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Yes it was a rise, but I'm not as confident as the temp might indicate...I think my thermometer is broken, I first took it and it said 36.26, I took it again straight away, without moving and it was up to 36.47! What's that all about. Any way it fits with the positive opk and the cm, so I think I've ov'd now...we did havea little bonanza, got the 3 days before ov and day of ov, so that's good.
Back to waiting it out. I much prefer the tww than waiting to ov...less to do!
My progesterone cream arrived...should I use it? It's the Sandra Cabot one, I bought it after reading her book, she says there is no harm in using it...I know Rosie used a cream.

Are you having a good bday Missie ??
I'm having a good day, swim was good, cleaned the bedroom, vacuumed the walls!! Did so much laundry! Taking advantage of this hot day. I'm never that productive! Feels good to have my house spring cleaned!

Very excited that. 2mums are now 2 mums!!!
 
I'm sorry W4d. It's totally understandably to be upset.

Abs how ru hun? TWW is a biatch, yes?
 
W4d sorry to hear love, I always give myself a present when af arrives! And remember all the positives, pour yourself a big glass of wine and onto the next cycle!


Maddy my temps have me quite stressed...doesn't seem like I've ov'd at all! Really low. Dh wants me to stop temping and just assume I ov'd. I got positive opk, Ewcm now creamy cm, so my body is behaving as if I have ovulated but no significant temp shift. It's totally doing my head in, so not sure if we should keep bding or not. I'm thinking not seeing as my cm isn't fertile. So I guess this month is a bust...why would I not ovulate I wonder?
There goes any dream of having a baby this year...oh well

When do u start Ivf?
 
W4D - sorry AF turned up xx

Abs - I think you've O, look at my temps for this cycle. I actually think I O'd on CD11/12 and my temps didn't give a decent rise until 3-4 days after that!
 
Thanks Gin, your chart is hidden? I hope I have. Temp is really very low...but I've done such a good job at tending to my mental health this week that I think I'm going to not temp, assume it didn't work and wait for af!

How is the ms going?
 
oh I'm not sure why it's hidden? This is the link: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2a650f

The MS is still crap - I feel sick all day long to some degree. Feel like I'm struggling with everything at the moment - the house is a mess, DF has been doing all the cooking, falling behind with uni work. The scan was a bit of a boost though - I keep trying to focus on that.

I think it's a good idea to try and stop temping since you're pretty confident you've Od. Didn't you say you'd stop temping once you got a BFP anyway?You're just a couple of steps ahead!
 
I wish I had stopped temping once I got my bfp, every day it was little stressful thing to check, and in the end my temp didn't go down the day I started bleeding any way, so it wasn't really helpful...same with taking hpt. So I decided I wouldn't do it again next time around. I think I've either ov'd or having a weird cycle.

I'm sorry you are feeling so sick! Glad DF is doing the cooking!!
When do you go os?
 
We were suppose to be going as a family to the UK in July.

But now we're thinking that maybe DF will go on his own. I'd be 23 weeks at the time of the wedding, so probably 21-24ish weeks for our whole trip there, and I 'm just nervous about the thought of it. Of course though now I'm also nervous that the same thing will happen, and not only will I not have a baby but not be able to go along for the trip. So our back up plan if that happens is that we'll have our own holiday for my 30th in September.

It's a bit of a touchy subject!
 
oh the other thing is since we've left booking flight so late and we fairly specific times we have to be there - it's stupidly expensive for the 3 of us to go!
 
Sorry to bring up a touchy subject Gin!

I'm a little mad at dh today. On my last week off I've done heaps of work cleaning the house etc...true I wanted to do it. I asked today if we could hire on of those diy carpet cleaning machines...will finish it off nicely. But he doesn't want to on his last day before going b ack to work. It would only take a couple of hours! Cross!
 
I'm sad to say, but my husband has decided he no longer wants to TTC. We TTC last Oct, Nov, and March of this year; nothing. I am nearly 4 years his senior, so my baby desires are much stronger than his. He is the father of my four year old daughter, I want to increase our family so much. It hurts incredibly to be shut down, but what joy would it be if his heart was not in the new baby?
So, for now, I am waiting to try. Perhaps in several months, my DH will let us try once more. I;m trying not to die of a broken heart...
 
I'm sorry w4d, stay focussed on your little girl!
 
Hey Abby, Sorry for the chart stalking ;) but did af fly in? Or did you test again? Been thinking of you xx
 
Love some chart stalking. She has flown in today...what a weird cycle!!!! I'm miserable that she has flown in but in some ways glad, I wanted to start afresh ...think I will buy a new thermometer ....sad be ause no 2013 baby, it was some sort of pressure I put on myself, like before last Christmas after I miscarried I thought that next Christmas I'd have a baby and it cheered me up, but I won't! :(
But may be that's a good thing.
I don't know, feeling depressed today. I guess that's normal.
 
So sorry lovely. I reckon very normal - at the point of being at your emotional lowest hormones are thrown in to boot. My chart is laughable this month - I kind of expected it being the 1 of the miscarriage bit this one is worse than the one after the 14 week loss. Saying that I haven't been great on the temping front. My temp has taken a dive this am so hoping af is soon - just want to get onto my next cycle and see that specialist! Are you going to do something nice for yourself today? ( you deserve it xx)
 
Not really, may be chocolate!
My bday is coming up, 36 :( I'm suddenly utterly miserable about my age too.
At least I will be able to drink on my bday.
My wedding anniversary also coming up.
Why am I so focussed on dates...it's bound to make things worse.

I can't see your chart!? May be its just the shit month we had to have to get the pregnancy we both deserve!? So next cycle we could be bump buddies!
 
I would love for nothing more than your twoo beautiful ladies to be bump buddies Missie and Abby!!! (Feels weired calling you guys that now lol!)

Been sooooo long since I was on here-severley bored at work today!!
 
It's like having a secret identity isn't it!

I bought myself a new thermometer at lunch...may be it will bring me some good luck
What shits me is how completely whacky and unpredictable my cycles are, it just adds a new layer of frustrations on an already difficult situation.
I'm sorry for being so woeful today
 
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