Sinclair
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It's a little late for us to actually plan a baby shower, however not completely a small one either.
However, we, lovey's family and I, got into the discussion about a baby shower, or having a sip and see for our son. This is our second pregnancy, our second baby, however, we lost our daughter at 18 weeks. ( We still count it as our son as our second, our little girl will always be our first. =3 Anyway... )
We had a lot of drama with planning our wedding when it came to his side of his family, my side ( gotta say thankfully ) don't care. People wanting to know why they weren't invited, demanding they "should" be invited, etc. A good example was lovey's godmother, in the entire time we dated, I never met this woman, seen her, talked to her, or anything, but she felt she was entitled to be at our wedding. We just dealt with a lot of drama when it came to planning the wedding, it was a major pain in the ass..
So, fast forward, we're pregnant with our son. We thought about having a baby shower for him, since he's our first, and a good possibly to be our last as well, however, we don't want to go through the annoyance we did before. So, we thought about another idea so our son would be the center of attention instead of me. A sip and see. ( Gender reveal is already, well, revealed, as soon as we found out. ) Beyond that, we're up in the air about ideas.
It'll be more straight forward instead of anything else, this way lovey, our son, and I are settled down in some ways at home.
Would there be another idea we could possibly do? I really don't feel like seeing people as -soon- as I get out of the hospital.
Edit: It would be myself, and my mother in law planning it I'm sure. My mother doesn't exactly care, nor makes an effort to do anything unless it's for her. So we know she's not planning a baby shower, or anything at all. ( Her fourth, or third as others would say, grandchild, lovey's parent's second, or "first". My father lives in a completely different state, but I don't want him in my life either. Haven't contacted him for a long time. Rest of my family doesn't do that either. )
However, we, lovey's family and I, got into the discussion about a baby shower, or having a sip and see for our son. This is our second pregnancy, our second baby, however, we lost our daughter at 18 weeks. ( We still count it as our son as our second, our little girl will always be our first. =3 Anyway... )
We had a lot of drama with planning our wedding when it came to his side of his family, my side ( gotta say thankfully ) don't care. People wanting to know why they weren't invited, demanding they "should" be invited, etc. A good example was lovey's godmother, in the entire time we dated, I never met this woman, seen her, talked to her, or anything, but she felt she was entitled to be at our wedding. We just dealt with a lot of drama when it came to planning the wedding, it was a major pain in the ass..
So, fast forward, we're pregnant with our son. We thought about having a baby shower for him, since he's our first, and a good possibly to be our last as well, however, we don't want to go through the annoyance we did before. So, we thought about another idea so our son would be the center of attention instead of me. A sip and see. ( Gender reveal is already, well, revealed, as soon as we found out. ) Beyond that, we're up in the air about ideas.
It'll be more straight forward instead of anything else, this way lovey, our son, and I are settled down in some ways at home.
Would there be another idea we could possibly do? I really don't feel like seeing people as -soon- as I get out of the hospital.
Edit: It would be myself, and my mother in law planning it I'm sure. My mother doesn't exactly care, nor makes an effort to do anything unless it's for her. So we know she's not planning a baby shower, or anything at all. ( Her fourth, or third as others would say, grandchild, lovey's parent's second, or "first". My father lives in a completely different state, but I don't want him in my life either. Haven't contacted him for a long time. Rest of my family doesn't do that either. )