BD'ing my butt off--whose in it for November??

[MommyNikki]

I'm so sorry mtln, this isn't fair for you

 

[nicky160880]

Oh Tara I just want to hug you. This isn't fair or right, my eyes are filling up just writing this

xx

 

[bazzb]

sorry mtln XxXx

 

[mtln777]

Oh I have to keep it together cuz, my 4yr old is home, last night when I was crying my hubby was taking care of the kids we told them the dr said cuz, of my fall the other day I had to rest my head and couldn't yell. He was really supportive last night but like I said no one gets this like u girls.....My sister who just had her 4th baby keeps telling me it will be okay I finally screamed at her FUCK you 1st of all u have NEVER been through a loss of any kind 2ndly u look at ur husband and r pregnant. I did apologize this am cuz she doesn't understand what I'm going thru and she just wanted to be supportve....Waiting on dr STILL will let u know as soon as I hear anything.....Thanks for all your hugs I caught them xoxox Tara

 

[mtln777]

Well I called the dr's office and the results are not back yet. I made an apt and am seeing him thursday am at 8am. So I will get to the bottom of this. I asked the nurse if I should find another OB cuz mine isn't doing it she says,"well Tara u are NOT pregnant" so u don't need an OB.......I sadi u have me soooooo confused I would like to see the dr. So I made the apt and we will see what happens. Man what I would give for a baby to be healthy and growing happy and peacefully inside me. I have to keep my head up it's just soooo hard to do it when this keeps happening!!!!!!

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

I'm so sorry mtln! My heart is breaking for you! I definitly think it would be a good idea to see a specialist to try to find out what's going on! Your doctors nurse sounds like a real witch. I think I would change OBs the next time you get pg. I changed mine after my last MC,I got recommendations from a few friends and I met with her before I got pg. I like her a lot better than my previous OB.

Hang in there girl! At least you know you can get pg, you just need to figure out why they won't stick.

 

[mackjess]

Firstly, I'm so so sorry. I'm glad your doc checked your progesterone. If it was low, thats an answer and you'd know to start taking supplements to help keep your baby. The good news is that you get pregnant remarkably easy. That's the biggest part of the battle for many women. Hugs and more hugs to you, and hoping this latest bloodwork helps make your next bean stick.

Secondly....Whaaaat? I started going to my OB BEFORE I was pregnant. That makes no sense. I had 2 appts with her between my loss and my current pregnancy and she had no problem seeing me even though I wasn't pregnant. You need a new office with that nurse!

 

[blueberry25]

Hey ladies, I've been out of state for a few weeks and just caught up with the goings on. Mtln- I'm so sorry to hear that things are so rough on you right now. Makes me tear up a little just thinking about you. Take good care of yourself and get a new dr. Obviously there maybe something more complex going on than what your current dr is able to help you with.

 

[Womble12]

Tara, I'm so so sorry for what is happening to you. Feel heartbroken for you. Definitely push for some answers, don't accept see what happens next time, 3 times in a row is too much for you to take. Sending you lots of hugs xx

 

[gnomette]

I am so sorry hun I am sending you massive loves an hugs its awful I would tel the nurse to go get fucked an find a new Dr x loves

 

[mtln777]

So the nurse from my office just called and my progesterone levels were at 0.6.Not shocking considering I'm having a m/c and bleeding like a sive.
I see him thursday am and he is referring me to a fertilitly clinic to check the problems......UG hope the wait to get in isn;t forever......

 

[bazzb]

I am so sorry hun but I am glad they are finally sending you to a fertility specialist so you can get some answers XxXxXx

 

[Dollybird]

Aw honey I'm so so sorry to hear that. My heart really is hurting for you so much. Maybe your next time round they should have u on progesterone supps, I've heard they sometimes so that right from the first day of the tww. I know no words can help just now, or make u feel any better but something obviously wasn't quite right this time, and your little angel was wanted upstairs. Your baby will come though, when everything is just right, and you will be so happy and these sad times will be easier to bear xxx

 

[mackjess]

Oh mtln, hugs for you. I'm so terribly sorry you have to go through this again. I pray that the progesterone will be the answer for you and that you get into that specialist right away. I'm in the states as well and the wait wasn't too terribly long for a specialist. I had to wait one cycle while I was waiting to get in, but it flew by really fast.

 

[mtln777]

so after stewing for a bit on the news i am kinda upset.......I mean he is my dr, I've already had 2 healthy pregnancies......Why a fertility specialist I mean I CAN GET PREGNANT I just can't get it to sttick....I think I am going to just see him on thursdy and then ask him about going to se another OB who is willing to take the time to run the random tests and see whta's going on.....The OB I was going to change to helped my friend have 2 healthy babies........I'm not sure I want to go to the fertility speciliast right off the bat....I don't know what do u girls think???? I'm sooooo numb that this point between dr's,blood tests and BLEEDING in general. This is soooooooooooo depressing. HAPPY FUNKING NEW YEAR TARA!!!!

 

[gnomette]

I think the fertility specialist may be worth just going to see what they say maybe they will be able to give you more of an insite into why beans are not sticking xx i am so sorry your going through all this again xx but I would go an see a different Dr next time or talk to your Dr about the way the nurse spoke to you yesterday cause that was not on x sending you all the love an hugs xxx

 

[bazzb]

Sorry hunny not a good start to the new year

 

[mackjess]

I know fertility sounds like fertility, but it must be common for early losses. My ob is wonderful, helped my friend who had two late term losses have three healthy babies, but even she said if I had two chemical pregnancies in a row she'd refer me to a fertility specialist.

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

I would go see the specialist! After my 2 early losses I went and saw a specialist and she was able to run more tests than my normal OB. Then once I got pg we had like 3 early ultrasounds, regular HCG and progesterone tests, and she put me on progesterone suppositories as soon as I knew I was pg. After I was about 10 weeks she released me back to my regular OB. It was just really nice to have the reassurance all the time that my baby was ok, and someone was closely watching to make sure everything was alright!

 

[Womble12]

I would go see the specialist mtln, they are going to have access to more tests and I would think be more willing to explore things. As pray has shown, look how well they monitored her & where she is now. I know you think it sounds ott but its just another doctor who has easier and better access to more thorough tests. Hope you are doing ok this morning xx