Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Aquiss18]

I just realized you ladies don't know much about me and thought I'd introduce myself!

So I'm 19 year of age and so is my fiancee, I've been pining to be a mother since 16! My sister has 3 little girls and i fell in love! Her eldest that's nearly 5 is my god daughter and every time I see her she melts my heart, constantly clinging to me, I knew from the age of 16 I definitely wanted to be a mother, My fiancee isn't quite ready to become a father but is really coming around to the idea and has even started rubbing my tummy and suggesting baby names! I became quite depressed a few weeks ago and that's when we decided we wouldn't necessarily TTC but we would just BD around when I ovulate and see where it takes us! I'm so happy that I now have some hope of becoming a mother and I hope it doesn't take too long but at the same time I want him to be 100% ready so if it takes a few months I'm fine with that. We are now actively TTCing as of last night discussion! I couldn't be happier!

 

[number2woohoo]

Well 2 mums I'm sure your doctor has a better idea than I do so good-oh!

mum 2 quigley - yep - I would never have imagined just how common m/c is till I experienced it and started talking to people about it.

I was only thinking this morning I quite look forward to being pregnant again and going for an ultrasound, and WHEN I do (the power of positive thinking!) I hope I get the same woman who was the technician when I had my m/c confirmed. She was just so very kind - it'd be so nice to go back and be there for good news this time. The technician actually cried at my appointment when she confirmed my loss. I think they felt awful because they told me my husand couldn't come with me into the scan because we had our son and a pram with us - and didn't realise we were there because I was bleeding, so I was in there alone (and crying throughout the entire appointment) while he was in the waiting area. I must have looked a sight to anyone else in the waiting area - came out from the scan and howled as my hubby hugged me. They were supposed to charge me for the scan too but the lady at the front desk just shook her head and looked distressed, said they'd bulk bill it.

These things make us stronger - I hope. We'll all get there in the end! Just think, I can test in about another 10 days, and it might just be a BFP.

 

[Trying2b2mums]

2 mums you're right, it's getting super exciting. I personally never thought misscarriage was so common before being on this site, just assumed if you were preg you were preg... Try to go back to those days, ignorance is bliss! Assume everything is ok until it's not!!

I would take advice of your doc, if you go too early, you gut get a result that looks bad, if you hang out til next week, you will have a better idea of the outcome.

Good luck stay positive!

I'm with you, since joining this site/forum, its shocking there are any babies anywhere, never was aware of how many m/c and ectopic, and chemical pregnancies there were out there. Wish i didnt know that sometimes, but better to have the knowledge than to be working blind I guess. I'm fairly positive at this point, still getting faint lines, its early, but we are a fertile family, only 1 m/c. And my nauseas this morning, huge sign, my mum and sister both had it pretty bad. so fx!! But really excited for your tests, bc it looks like a BFP for you this month!!!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

2woohoo- keep that positive thinking up, its what ive decided i must do too. I hope you can share some happy news with that technician, its harder on no one but the mum and dad, but must be terrible to deliver that news too, so would be nice to share with her a strong healthly bub this time around!!!
have my fx for you, and may these 10 days pass quickly for you!! Although these past 2 days for me I swear has seemed like a week and a half. I'm glad I have this forum and you ladies, its so fun and exciting!

 

[Aquiss18]

2 mums you're right, it's getting super exciting. I personally never thought misscarriage was so common before being on this site, just assumed if you were preg you were preg... Try to go back to those days, ignorance is bliss! Assume everything is ok until it's not!!

I would take advice of your doc, if you go too early, you gut get a result that looks bad, if you hang out til next week, you will have a better idea of the outcome.

Good luck stay positive!

I'm with you, since joining this site/forum, its shocking there are any babies anywhere, never was aware of how many m/c and ectopic, and chemical pregnancies there were out there. Wish i didnt know that sometimes, but better to have the knowledge than to be working blind I guess. I'm fairly positive at this point, still getting faint lines, its early, but we are a fertile family, only 1 m/c. And my nauseas this morning, huge sign, my mum and sister both had it pretty bad. so fx!! But really excited for your tests, bc it looks like a BFP for you this month!!!

