second.time
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My son's pre-K has been planning an egg hunt for a while now. We donated plastic eggs and candy and the parents are invited to attend on the weekend. Last night, my son's teacher sent out an email to all the parents of his class (there are four different classrooms participating). She said they decided that on the last two days before the hunt, kids will have to earn six stickers out of ten (with five opportunities each day) or else they won't be allowed to take part in the egg hunt.
I'm irritated about this and I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not. The egg hunt has been in the works for a while and it was never tied to something like this, it was presented as more of a family activity (and this school doesn't have a lot of those, so I'm always happy when they do). I feel like telling parents and kids the day before it starts is tough too -- usually we need a bit of time to talk to our 5-year-old and build things up, chat with him about good behavior. All the kids are a little off this week because they just came back from a long break + the holiday's coming up.
Anyway, I'm probably being THAT parent. I understand the difficulty of maintaining discipline and I know it's not easy to find effective methods with little kids. But I think having it come up at the last-minute has thrown me for a loop ... how would you feel?
I'm irritated about this and I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not. The egg hunt has been in the works for a while and it was never tied to something like this, it was presented as more of a family activity (and this school doesn't have a lot of those, so I'm always happy when they do). I feel like telling parents and kids the day before it starts is tough too -- usually we need a bit of time to talk to our 5-year-old and build things up, chat with him about good behavior. All the kids are a little off this week because they just came back from a long break + the holiday's coming up.
Anyway, I'm probably being THAT parent. I understand the difficulty of maintaining discipline and I know it's not easy to find effective methods with little kids. But I think having it come up at the last-minute has thrown me for a loop ... how would you feel?