anything at all

 

[Newbie32]

Oh maddy, I am remaining positive that you will be in that 9% and will have a bubba on its way very soon after your dh gets back!

Mine is back to being an arse again today so I think still feeling the affects of the blue moon! Go away moon rubbish!!

On the up side, I seem to be feeling a little better, so hopefully the ralphing has stopped!

If I have another day of high temps tomorrow, ff is gonna give me different o days on my two charts! Thats probably why it's not recommended to keep two diff ones! But will be interesting to see which is right in the end!!

I hope everyone has a fab weekend

Can't wait for laineybrainey to wake up and test!!

Xxx

 

[number2woohoo]

Maddy use the temp after sleep - it's really important to use a temp after you have been asleep for 3 to 4 hours otherwise it is not a BBT, it's just your temperature.

Also I think it's funny someone said I must be busy DTD last night. Yeah because we do it ALL night. LOL.

 

[Lisasmith]

I just bought a new basal thermometer. I have medical grade digital thermometers but I'll feel better knowing I have a 'special' one.. Lol - ttc makes people mental

 

[Newbie32]

Lol number2, yep that was me!!!!!



Edit: ps lovely spike!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Morning! Lainey test test test! Out today, but will check in soon!!!

Hi everyone!

 

[Lisasmith]

Lainey!! Wake upppppp

 

[Newbie32]

Oooh laineypop I can see you down there!!!!