That's my biggest fear is the dreaded morning sickness, I can't handle vomit or nausea! But it'll be worth it!

 

[Melainey]

Good morning everybody

I am feeling very depressed today Not very hopeful! I am just so sick of everything in my life going wrong I thought I was a good person but with my bad luck at everything it makes me wonder

2mums - I am so excited for you I do think you should wait until your doctor says to go for bloods I am hopeful you will get a great result

Mum2Q and LLPM I really hope this is your month Your charts look great

Sorry for anyone I forgot my head really is not with it today just want to cry

As for me I went to get my blood test but I amnot staying hopeful I reckon I am just late! I wouldn't be so lucky as to be pregnant

to everyone xx

 

[number2woohoo]

Good morning everybody

I am feeling very depressed today Not very hopeful! I am just so sick of everything in my life going wrong I thought I was a good person but with my bad luck at everything it makes me wonder

2mums - I am so excited for you I do think you should wait until your doctor says to go for bloods I am hopeful you will get a great result

Mum2Q and LLPM I really hope this is your month Your charts look great

Sorry for anyone I forgot my head really is not with it today just want to cry

As for me I went to get my blood test but I amnot staying hopeful I reckon I am just late! I wouldn't be so lucky as to be pregnant

to everyone xx

(hugs) to you lovey - we all have crappy days.
When do you get your blood test results back? Fingers cropssed xo

 

[LLPM]

Oh melainey, cheer up chick! That's how I felt yesterday, just so frustrated with life but today's a new day and I feel heaps better! Fx'd it's the same for you. When will you get the blood results back?

 

[Trying2b2mums]

2 mums you're right, it's getting super exciting. I personally never thought misscarriage was so common before being on this site, just assumed if you were preg you were preg... Try to go back to those days, ignorance is bliss! Assume everything is ok until it's not!!

I would take advice of your doc, if you go too early, you gut get a result that looks bad, if you hang out til next week, you will have a better idea of the outcome.

Good luck stay positive!

I'm with you, since joining this site/forum, its shocking there are any babies anywhere, never was aware of how many m/c and ectopic, and chemical pregnancies there were out there. Wish i didnt know that sometimes, but better to have the knowledge than to be working blind I guess. I'm fairly positive at this point, still getting faint lines, its early, but we are a fertile family, only 1 m/c. And my nauseas this morning, huge sign, my mum and sister both had it pretty bad. so fx!! But really excited for your tests, bc it looks like a BFP for you this month!!!

That's my biggest fear is the dreaded morning sickness, I can't handle vomit or nausea! But it'll be worth it!

Aquiss- comes with pregnancy, infancy, childhood and through out your childs life...get used it chick!!

 

[Melainey]

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[Trying2b2mums]

G'morning Melainey We do all have off days, cheer up charlie!!! Your hormones could be causing your emotions to take total control of your body!! Stay positive love, send good things out and good things shall happen!! FX for you!!!!

 

[number2woohoo]

We got bad news at the doctors yesterday! I always thought I was so careful but obviously in my wild teen years I wasnt careful enough... Huby would kill me if he knew I was posting this but we found out that we have herpes! I feel so dirty! I have never in my life had an sti or so i thought I haven't stopped crying since we found out and I feel so bad for DH cause it was more than likely me that gave it to him! I don't know what to do ladies I just want to give up on everything

Lady said that results would be back today but not even sure if I want them ornot to behonest

Oh honey sorry to hear that - but chin up - it isn't the worst thing to have, is it. Think the grim reaper ads from my youth (although you might have missed those AIDS ads from the 80's, I forget I am older than most ppl TTC... I still FEEL young). I have a girlfriend who has herpes and she has 2 gorgeous kids, both delivered naturally. It can be done - only becomes an issue if you have an outbreak at the time of delivery. Sending you big hugs. xo

 

[number2woohoo]

2 mums you're right, it's getting super exciting. I personally never thought misscarriage was so common before being on this site, just assumed if you were preg you were preg... Try to go back to those days, ignorance is bliss! Assume everything is ok until it's not!!

