mommy2lilmen
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I am a mom of 6 boys, I have ocd, I have depression if over worked, I am over worked at times, exhausted, sleep deprived, divorces mother and remarried mother, new mother and ... and more...Tonight I hit my breaking point. Literally.
My 4th son, my baby befor the last 2 babies...he sets me off with his attitude. He acts like hes forgets, perhaps he has forgotten. I cant be certain. He acts like he has add or autizm or something. I say autism because he hollars and shouts and screams and is just in lala land alot. I want to take him to the dr but what do I say ... do I say, hes being a kid and not doing his chores, pickin gon his brothers, defiant at times, and being very vocally whigny? ugh...well I have been battling this scream of his to his stepdad if he tells the boy to do something or asks him why hes done something, or he just shouts at his stepdad if hes angry. Does he have anger issues? he flies off the handle at a snap of a hat. I try to play around with him at times and its a touch and go situation, either he gets extremely hyper or he just gets upset. could he be feeling left out since I had 2 babies in less than 2 years after him? He flips off the handle at me if I say something to do and he wills tomp or back up and go into places he shouldnt. ....fwd to tonight why i hit my breaking point. He was flipping off at his brother at dinner time. my 4th son knows the routine, no tv at dinner and my 2nd son kept watching tv. I wanted to turn it off but my husband awnted to watch it and I did not want to turn it off even tho he was not in the room. Our dining room is connected to living room...anyways, he kept saying to his brother to turn around and eat. I kept telling my other son to just turn around and eat. then I turned to my other son and told him to ignore it and to stop shouting as I have his brother napping. He says no in a loud squeel says, he has to listen and eat. I said I understand and he just hollared like he didnt comprehend what I meant. his voice and whign got so loud that our dogs left the room, I got up and went into his face and shouted, i said shut up please, ignore your brother, let him get in trouble for not doing what hes told and just continue to do what your told. He looked at me and squeeled sooooo loud that i just smacked his face so hard that it left a hand print and said there now you have something to squeel about. He kept saying mom, he should be eating not watching tv while crying so loudly. I let him calm down and then I called him over to me and gave him a hug. I then asked him what he done wrong and he said nothing. I said do you remember what you done? He says no. This is ongoing daily, he says he forgets. I dont see how he forgets. What is wrong with him? He is this way worse when he comes back from a visit with his real dad. Why is he so persistant to make sure his brothers are listening but he refuses to do it himself? Why is it he is squeeling like this? Why is it he forgets? Is it jealousy, is it neglect, .... I feel so awful for smacking him. I NEVER hit my kids. The squeel got to me and I just couldnt handle it no more. Anyone else with a child similar?
I am a mom of 6 boys, I have ocd, I have depression if over worked, I am over worked at times, exhausted, sleep deprived, divorces mother and remarried mother, new mother and ... and more...Tonight I hit my breaking point. Literally.
My 4th son, my baby befor the last 2 babies...he sets me off with his attitude. He acts like hes forgets, perhaps he has forgotten. I cant be certain. He acts like he has add or autizm or something. I say autism because he hollars and shouts and screams and is just in lala land alot. I want to take him to the dr but what do I say ... do I say, hes being a kid and not doing his chores, pickin gon his brothers, defiant at times, and being very vocally whigny? ugh...well I have been battling this scream of his to his stepdad if he tells the boy to do something or asks him why hes done something, or he just shouts at his stepdad if hes angry. Does he have anger issues? he flies off the handle at a snap of a hat. I try to play around with him at times and its a touch and go situation, either he gets extremely hyper or he just gets upset. could he be feeling left out since I had 2 babies in less than 2 years after him? He flips off the handle at me if I say something to do and he wills tomp or back up and go into places he shouldnt. ....fwd to tonight why i hit my breaking point. He was flipping off at his brother at dinner time. my 4th son knows the routine, no tv at dinner and my 2nd son kept watching tv. I wanted to turn it off but my husband awnted to watch it and I did not want to turn it off even tho he was not in the room. Our dining room is connected to living room...anyways, he kept saying to his brother to turn around and eat. I kept telling my other son to just turn around and eat. then I turned to my other son and told him to ignore it and to stop shouting as I have his brother napping. He says no in a loud squeel says, he has to listen and eat. I said I understand and he just hollared like he didnt comprehend what I meant. his voice and whign got so loud that our dogs left the room, I got up and went into his face and shouted, i said shut up please, ignore your brother, let him get in trouble for not doing what hes told and just continue to do what your told. He looked at me and squeeled sooooo loud that i just smacked his face so hard that it left a hand print and said there now you have something to squeel about. He kept saying mom, he should be eating not watching tv while crying so loudly. I let him calm down and then I called him over to me and gave him a hug. I then asked him what he done wrong and he said nothing. I said do you remember what you done? He says no. This is ongoing daily, he says he forgets. I dont see how he forgets. What is wrong with him? He is this way worse when he comes back from a visit with his real dad. Why is he so persistant to make sure his brothers are listening but he refuses to do it himself? Why is it he is squeeling like this? Why is it he forgets? Is it jealousy, is it neglect, .... I feel so awful for smacking him. I NEVER hit my kids. The squeel got to me and I just couldnt handle it no more. Anyone else with a child similar?