Back from FS Appt.........

[ald]

.....and bad news!

The FS said I only have one very small follical and therefore have to go back on monday to see if it has grown much.

She then looked at my dh sperm results (which we took with us) and said as his motility was so low our only hope really is IVF. She said I can continue with Clomid for a couple of months while I lose some weight for IVF and at least that way I will know when I Ovulate (as I have HCG injection) but our chances of getting pregnant are next to nothing.

I am soooo upset, just can't stop crying and feel lie we will never have a baby. I also feel so very sorry for dh seeing me like this.

It's just soooo unfair

 

[fairy1984]

i'm so sorry to hear this hun

 

[Welly]

I am so sorry hun, life can be so unfair

Let's hope the ivf route is the one for you, keeping everything crossed for you x

 

[jonnanne3]

I am so sorry.

 

[Mrs T]

I feel for you, I went through similar experance last month so I know exactly how your feeling. We were told my dh sperm count was too low and not motile and 99% dead. WE both cryed our hearts out for the baby we thought we coulnt have. Since then we've been to seen a fertility specilist and things are looking up for us.... there is hope. My dh has has a PESA/TESA procedure done, the dr took sperm straight fromm the testicals. They were health and swiming well, finally we had some good news. His sample has been frozen waitng for me to start IVF and ICSI next month.
So now we live in hope and keep our fingers crossed.
Dont give up its amazing what they can do these days
x

 

[pixielou]

Hi ald,

sorry to hear this news but hope that either the hope will do wonders or if not then IVF will do the trick. Good luck.
X

 

[Nathyrra]

So sorry to hear about this.. It's heartbreaking

Your story and mine sound quite simular, we are also both living in Germany. My first u/s with Clomid was also a disaster.

Germany has a very low birth rate, so the facilities for people that have fertility problems are top knotch and the waiting lists are so short for IUI and IVF. This at least is one thing I am thankful for. Do you have an English speaking specialist? How you finding life in Germany with PCOS?

I'm here if you need someone to talk to