LittleBunnie
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So, I wasn't sure if this was the right area to post this or not, but I couldnt find a 'sexual health' tab. 
So here goes :
DH and I have been married for 5 1/2 mons & been together about 8. When we first started getting intimate, everything was fine. About a month into our relationship ( bf / gf ) I started bleeding every time we had sex.
After a month and a half of this going on, DH scheduled an OBGYN appt for me. So I go in, and she says i'm in the clear. She doesn't see any type of infection, and she went ahead and did a PAP. Everything came back negative. During the time we were waiting for the results, DH and I stopped everything sexually.
When we started again, same thing, bleeding. So this time he scheduled a " problem GYN " appointment. Him being in the military, the GYN's tend to be different every time. So, same thing again. GYN told me he saw nothing. Everything looked normal. He told me that once I had given birth, my opening would widen and I wouldn't have bleeding anymore. ( We have been TTC for the past 4 months ). He also suggested lube, which DH and I had been using (sperm friendly lube) & I would still bleed, when I told him this, he tells me " Well maybe your husband is just too big for you. " and kind of just left me in the dark.
When I came out of the room, I told DH everything the GYN had told me, and he was furious. He asked me to wait until we got here ( California ) and he would schedule another appointment.
I'm still waiting to go to the Dr. As we have only been here a few weeks. It just baffles me, on why I would bleed, if both GYN's say everything looks normal, and tests are negative?! It doesnt look like super red, it looks like spotting right before a period, very light pink blood. As soon as we stop, the bleeding stops. I'll wipe up, and thats it?..
Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I have had a few partners before my DH and have never had something like that happen.
So here goes :
DH and I have been married for 5 1/2 mons & been together about 8. When we first started getting intimate, everything was fine. About a month into our relationship ( bf / gf ) I started bleeding every time we had sex.
After a month and a half of this going on, DH scheduled an OBGYN appt for me. So I go in, and she says i'm in the clear. She doesn't see any type of infection, and she went ahead and did a PAP. Everything came back negative. During the time we were waiting for the results, DH and I stopped everything sexually.
When we started again, same thing, bleeding. So this time he scheduled a " problem GYN " appointment. Him being in the military, the GYN's tend to be different every time. So, same thing again. GYN told me he saw nothing. Everything looked normal. He told me that once I had given birth, my opening would widen and I wouldn't have bleeding anymore. ( We have been TTC for the past 4 months ). He also suggested lube, which DH and I had been using (sperm friendly lube) & I would still bleed, when I told him this, he tells me " Well maybe your husband is just too big for you. " and kind of just left me in the dark.
When I came out of the room, I told DH everything the GYN had told me, and he was furious. He asked me to wait until we got here ( California ) and he would schedule another appointment.
I'm still waiting to go to the Dr. As we have only been here a few weeks. It just baffles me, on why I would bleed, if both GYN's say everything looks normal, and tests are negative?! It doesnt look like super red, it looks like spotting right before a period, very light pink blood. As soon as we stop, the bleeding stops. I'll wipe up, and thats it?..
Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I have had a few partners before my DH and have never had something like that happen.
