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[ginny83]

Trying2b - that so looks like a BFP to me too!! Do you have a FRER? I bet you'd get a great line on that! What does your partner think??

Angel - good luck with your open house!

Melainey - sounds like you're having a very confusing cycle! I know miscarriages can really muck up people for a while afterwards - I was fairly luck and my cycles seemed to return to normal quite quickly, but I know some other ladies that it took a bit longer for them to return to normal. Hope this one ends in a BFP in any case!

Hi everyone else I missed, hope you're all well and enjoying your Saturday night!

The movie I saw last night was Magic Mike - terrible/non existent plot line but it was a good perv anyway haha. DF didn't get home from work til latish, so I missed the cocktails beforehand since I couldn't leave til he got home. You're allowed to drink alcohol in the cinema we went to - they sell wine at the candy bar. I made up some excuse about how I didn't like drinking while watching movies (?!). Then we went to a pub afterwards and I had to keep umming and ahhing until the other girls had ordered and went and found a table so they couldn't hear me order. I ended up just getting cranberry juice and then telling them I got a vodka cranberry

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Haha very sneaky!! It's a tough one when you don't have your partner there. It will be ok for me as my family & I kind of have an on-going joke that our husbands top us up (my mum & neighbours mainly) so it's not unusual for me to carry that over to our friends...He can just sneak off and get my drink for me without anyone knowing.

I don't think it would be much of a problem for me though, I'm more into a few close friends rather than lots of good friends, so chances are I wouldn't be going out with anyone who I wouldn't tell anyway... easy for me to say though, cos I haven't had a loss, so I haven't had to go through the emotions myself, let alone having to tell other people.

by the way - what an awesome movie theatre, selling wine! haha - I don't think I'd like it tho cos I'd need to pee all through the movies! lol

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Ginny- smart move on that Cran!! very smooth, and i havent seen the movie, but even for me, hahaha, that would be a good perv movie!!

I'm having ADD watching the Olympics, 8 channels, i want to watch 4 of them, plus the 2 NRL footy games on right now, she's going crazy with me changing the channel every 3.5 minutes.

Ginny, I didnt tell her I was testing this morning, didnt think it would show anything, and if i told her now and she thought i knew before her it would kill her, so we're testing tomorrow 'together'

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

haha good girl! how exciting! I hope that it's a big dark line!! I have been known to do the sneaky testing without telling DH...mainly cos he doesn't want me to get my hopes up too much so he doesn't like me testing all the time.

I want to be the one to tell him we're expecting, so haven't even suggested or asked that we test together...in fact, I want to avoid that happening! lol

 

[Trying2b2mums]

using frer tomorrow morning, but bc you ladies made me feel so positive I tested again, i know i shouldnt have at night, with diluted urine, and again without telling my partner, (bc she'd question me and i'd have to tell her i did this morning, and again, it would kill her) but ... i had to, hahaha so..thoughts on these? Its a cheapy

 

[Newbie32]

That looks like the makings of a beautiful bfp to me!!!! Congrats xx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

haha good girl! how exciting! I hope that it's a big dark line!! I have been known to do the sneaky testing without telling DH...mainly cos he doesn't want me to get my hopes up too much so he doesn't like me testing all the time.

I want to be the one to tell him we're expecting, so haven't even suggested or asked that we test together...in fact, I want to avoid that happening! lol

I understand that, but with her being the non bio mum, the chances of her feeling very left out/not part of the process is high, i'm carrying, its obviously not her sperm, haha, so she NEEDS to be included in everything, everything is we, ours, etc.. Its so hard for her and other non bio mums so we shall test together and find our BFP (hopefully tomorrow) together, its the least I can do, i already feel guilty as i post these pics and talk about it she's like 2 meters away

 

[ginny83]

oh that is so definitely a BFP!! Congrats!!!

 

[ginny83]

How about you think of these as "maybe" BFPs then... because I bet tomorrow's lines will be even darker and more obvious, that can be your actual positive BFP!

 

[Melainey]

Thanks Ginny It's weird tho cause it's 7/8th month after m/c and this is the first cycle that it's not regular It went straight back to normal pretty much! Maybe it's that i'm a little stressed but I don't feel stressed is that possible?
That was a great move while at the cinema I love going to the movies when myself and DH are pissed only bad thing is I pee every 20 mins haha I would love that cinema!