I would take advice of your doc, if you go too early, you gut get a result that looks bad, if you hang out til next week, you will have a better idea of the outcome.

Good luck stay positive!

I'm with you, since joining this site/forum, its shocking there are any babies anywhere, never was aware of how many m/c and ectopic, and chemical pregnancies there were out there. Wish i didnt know that sometimes, but better to have the knowledge than to be working blind I guess. I'm fairly positive at this point, still getting faint lines, its early, but we are a fertile family, only 1 m/c. And my nauseas this morning, huge sign, my mum and sister both had it pretty bad. so fx!! But really excited for your tests, bc it looks like a BFP for you this month!!!

That's my biggest fear is the dreaded morning sickness, I can't handle vomit or nausea! But it'll be worth it!

Just wait till you have a child and you're cleaning up poo and vomit from all over them and yourself. Mwahahaha. (I am surprised to say, you really don't care when it's your own child's - you just want them to be better!)

 

[Melainey]

I know it could be worse but I just can't help but feel so horrible The thing is Icould have been carrying it for a long time and didn't even know! I don't recall having a breakout! I read up on it all last night and how it affects child birth etc.... Nothing I can do about it now Isuppose! DH is being so kind to me.. I am the one who is not being very kind to myself ! I just never thought it would happen to me!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

We got bad news at the doctors yesterday! I always thought I was so careful but obviously in my wild teen years I wasnt careful enough... Huby would kill me if he knew I was posting this but we found out that we have herpes! I feel so dirty! I have never in my life had an sti or so i thought I haven't stopped crying since we found out and I feel so bad for DH cause it was more than likely me that gave it to him! I don't know what to do ladies I just want to give up on everything

Lady said that results would be back today but not even sure if I want them ornot to behonest

Melainey,, dont be so hard on yourself darl. One of my best girlfriends had a similar scenario. Her and her DH had always been careful in their previous partnerships, and had always tested clear, then one day out of the blue they both came back positive with herpes, no one had cheated or anything, dont blame yourself, dont blame DH, it does happen. It doesnt make you a bad person, a bad wife, or incapable of having a successful relationship, pregnancy and baby!!! Cant change what we did previously, in our wild teens years, no regrets, just move forward in your love in this current relationship. You can never know 'who gave it to whom' or where it even originated, my friend and her dh never figured it out, mysterious! Herpes comes in many forms, its not the end of the world hun, im sure all will be ok, could be much much much worse!!

 

[Melainey]

Thank you ladies you make me feel so much better


I really am so happy I came across this thread with all you lovely ladies xxx

 

[number2woohoo]

well said, 2mums. xo

Have a cry and a vent by all means Melainey - I can understand you being upset - but in the big scheme of things, everything is going to be ok. Really! xo

 

[Newbie32]

Oh melainey, chin up honey! Our turn to help cheer you up as you have done for so many of us on this thread!!!

There are far worse things and herpes is very very common, and I beleive now pretty easily treatable as well x

Focus on this blood test and hoping for a super positive result for you hun xx

 

[Melainey]

I think I am in love with all you ladies

Thank you for the kind words and not thinking any different of me as I really do not think I ama bad person. In fact I always thought I was a good person until this happened I will get over iti'm sure.. I've not actually had an outbreak that I know of DH had one though!

I really hope that it is positive but I really don't think it is ! Either way I would like AF to come so we can start again

xx

 

[Aquiss18]

Just got a phone call about a job I applied for 2 weeks ago, at Good start early learning as a casual, I go sign my contract tomorrow! The only other thing that would make my week complete would be my BFP! ;D