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[Melainey]

Well ladies ....

Guess those tests yesterday were just lying to me! Took another IC this morning and nothing at all on it so obviously i'm not duffers Heartbroken is not even the word! Had AF like cramps last night.. She not due for a while so who knows what this stupid body is doing! Back to feeling very pesimistic about everything! My temp is down a small bit too this morning! I hate life!

 

[Newbie32]

Laineypop I think you need to get a frer, that line was unmistakeable yesterday and I don't have a lot of faith in the ic's, So I reckon today's is a dodgy test hun.

Don't give up xxxx we love you Laineypoppa xxx

 

[Melainey]

I just felt so pregnant And now I am let down again like everything else! I thought life was finally coming together! haha for me!

Anyway , enough about me and my stupidity! Your charts are looking great

Maddy - sorry you arefeeling down I feel your pain! I just want to give up on trying for babies cause obviously never gona happen for me!

I can't remember anything else that was said my mind is just fucked right now .. Sorry Ladies!

x

 

[Trying2b2mums]

yeah i agree with you're not out Melainey. Get a FRER when you can, still super hopeful for you!!! AF cramps are normal but in the end they are not AF cramps, so that doesnt mean anything, plus your temp barely went down! those 2 tests couldnt have lied, i think you got a dud today. Stay positive love!!!! sneak some money from DH, get one and I still think you may have a chance for a lovely fathers day surprise!!

up too early today, have to take pups to the groomer and back to the paver place, im fairly sure they gave us the wrong pavers! and am already anticipating my nap later this afternoon

 

[Lisasmith]

Hugs beautiful

 

[Melainey]

Maybe I had a very early chemical ? Who knows!

Have a good day everybody... I am trying to go back to bed (if I can haha)

bu buy

 

[Melainey]

I can't sleep

I have just been crying (literally in convulsions) and I told Daniel what was going on! Then he said to me (I know he didn't mean it in a bad way he is terrible sometimes with what he says but nonetheless) "Stop feeling sorry for yourself" I just broke down more hey! I already have the feeling of worthlessness and now apparently self pitty is not an option! But that's ok... Cause sure everything in my life is so amazing right now that I do not have anything to feel sorry about! Life is just a peach!

Anyways sorry ladies for my rant...

How i everyone today?

 

[Lisasmith]

I can't sleep

I have just been crying (literally in convulsions) and I told Daniel what was going on! Then he said to me (I know he didn't mean it in a bad way he is terrible sometimes with what he says but nonetheless) "Stop feeling sorry for yourself" I just broke down more hey! I already have the feeling of worthlessness and now apparently self pitty is not an option! But that's ok... Cause sure everything in my life is so amazing right now that I do not have anything to feel sorry about! Life is just a peach!

Anyways sorry ladies for my rant...

How i everyone today?

You poor love men have no bedside manner at all! Wallow if that's what you need to do xxx

 

[ginny83]

Melainey - don't give up yet. Like Newbie said those IC can be a bit dodgy. With my pregnancy in Feb, I kept getting faint lines on ICs and sometimes BFNs - in fact I got a BFN with an IC right before I got a BFP with a FRER. If you get a BFN on a FRER then maybe it was an evap on the IC, but I think 2 evaps in a row would be highly uncommon!!

 

[cossime]

Morning ladies, I agree with everything everyone has said melainey.dont count yourself out just yet, not atleast until AF arrives, sending cuddles your way xxx

 

[Melainey]

Thanks ladies

I think though,that I am going to get absolutely shitfaced today! (Don't really drink anymore so should be interesting )

 

[Lisasmith]

Thanks ladies

I think though,that I am going to get absolutely shitfaced today! (Don't really drink anymore so should be interesting )

Do itttt

 

[number2woohoo]

Oh poo! Sending hugs Lainey. Get a FRER anyway, I don't trust those ICs either.

 

[Melainey]

WOW GREAT temp spike Amanda Yeah I think I will get one when DH finishes work

 

[Lisasmith]

Oh poo! Sending hugs Lainey. Get a FRER anyway, I don't trust those ICs either.

Look at that freaking spike!!!

 

[Lisasmith]

Bfn this morning I know it's early but blahhhhh

Anyway, confession. Is it weird that I won't check my cm until I've had a shower and brushed my teeth? Lol

 

[ginny83]

yay for temp spike number2!

I actually miss temping a little bit. It's like a little surprise to look forward to every morning!

 

[Melainey]

No I don't think it's weird I check my CP in the shower normally

 

[Rosie_PA]

Melainey poo, I'm sorry...I am not convinced your are out...I also think you should recheck with a frer just incase!!! And you truly aren't out until the witch shows!!! Hugs to you!!! Xoxo

 

[Abby27]

Ginny: yeah i think i just needed to pee on something since DH has said no for a couple more days!
I always find it reassuring to see a second line on something!

Melainey sweet! you are SO not out. my understanding is that you Cannot have a false positive but you absolutely can have a false negative. (this is to you too Lisa S actually). We dont know, till we know. you arent out till AF arrives and then its just that month you are out (i know they all pile onto each other) but we absolutely cannot lose hope!
I think that is why we are all here...to share the stories, and the crazy but to remind each other not to lose hope! i know so many stories!
Maddy (and everyone) my Aunt...tried and tried for kids for ages, IVF...a bust....everything....went out for a dinner with her DH, bit of Indian food if i remember....BAM twins! she was easily in her mid 40s, and they are the best parents! I have so many of these stories. That will one day be our stories...so please no losing hope!