My mom just informed me that our family friend wants to throw a baby shower for me..which is SO nice and lovely! But I have bought so much stuff for our LO already, that I am really scared I will get doubles or too much clothing! So my questions are.. Is it rude or wrong of me to make a list of items we really need? (which my mom actually already asked me to do..) And if that's not overly rude...would it be rude to say what exactly items/brands we would like? I am very eco-friendly and we would prefer more natural stuff..or stuff I have reviewed and really like. But is that rude to say for example "Fisher Price Rainforest Jumperoo"? Or would it be better to suggest a few different brands/models/items we would really like and just hope for the best? Or am I just being an overly picky cow and I should be happy with whatever I get?! Thanks ladies!