2mums & Quigley - I never had a licence back home hehe I was always too lazy and I didn't mind taking public transport it's different over here tho I have to do a 35minute test before I can get my log books and then go onto p's for 2 years I think so it's gona take about 2 and half years till i can get it but before I can take the test I need more lessons I can't park very well in the UTE haha nor reverse that good hahahaha

2mums that looks like a xxxxxxxx

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

2mums - I totally understand that, it makes perfect sense!! I have everything crossed that you will both be seeing that line in the morning! make sure you get straight on here and tell us all!! and more pics!!!

Melainey - yeah, it takes ages...it's such a joke! and they have changed the rules even more since I did mine...its just getting ridiculous. Just keep driving when you can and you will get more confident soon enough. I guess even if you don't do much driving, the most importnant thing is to have the licence in case you need to get somewhere. I know heaps of people who don't have their licences though, and they get by.

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Ginny- i shall think of it like that, bc i'm getting more excited but could be a fluke or something, so tomorrow morning will really be the real test, and we have an appointment with the GP for something else at noon, so i will request a blood test as well!

Thanks soooo much for the support ladies, in 8 cycles i have never seen a BFP, not a evap, not a chemical, not invalid, so i'm a little shell shocked and very cautious!!!

I too love the movies that serve you dinner, and drinks/alcohol whilst in the theatre, so awesome!!
Melainey- you'll get the hang of the ute soon enough, keep practising and racking up those hours, it will be fun soon enough. Hey least its something else to concentrate on in the mean time. But i still think you should have a blood test, and i hope things even out, with either AF or more preferably a BFP!!!! fx!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

using frer tomorrow morning, but bc you ladies made me feel so positive I tested again, i know i shouldnt have at night, with diluted urine, and again without telling my partner, (bc she'd question me and i'd have to tell her i did this morning, and again, it would kill her) but ... i had to, hahaha so..thoughts on these? Its a cheapy

only just saw this one. I don't have a single doubt in my mind that you are 100% pregnant! Congratulations - I am so excited for you girls!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

using frer tomorrow morning, but bc you ladies made me feel so positive I tested again, i know i shouldnt have at night, with diluted urine, and again without telling my partner, (bc she'd question me and i'd have to tell her i did this morning, and again, it would kill her) but ... i had to, hahaha so..thoughts on these? Its a cheapy

only just saw this one. I don't have a single doubt in my mind that you are 100% pregnant! Congratulations - I am so excited for you girls!!!

oh thank you!!! I've never seen a BFP, wouldnt know it if it slapped me in the face hahaha. but ty!!! I sorta feel like a huge bitch now, but I had no idea I would show anything today, as far as I know i'm only maybe 10 dpo. thanks for the positive support, i hope you're right!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

can I ask a stupid question? Im my 'reply with quote' screen, I had a bunch of smiley icons on the side, When im just using the little box at the bottom of scren, how do I get to the faces etc??

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

don't feel like a bitch! Just keep it to yourself to save her feelings tomorrow, and get her up early to test with you. It's totally normal to test early, and I'm sure we're all guilty of doing it secretly for whatever reason!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

can I ask a stupid question? Im my 'reply with quote' screen, I had a bunch of smiley icons on the side, When im just using the little box at the bottom of scren, how do I get to the faces etc??

I dont think you can, i cant see them when using that little box, but who knows

Yeah all be ok when we test tomorrow, hopefully all will be incredibly fan-freaking-tastic!!! Just a little guilt, but I do know I did it with the best of intentions and all with her emotions/feelings in mind! Shhh, now you lot dont say anything

 

[Melainey]

can I ask a stupid question? Im my 'reply with quote' screen, I had a bunch of smiley icons on the side, When im just using the little box at the bottom of scren, how do I get to the faces etc??

Each of the icons have a word beside them if you type them with the colans/semi-colans etc they should come up I think this is what you are asking???

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

2mums - secret is safe with us!

Melainey - thanks, yeah, it was what I was asking, I more just want a place to see where all the icons are so I can learn what to write... I'll get there eventually. lol

well after a long day and being very snappy at my poor husband tonight, I'm absolutely busted & ready to crawl into bed! sleep well ladies - 2Mums - I will be crossing everything that we see some great news about you two becoming mums!!!

sweet dreams xxx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

Mum2- ty ty ty, i hope so to, i will try to tear myself away from the Oylmpics so i go to sleep so i can wake up and pee, hahaha. i've been snappy in the past few days too, ive still got my fx for you!!!