kfs- I haven't barely told anyone yet about the ART because I want to wait to know if it's working yet. I will tell my work if I'm pregnant since they might wonder about all the appointments otherwise. Through the IUI process, I didn't tell work, and managed to have most of the appointments early morning/weekends or took s/l and called them Drs. appts which is what they were. I would tell close friends and family most of the cycles though.
And our story is basically we lost track of time--we met in early 30s, then I went to grad school for 2 years, then it took a year to find a permanent job (blame it on the economy!), then she found out she needed fibroid surgery before starting, we got married, bought a house, and finally started around 39! I had no clue it would be hard to get pregnant. My mom had her last child at 41.
I'm feeling like I have a low-grade fever (2dp5dt) again today. Anyone else have that? I'm hoping it's because the good kind of aliens are invading...