ergh. This is a pointess post. I just really need to vent Im now on my 3rd cycle after mmc. I was soSO convinced I was pregnant ...then wham bab thank you mam..my period arrived 6 days ago..
so here we go again. ..A week to dose up on extra vitamins..force myself to start jogging....listen to my stupid 'hypnothearapy for fertility' dvd each night ('breeeeeath in the waaarm glooowing light ..feel it in your overies' oh bugger off patronising old smarm bag..what does she know..shes got loads of kids..), force feed zinc tablets to my OH and encourage the poor man to not wear tight boxers,no hot baths (and generally drive him insane), spend a fortune on opk's, then go online and google every 'ovulation calender' I can find. ... spend a few days in blind panic that all my eggs are chromosomally damaged...and Im destined to end up single, lonely and really fat living alone with only my jack russell for company.....meanwhile OH will meet some sane attractive sensible fertile woman...and I'll see them in tescos with all their gorgeous babies..meanwhile I'll seek comfort in the cake section......
a few days later..ohhh smiley face smaily face on my clearblue.....Im not totally barren after all....bang bang..legs in the air 5 days in a row. ...
I darent start ranting about the 2 week wait.........
its not ment to be THIS HARD. and its not fair I just want a baby. I hate that so many of us have to endure the craziness of it all. The months seem to go so fast. If I get lucky this month- then by the time I have a 12 week scan it will almost be christmas...then the anniversary of the first baby we lost. months after months of trying..not getting pregnant...getting pregnant....misscarrying, grieving, its a horrible way to have to live.
everyone whos trying this month, goodluck. and sorry for going on. just in a bubble of negativity today. xoxox
Ive BHE....bloody had enough!
so here we go again. ..A week to dose up on extra vitamins..force myself to start jogging....listen to my stupid 'hypnothearapy for fertility' dvd each night ('breeeeeath in the waaarm glooowing light ..feel it in your overies' oh bugger off patronising old smarm bag..what does she know..shes got loads of kids..), force feed zinc tablets to my OH and encourage the poor man to not wear tight boxers,no hot baths (and generally drive him insane), spend a fortune on opk's, then go online and google every 'ovulation calender' I can find. ... spend a few days in blind panic that all my eggs are chromosomally damaged...and Im destined to end up single, lonely and really fat living alone with only my jack russell for company.....meanwhile OH will meet some sane attractive sensible fertile woman...and I'll see them in tescos with all their gorgeous babies..meanwhile I'll seek comfort in the cake section......
a few days later..ohhh smiley face smaily face on my clearblue.....Im not totally barren after all....bang bang..legs in the air 5 days in a row. ...
I darent start ranting about the 2 week wait.........
its not ment to be THIS HARD. and its not fair I just want a baby. I hate that so many of us have to endure the craziness of it all. The months seem to go so fast. If I get lucky this month- then by the time I have a 12 week scan it will almost be christmas...then the anniversary of the first baby we lost. months after months of trying..not getting pregnant...getting pregnant....misscarrying, grieving, its a horrible way to have to live.
everyone whos trying this month, goodluck. and sorry for going on. just in a bubble of negativity today. xoxox
Ive BHE....bloody had enough!