Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Maddy40]

Oh wanted to add - not sure if Woolworths has the same sales everywhere, but when I did this shopping the arvo my local one had their Blackmores vitamins at 50% off - all the pregnancy-related ones were $16 or $17 instead of over $30. I picked me up a bottle of pregnancy ones just in case. Of course they will sit on the shelf and mock me now, but I needed to do something to try and get out of the "OMG it's never going to happen" doldrums!

 

[Melainey]

Hi ladies

So got DH's sperm results back and he is PERFECT the little fuck haha so it really is down to me here Spoke to doctor about what happened and he said that the urine tests are not very accurate because there can be contamination so yeah ... But Ijust know now that I am not duffers I just have that feeling soam not going to waste anymore money on frers or tests etc am just going to wait for AF to arrive now! (I have been having AF pains all morning but it is way too early for AF ) So when AF arrived I will take the soy! Think I will take it on days 3-7!

Also he said to only have sex 2/3 times a week .. no more hahaha..

Oh and another thing he said was that charting was not accurate to prove ovulation actually took place... have to go to fertility specialist now

Anyways still feel like poop but thought I would pop in to see how all you lovely ladies are doing

x

 

[Newbie32]

Oh laineypop I'm not sure I like your doctor.

Number 1, charting doesn't prove you o? So your temps just jump up and stay up for no other reason? Erm...

Number 2, nothing but hcg will make that line go pink so contamination??? Wtf??

Understand the wait for af Hun, but I don't think she will come xxx

Much love being sent your way!! Xx

 

[Abby27]

Good news about the spermies though!

i have period pre pimple and AF cramps! BOO.

 

[Newbie32]

Oh no Abby, stupid biatch witch, hopefully it's just hormones and not really her!!

Xx

 

[Melainey]

Yeah I know but I have decided that I am never getting my hopes up again because this one really cut me deep I have never seen a second line on the ICs until yesterday and was sure that it was it and then I was left heartbroken, so from now on I am going to think the worst with everything that is going on so if for some weird little chance (which I am not hopeful at all ) I am pregnant , it will be good news but if i'm not I don''t have too far to fall if that makes sense?

Abby - I hope that stays away

 

[Abby27]

Let me vent a little

its one of lifes real cruelties....here have some AF cramps AND a huge *expletive* Zit! Oh and why not mess with your hormones so you cry and random nothing!

Doesnt that just seem mean? then I have to go and spend time with my mother tomorrow (which is bad enough) and now with a zit! she will point it out to me...as if i havent seen it on my face....growing a second head....and when i get mad that she mentioned the zit....she will say "is it that time of the month?" and i will say "Of course it is....i have a Zit"

any way DH sensing that i was sad said to read this...and although i dont like the title of the website it did make me laugh, so to all with fur children enjoy!
https://shameyourpet.com/

 

[Newbie32]

Totally understand laineypop, I talk myself completely out of being differs no matter what every month, self protection 101. So I totally get it.

However, we here on this thread will hold on to the hope for you gorgeous girl!!!

XXXX

 

[Trying2b2mums]

melainey- it is good news about the sperm though, bc much easier to deal with our problems as women then fix sperm, that is most of the time unfixable! and i sorta agree with your dr is being very pessimistic. Of course we all know charting isn't the end all be all of predicting ov, but it sure is helpful and a great ttc tool, keep using it. and you are not out until comes, i could have sworn af was coming too, bc cramping is so prevalent in implantation and early days of preg. I remain hopeful for you, but i completely understand protecting yourself against more heartache! Limiting sucks though, but also will save up his spermies and could be quite helpful!!
abby- sucks! I understand about the pimple, cept with me, its my OH that enjoys pointing them out, as she has perfect skin and never gets so much as a white head or anything, sucks so much, like hello yes i'm fully aware i have a mountain on my face, please fuck off about it! Love that website though, made me laugh and as fur babies can identify with more than those than id like to admit! poor animals though!

 

[Abby27]

Thanks 2mums! i have this thing, always have, where my skin will be fine, pretty much all the time, but i save it all up to have one MF of a pms pimple.
You mentioned about cramps...did you think that AF was coming before your BFP? i ask as i still have about 5% hope for myself this cycle....no brown goo yet, and that normally comes before pimple. my temp is still high....ive been laying down for the past few hours and i just took my temp....random, to just see what it is...36.90! its only 5% hope, but its there.

Glad you liked the link! I would never shame my fur baby in such a way, but he has gotten up to some mischief over the years.
Here is a cute DH/ fur baby story. Today we went groccery shopping and we get to the dog food....my dog has a bit of kibble and a bit of wet food, so i start picking up some wet food and DH comes over and exclaims "he doesnt like those ones, he only likes the rissotto and stir fry style". Now i love my dog, but he will gobble down ANYTHING....DH is convinced he knows what his favourites are though....cute!

Also Melainey, i agree with the others about your doc. Seems a little tunnel vision really. Some doctors only believe what they see in a lab report!

 

[Trying2b2mums]

abby- i always break out around period too, jaw line area, the lady that does my facials says its fairly normal there, a hormonal zone, as for the others that pop up randomly, well they are obviously confused and lost I had cramps, and at first i completely thought we were out again, but they did go from dull af like cramps to more quick twinges, i had to physically put my hands on where i was feeling them bc they seemed like af cramps but then become apparent they were in a slightly different position form where i normally got witchy cramps. but its a real bitch bc af and preggo symptoms are so freaking similar!! FX your in this month!! Your DH sounds super cute, love the story and even love even more the kind he thinks the fav is risotto and stir fry!! , super cute!!!

 

[Newbie32]

Night girls, dh being complete mofo.

Gonna get some zzzzx instead if listening to his bitch assed whining tonight!

Hope everyone having good weekend xx

 

[number2woohoo]

Lainey your doc sounds like a nong.
Night lovelies x

 

[Rosie_PA]

Cossi- I've already started tested, all neggy!!! Bahahahaha I love ICs, I don't feel guilty!!! What do you do for work??

Abby- my mum likes pointing out my zits too, which results in me snapping at her, and her saying something along the lines of how bitchy I get on my period....one day I'm going to say that u are the only one I am bitchy at because you drive me effing nuts!!!! Sorry about the rant, meant to say "your not alone"

Melainey- I do the same thing as far as thinking the worst, I have my appt with my Gyn ( who also works with fertility issues) on the 4th. I am keeping my Fx'd for you!!! Ps- glad spermies are good, one less obstacle in the process of TTC!!! Xoxo

Hi :wave: number2, angel, kiwi, Pammy, Ginny, and anyone I may have forgot...it's early here....still drinking my coffee....


2mums- how are you and the little bun (in the oven) doing??? Haven't talked to you in a while!!!

Nana- things you say about DH on here sound like they could be coming out of my mouth!!! Bahahahahah we may be married to twins!!!!! only bad part is has a cane and I don't!!!!

AFM I am only on day 7 or 8 past ovulation and AF is expected in 3 or 2 days, ( I have a super short luteal phase, one of the reasons I'm seeing my doc next week) already having cramps, hate this so much! My delema is that I have 2 great parties this weekend (labor day holiday) and even though I truly feel that I'm out, I won't let myself drink.....but I will be so mad that I didn't once the witch arrives!!!!!! Grrrrrrrr!!!!! Would you ladies think I am an awful person if I have a sangria?!?! Bahahahaha i think I make myself feel less guilty by testing because I think if it's not showing a positive yet, even if I were duffers it isn't "sticking enough" for the alcohol to affect it!! Have I lost my mind????

 

[Maddy40]

I think only Rosie is still up My personal opinion is that lots of women that aren't TTC have a drink or two before find out they are UTD and it doesn't seem to affect anything. I don't think FAE/FAS are caused this early in the process, are they? You have to stay sane woman! (says me, sitting in the office at 2am with my green tea, looking like this -> )

PMS breakouts, bleugh. I never have them but this month had 5 enormous zits. So of course i had to pick at them and make them all scabby. Then i tried to cover them over with makeup so then the scabs were just all caked with foundation...ewwww I'm so NOT cool.

Funny furbaby story of the day...I could hear a weird noise coming from some packing boxes this arvo. The cat had tried to get into a sealed box, she had picked a hole in the tape but not quite big enough, so she managed to get halfway in before getting stuck. So all I could see was a cat bum, tail and 2 legs stuck up in the air out of the top of the box, wiggling around. Looked like a breech birth in reverse! Funniest thing I've seen in a long time.

Still feeling Sigh. This is a crap process really.

 

[Rosie_PA]

Hi maddy! Thanks, not sure I will have any sanity left after this process!!! Lol. Story about the kitty is so cute, they just love boxes, don't they? I always pick at my breakouts too, so I have definitely been there with the concealer!!! Haha. Sorry you are feeling sad!

 

[Melainey]

Rosie I hope that you please have some alcohol for me I have had a BIG alcohol drinking session tonight and I coun;tn't give a fook! So sick of my Angels not giving me what I want hehe ! So you get drunk and have a great time lovely xxx

Hello Maddy xx

 

[Melainey]

P.s MJ is amazing in my ears Only thing that makes me soooo happy

 

[Maddy40]

P.s MJ is amazing in my ears Only thing that makes me soooo happy

I refer to MJ as "my second husband" and it drives DH mad. My mother still has all the posters and scrapbooks from my teens and keeps threatening to send them to me to clear out space in her house!

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Ha that's too funny. I put my hand up and admit I had kylie posters in my wall. Had all the tapes the record singles even not to mention the tshirts and if course the scrap books. My parents still have them in a box and I think my mum is still too scared to throw them out lol I tell my dh that I would leave him if kylie was to ask me haha